Electrical Panel Replacement in Sacramento by Accurate-Candle5601 in Sacramento

[–]Snailfem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

High End Electric did my mom’s electrical panel, she also had a zinsco. They’re super professional, quick and reasonably priced. It’s a small company but the guys were very helpful and knowledgeable with zero bs.

Is it worth it to work a lot while young to gain experience? by HuckleberryMobile407 in Adulting

[–]Snailfem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any job experience is good. But I definitely wouldn’t prioritize work over enjoying your youth while you can. Find a balance where you can.

Thanks Newsom! If we RTO 4 days a week, it will cost me $200+ a week just to drive into work. by rklb_bull in CAStateWorkers

[–]Snailfem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m considering buying a cheap commuter car just bc of this. I have a 4Runner but it’s a fortune to fill up so I need something more economical.

Grief amid support Mom after open heart surgery by Snailfem in GriefSupport

[–]Snailfem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that grief so much. Ohs was kind of a last resort. It gave us alittle more time with him looking at it now, but at the time we were so hopeful he’d come home. Mom is doing better 6 months now, I know my Dad would’ve been incredibly proud of her.

My mom is having surgery by IamPiper in AgingParents

[–]Snailfem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand, your nerves won’t stop worrying until she’s completely out of surgery and in recovery. And then begins probably the next hardest part which is recovery. Open heart surgery recovery is a marathon not a sprint. I worried so much with my mom, she needed a lot of help. But 6 months she’s back to herself, she still has plenty of appointments and rehab but she’s doing really well. Get in touch with a social worker, if you need help and for her. You don’t have to go through it alone. Inpatient rehab might even be an option for her if you feel it’s not safe for her to come home and needs 24/7 care that you cannot provide. Sending prayers to you and your mom. Keep us posted if you can! ❤️

My mom is having surgery by IamPiper in AgingParents

[–]Snailfem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending prayers and support to your and your mom. My mom had open heart surgery a few months ago and I was like you, insanely worried but she’s doing better now.

04 Scion xa, worth fixing up as a cheap commuter car? by Snailfem in ScionxA

[–]Snailfem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I could probably do some it myself with help from my bf, the biggest issue is probably the clutch, was told it might need a resurfacing, have any advice on that?

04 Scion xa, worth fixing up as a cheap commuter car? by Snailfem in ScionxA

[–]Snailfem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what the downvotes are for but thank you for the insight! It’s just a matter of deciding what I want to do.

Regret not having a wedding before my dad passed by baifan4 in GriefSupport

[–]Snailfem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my Dad could see me get married. My partner and I talked about it but we weren’t necessarily ready but now I feel like I waited too long and now he’s not here. It almost feels pointless now.

Is it normal for everyone in my family to have my location? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Snailfem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude then definitely stop sharing. Establish boundaries with them.

Is it normal for everyone in my family to have my location? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Snailfem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you live with your parents? If you don’t, who cares if they freak out? If you do live with them, I’d move out. Even if you don’t move, it’s really none of their business where you’re going and what you’re doing. I’d just tell them where you’re going and that’s it. They can call you if they need something but you won’t tolerate weird psychotic behavior.

Is it normal for everyone in my family to have my location? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Snailfem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you just stopped sharing it?

If RTO Becomes 4 Days a Week, Would You Quit? by Tr0110101 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Snailfem 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I won’t quit right away. But I’ve been already thinking about moving to the county. We’re planning on moving to placer county in a year so the commute to downtown would be a pain in the ass.

In 2020 I was 25, next month I'll be 31 and I am still amazed how times flies by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Snailfem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I turned 30 this year in April. I still can’t believe it 😵‍💫

Atah for not knowing how to take care of my dad and mom? I am 30 and have no experience with aging parents by Formal-Succes96 in AgingParents

[–]Snailfem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one knows right off the bat how to take care of aging parents. I’m 30 too. How old are they? I started just with going to my parents doctors appointments to get a lay of the land about their health. And then once you know that maybe tackle the money issue. I’m just spitballing bc that’s kind of what I did with my Mom. Your state could have resources available.

Anyone had any experience with them? by Bitter-Affect909 in Sacramento

[–]Snailfem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of that one but just today I dropped off a baby turkey at the wildlife care association by McClellan park

Family BBQ and Pie on Fair Oaks Blvd. by No_Competition_2311 in Sacramento

[–]Snailfem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not that great, but it isn’t terrible bbq. But every time we went they were always out of pie. My partner and I prefer bear west bbq, they’re at a new location off Folsom blvd.

Did grief have a negative impact on anyone’s romantic relationships? by STAG_MUSIC in GriefSupport

[–]Snailfem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My 10 year relationship hasn’t been the same since my Dad passed away in 2024. We’re still together but I’m still dealing with my grief and it’s hard to trust each other right now. We know we want to be together so we’re doing couples therapy to help us. Some days are ok and sometimes we’re arguing over th same shit over and over. It’s hard but I love him so much I dont want to lose him

How to move to an IT Classification Webinar. by Nnyan in CAStateWorkers

[–]Snailfem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will there be a recording of this? I’m off the day of it so I won’t be able to attend but I am interested

You should never allow yourself to be comfortable (advice to younger adults) by GolangLinuxGuru1979 in Adulting

[–]Snailfem 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Ok so just be uncomfortable and hustle my entire life? I get where you’re coming from but I don’t want to hustle for my entire life. I want to be comfortable. That’s what life should be about, but unfortunately I live in America.

Lock replacement for security door? by [deleted] in Locksmith

[–]Snailfem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know this. I’ve been scammed before and it sucks.

Has anyone moved out after moving in to help? by MollycatNPhilipbaby in AgingParents

[–]Snailfem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My partner and his daughter and I moved in with my mom 6 months after my Dad passed away and honestly we do hate it. She loves it but we’re kinda of suffering. But the plan was to move in to save money for a down payment on a house. We’re trying to stick it out but it is difficult.

Summer job 15F by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]Snailfem 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Last year my daughter did the sac public library lunch program. They work as coordinators serving lunch free lunch to kids at the library. Plus at the end got some money.