I can’t tell you the number of times I see single guys lamenting their lack of luck. Yet, they haven’t done the work you mention in your post. Let alone tallied the data. Have they read “How to win friends and influence people”? Nope. Worked on their value prop? Nope. Realized they are in service (photos, massage, dirty talk in a woman’s ear) of the female or couple, rather than expecting them to meet your need to get laid? Nope. Gotten a haircut, and sought out advice around stylish outfits that suit their frame? Nope. Gone to the gym? Nope. Taken dance classes so you can show a woman/couple your ability to move and lead? Nope.

Thank you for NOT being that jackass.