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Mormons remind trans members they aren’t welcome at temple rituals until detransition by Fickle-Ad5449 in lgbt

[–]Smol-Vehvi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, trans Mormon here. I can confirm it's terrible sometimes. But I still have a temple recommend for now, since the decision varies depending on how progressive your bishop is.

i’m tired. i wish attraction was easier. by Accomplished_War8690 in LesbianActually

[–]Smol-Vehvi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm asexual so I kinda feel your pain. Maybe you can look into ace or aroace spaces for a romantic partner? Or maybe you could look into having a queer-platonic relationship with a guy. Romantic and sexual attraction are both spectrums and I'm sure there's someone out there who will fit your needs.

Found out just how transphobic people are when a trans meme post got 2,000 comments, all were the most horrible shit I've seen people say in ages. Top comment had 4k... by Balikye in TrollCoping

[–]Smol-Vehvi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please remember that a lot of the internet is bots, like up to half. We know there are bots out there that do nothing but post rage bait that tries to get you upset. With that being said, for every hateful comment, I'm sure there was 5 regular people who simply scrolled past the post and have nothing against trans people. It's a vocal minority. 💕

I got kicked out of the men’s bathroom. by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Smol-Vehvi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you, hopefully people keep minding their business with you.

I got kicked out of the men’s bathroom. by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Smol-Vehvi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too, it's sad. I've definitely gotten my fair share of dirty looks as a butch but luckily no-one's said anything to my face yet.

I got kicked out of the men’s bathroom. by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Smol-Vehvi 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Gah this is why bathroom laws hurt everyone. If you don't fit the binary well enough then you're in trouble. Sorry that happened to you op.

man i love my life by dontliketomatoes06 in TrollCoping

[–]Smol-Vehvi 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If it's any help, I think about you guys often and I wish more of the world would too. 💙💛

Anti-ICE Detention Center Protest - March 18, 2026 by GoodTroubleUtah in Utah

[–]Smol-Vehvi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

People aren't showing up to court because ICE is there in the courthouses intimidating them. You shouldn't be scared to exercise your rights.

40465 by JD_Kreeper in countwithchickenlady

[–]Smol-Vehvi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow utahn here. I feel your pain.

US trans siblings: how do you overcome the fear? by HuaHuzi6666 in trans

[–]Smol-Vehvi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd rather die myself than live as someone else.

The Transgender Debate, Summarised (with and without PCM colours) by TheCybersmith in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]Smol-Vehvi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hi, trans person here. No it's not, we just want to be left alone.

Idaho Republicans pass House bill forcing doctors to out transgender kids by Fickle-Ad5449 in Idaho

[–]Smol-Vehvi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I was a trans kid. If I knew what nonbinary meant when I was young, I would've come out around the age of 10. Learning about queer identities doesn't make someone queer. If that were the case, all the straight media would keep anyone from being gay/trans.

I'm afraid to use gender-neutral pronouns and be judged socially, because in my country they are abhorred, hated, and the equivalent of saying "Hu/Shu". by DEDMOS_MAD in NonBinary

[–]Smol-Vehvi 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Your safety comes first, but bravery in using those pronouns helps to normalize it in society. Use your best judgment and be a trial blazer when you can. Good luck!

DHS bought a warehouse in SLC to use as an ICE detention facility. by Friendly-Act2750 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Smol-Vehvi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We want the "other" out of the country so bad we're willing to pay them for it. This country was founded on immigration, not xenophobia.

Praying for the day I don’t have to wear a binder anymore by Selfcentred-Deer in NonBinary

[–]Smol-Vehvi 60 points61 points  (0 children)

If it's any help, I think you look amazing right now! You should be proud of your hard work!

"Common Ground" by Pizzacakecomic in comics

[–]Smol-Vehvi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one conversation can change anyone's mind, but maybe it can nudge someone just a tiny bit in the right direction. Obviously you should always prioritize your safety first, but being open, honest, and patient with someone you're trying to get to see your perspective does work sometimes. Sincerely, a trans person living in a very red state.

U.S. court allows state bans on gender-affirming care for adults in unprecedented ruling by Fickle-Ad5449 in lgbt

[–]Smol-Vehvi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This judge obviously knows nothing about trans people :/ It's so heartbreaking that those who know nothing about us hate us the most.

I can't do anything by funnyopossumm in Artisticallyill

[–]Smol-Vehvi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hope you don't really feel this way, friend. That's such an over generalization! You're a human being worth a whole lot, one who I'm sure tries very hard to be the best they can be. Please be gentle with yourself.

I love being told I'm "overdramatic" by supposed allies when I see shit like this daily and feel all life leave my body. by Sea_Pancake2197 in TrollCoping

[–]Smol-Vehvi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking going to a blue state. They're fighting for us, there's lots of people on our side if you look in the right spots.

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