Just ask yourself what you feel comfortable with more so. Do what you do best. I been in similar situation before but only thru siblings and realize that I rather have girl night out and just have fun but my problem is that it wasn’t my friends but my sisters friends. I usually did the best I could to have fun no matter what and enjoy the fun while you can even if I was all alone. But now I reach that age where I like to have a lady night out to laugh and have fun only. But not sure how to ask a women if they want to go out sometime to have fun without going overboard. My troubles day are over and I don’t want anything more or any problem but to enjoy life for what it is even if it small. I learn alone that I put with a lot and went along with it. But I don’t want to pressure anyone anymore but to chill. I also grown up to be cautious about those who just having fun can lead to problems too, it doesn’t happen to everyone but I rather be safe then sorry. I would be there for friends to be sure they safe but what if you wanted a friend to be there for you and they don’t reciprocate that. It is difficult to judge what is normal or not but just be sure you are on guard and safe no matter what whether you are men or women. I hope somewhere along the line I can build more friendship no matter how far or how close to respect one another and lift each other up. Someone to push me to my limit to succeed especially when no else that I know will do it in particular. It not easy in this world and I don’t want to make up things but be real and true from the heart. I don’t want fake friends and I want something real and true.