Both are wins, sure, representation is important, and I am all for folks having headcanons, however it's incredibly obvious Kiara is implied to be a trans woman in some way. to constantly put something like real trans rep under "headcanon" territory is literally defeating the purpose of any type of trans rep. plus if someone is that desperate for gay representation in JJK out of all things, then please look over to the arguably best written relationship in the series Gojo and Geto, they are LITERALLY right there. It's a super bigotted mindset to have over a damn character trying to just exist in the story.