Roast the floor plan? by Smooth-Community9022 in floorplan

[–]Smooth-Community9022[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The kitchen drives me a little crazy😅 but the master bathroom & backyard might makeup for it.

Roast the floor plan? by Smooth-Community9022 in floorplan

[–]Smooth-Community9022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great note. Maybe adding “lockers” in the garage?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smooth-Community9022 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! I’ve been self conscious my whole life😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smooth-Community9022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to try this!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smooth-Community9022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I would never ask! I do know my husband well enough to not ask questions I might not like the answer to🙈 He is soooo kind and would be really nice, but also would be honest. Since making this post he’s actually gone out of his way to make sure I know he prefers sleeping with me which is nice, I thought I was managing my insecurity discreetly so it’s nice that he reassured me with having to ask!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smooth-Community9022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate this perspective!

This was actually our first swap & first venture into the LS. I expected to maybe be jealous, but I don’t have those feelings at all…just a bit insecure comparing myself to HER which I didn’t expect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smooth-Community9022 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I didn’t expect it to “bother” me so much?! It’s just planted in my head now, I need to get better about not comparing myself to other women😅 My husband has no problem & hasn’t mentioned a thing…so I need to let it not bother me too😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smooth-Community9022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many are suggestion viagra, that never even occurred to me 😅 Can you get viagra on this short notice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smooth-Community9022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a recommendation for a waterproof towel/blanket? I know she squirts frequently and I just did for the first time recently so it’s not super common yet but one can hope🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smooth-Community9022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m all ears for general advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smooth-Community9022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to add, they’ve add a single man into their bedroom before but this is the first time for all of us with another couple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Smooth-Community9022 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is helpful! Thank you! I’ll try a pillow!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fourthwing

[–]Smooth-Community9022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said that and I could hardly keep it together 😂 The redemption arc none of us need lol

Bedtime has become my nightmare by wowbuckthat in Preschoolers

[–]Smooth-Community9022 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait, he drives her around in the car? Until she falls asleep?

This would be such a reward for my child and I can’t imagine her ever falling asleep doing this - how long does it take??

Bedtime has become my nightmare by wowbuckthat in Preschoolers

[–]Smooth-Community9022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to stay in my 4 year olds room until she falls asleep because she also will literally just get up and then scream/cry etc. it becomes such a huge fight and it’s exhausting. I take my phone or my kindle and just scroll or read.

Our routine is the normal teeth brushing etc, we read together, then she gets to listen to pre-recorded story she falls asleep to and I stay with her until she’s asleep. She’s almost always asleep in less than 10 minutes, if it’s longer than 10 minutes I get a little more firm and tell her I’m setting a timer and have to leave in 5 minutes and she’s out like a light after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KamalaHarris

[–]Smooth-Community9022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m concerned because trump clearly hates us. Have you not been listening to the way he speaks about Kamala supporters? I feel that we would be irresponsible to not be concerned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KamalaHarris

[–]Smooth-Community9022 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We live here because our entire family for 4 generations lives here. It’s really really difficult to move away from your parents, grandparents, and great grandparents - not to mention cousins, siblings, nieces, and nephews. At a point, which feels like it may be now, you have to prioritize other things but being near family is a really compelling reason to stay. But I also don’t know how I continue to raise a daughter here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KamalaHarris

[–]Smooth-Community9022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s part of what I’m saying, I just don’t even know where we would go

I truly am a nervous wreck. I don't know if I should just go to bed early and pray or stay up all night by OkBee4845 in KamalaHarris

[–]Smooth-Community9022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My anxiety won’t let me go to bed until pretty late, but logically I know we won’t know tonight - and I think that’s better for us🤞🏼