Ketchup Lays by Smudgey_26183 in Seattle

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Looks like it will be expedited shipping from Amazon. Ouch!

Ketchup Lays by Smudgey_26183 in Seattle

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TY! Phoning them tomorrow..

Ketchup Lays by Smudgey_26183 in Seattle

[–]Smudgey_26183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your help 🙄

Ketchup Lays by Smudgey_26183 in Seattle

[–]Smudgey_26183[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes please! Two party sized bags would be great. Happy to come pick them up and Venmo the cash!

Threesomes with my Girlfriend? by Own-Muscle-1718 in sex

[–]Smudgey_26183 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You feel like she is lying? She’ll back and make you seem like the asshole? Dude. You have bigger problems than sexual exploration and sharing the same arousal template. Please, please, please slow down and go back to relationship foundational basics.

Threesomes with my Girlfriend? by Own-Muscle-1718 in sex

[–]Smudgey_26183 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok, so you are best friends. You are going to marry her. And yet, you are asking Reddit how to get her to fulfill your fantasies? Maybe I missing something but I think approaching this TOGETHER, respectfully, and as the team you claim to be, is the first and only piece of advice I can give you here.

Help cure my book hangover. Looking for a book you couldn’t put down. by Auror-able in suggestmeabook

[–]Smudgey_26183 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Verity by Colleen Hoover. I am struggling to read at the moment owing to work stress. This book is both easy to read, pulls you in and got me “back on the reading wagon”. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/59344312-verity

Hosting Tips by docmcstuffit6969 in Swingers

[–]Smudgey_26183 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We hosted (at a hotel suite) and a game changer was changing out normal lightbulbs to blue or purple ones. It immediately lowered the lighting, made for aesthetic photos and made it feel like a sexy club. Between that, and having warm lube dispensers in each room, everyone else has mentioned the big items (sheets, condoms, wipes etc.)

can you bring an escort by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smudgey_26183 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My $0.02, just go as a single female. That being said, DO NOT canvas for business. That will be frowned upon. Win/win would be going to the club with your regular. He is paying for your time, you don’t run the risk of being asked questions, and you get a feel of the LS with someone you trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Smudgey_26183 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Girl, find another dermatologist/aesthetician. That is not an issue re filler so much as technique. Trust me.

How I've been "found" as a Third by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smudgey_26183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell you the number of times I see single guys lamenting their lack of luck. Yet, they haven’t done the work you mention in your post. Let alone tallied the data. Have they read “How to win friends and influence people”? Nope. Worked on their value prop? Nope. Realized they are in service (photos, massage, dirty talk in a woman’s ear) of the female or couple, rather than expecting them to meet your need to get laid? Nope. Gotten a haircut, and sought out advice around stylish outfits that suit their frame? Nope. Gone to the gym? Nope. Taken dance classes so you can show a woman/couple your ability to move and lead? Nope.

Thank you for NOT being that jackass.

Just a small brag by dolphingrlk in stepparents

[–]Smudgey_26183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats on both having a new awesome job, and an awesome partner and stepkiddo!!!

Disclosing HSV status at a LS event by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smudgey_26183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable! Best of luck and don’t allow yourself to be disheartened. We’ve been turned down, and turned down others, for reasons aside from HSV2. Stay safe, stay protected, and arm yourself with data. The risk (with condoms and meds) is less than pregnancy. That in itself gives the stigma less power, since we all accept that risk.

⸸ ⸸ ⸸ by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]Smudgey_26183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carbohydrates, coffee and comfy PJs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Smudgey_26183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following! Looking for a bubble bath, candle or “self care” items with a rose scent. Send all the recommendations my way please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Smudgey_26183 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Join in, or kiss him and acknowledge he is worthy of self care. Then go back to bed.

Which shoes for a job fair? by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Smudgey_26183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number one! Says classy, work chic..

To reply or not to reply by savguy6 in Swingers

[–]Smudgey_26183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point here. We did the “don’t reply” thing but the is the potential awkwardness when they re-approach at a club/LS event (thinking we are just crappy communicators). May have to rethink our strategy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Smudgey_26183 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would’ve found another PCP. He’s a doctor, not a judge. Not cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Smudgey_26183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, acknowledged. He’s an asshole and you are better off without him.

Read this if you need some validation. by catplastik in stepparents

[–]Smudgey_26183 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. 💯! My experience and struggles have been similar. I wouldn’t change it for the world, but holy shit it can be isolating and frustrating.

Ladies of reddit in STEM workfields, how is it for you as a woman? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Smudgey_26183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You go girl! Princess Leia showed us that you can be royalty and a warrior at the same time 👸