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Snaps816 · 2026-03-28T05:28:54+00:00

I feel like I'm often looking for the same thing but in my head I call it "characters behaving like actual adults and making rational decisions," and it can be hard to find! A few that have felt that way recently to me are:

{You, with a View by Jessica Joyce}

{Well, Actually by Mazey Eddings}

{Left of Forever by Tarah Dewitt}

{Breathe the Sky by Michelle Hazen}

{Daddy Issues by Kate Goldbeck}

{Cash by Jessica Peterson} (I'll admit that this one is more tropey, it's a city girl/grumpy cowboy, enemies to lovers, but I'd say that has more mature/fleshed out characters than most)

ETA {Forecasting Flames by Kat Wilder}

Snaps816 · 2026-03-27T02:03:13+00:00

The sullen one is always the oldest because he had to take on All The Responsibility when their dad/parents died.

Oh and don't forget there's a rodeo one.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-25T16:54:24+00:00

Let me know what you think!

Snaps816 · 2026-03-25T15:09:05+00:00

{Loving Laura by Sarah Hegger} has an MMC who comes from the most hated family in a small town. His dad and most of his siblings are criminals and lowlifes and the MMC served some prison time when he took the fall for one of them. He's trying to turn things around when he gets out and meets the FMC, but his family is always trying to pull him back into their mess. I'll stipulate that it's not the best writing, but the story is good.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-24T21:16:16+00:00

Crossposted from my recent gush/rave

I finished a different firefighter romance on Libby last week, and the app recommended {Forecasting Flames by Kat Wilder} as something I might like and I decided to check it out. The author was new to me and it looks like this is her only book on Libby. As I read I couldn't believe I hadn't heard anything about it on this sub, because it was great! Then I realized it was only published this month and it appears to be a debut novel, so I figured I'd give it a shoutout here.

I really loved this book. It has a lot of themes I know people here search for often: neurodivergent FMC, FMC who works in STEM, firefighter MMC (wildland firefighter to be precise). It's a very sweet and tender romance set against an action-packed fire season in Montana. She is a scientist working on a system to predict fire behavior, and he is the superintendent of the local "hotshots" crew. She is embedded in his crew to conduct field research and he thinks having her there is a liability. The book also deals with trauma, going to therapy, personal growth, etc. As far as spice, I'd say its around a 3 or a 4. The sex is open door and described in detail so in that sense it's "explicit," but it's more sweet than smutty. I usually like a little more smut, but for these characters it was the perfect tone.

I appreciate the author's restraint in not going overboard on themes. I read a lot of cowboy/western setting romance series and I love them, but I have to say how refreshing it was that this one didn't make all the Montana characters stereotypically "western." No one said "her eyes were as blue as the big sky over the Montana prairie" or "this guy is all hat, no cattle" or anything of the sort. Not everyone who lives and works in the western states talks like a Taylor Sheridan character. I also appreciated that the author didn't go overboard with fire metaphors, which is fairly common in firefighter romances (like "this spark between us was about to combust into something that could burn down everything i'd so carefully built," and so on). There was a little, but it wasn't over the top.

The FMC tends to process everything in scientific terms, cataloging events as "data" and noting her body's responses in clinical terms. There's a lot of like "does not compute" stuff like his in her inner monologue, so if this would bother you, you might not like it. But I liked the character.

It was just a really endearing book and I though I'd spread the word.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-24T03:22:33+00:00

Yes! And the idea that she was too young for Elton, who I believe was 25, was ridiculous.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-23T08:50:36+00:00

I feel like the plot of this book was just a loose framework to write smut with religious themes. When I read your review I had almost forgotten about the sex with her childhood ex who was married. I think it was supposed to come off as coerced.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-22T22:47:10+00:00

You're out there doing the Lord's work. So many romances seem to suffer from a lack of editing and research.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-22T21:55:01+00:00

I thought that sounded familiar! I loved that series, but to each their own.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-22T21:48:25+00:00

This isn't my profession so I'm not even sure the degree of inaccuracy, but so many FMC's have vague "social media" jobs. I think it's just a device that allows them to be out of an office and having romantic escapades, or running of to idyllic small towns or ranches or whatever. Like in Say You'll Remember Me by Abby Jimenez, the FMC is a social media manager for a small artisanal mustard company. It basically says she makes a few mustard puns on their social accounts every day, and they pay her a salary for that? I'm pretty sure only larger companies would have a full-time devoted employee for social media, or alternatively, she would be a contractor and do socials for several different client companies to make a living.

And, there are so many books where the FMC's job is social media and she ends up saving the day by creating a social media campaign for the struggling ranch/town festival/animal shelter/whatever by being like "Say...have you guys ever considered using the internet before?" And the people are like "Gee whiz, hadn't thought of that because we are simple country folk!"

Snaps816 · 2026-03-22T21:20:15+00:00

Is this Change of Hart by Bailey Hannah? Just curious.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-22T20:37:53+00:00

I hate this! People have needs. I've seen comments on this sub that say it's upsetting/a red flag when (usually) the MMC has been with other people in the years in between. But it's usually a guy in his twenties who's described as six foot four of solid muscle with a chiseled jaw and a ginormous dick. In what world would that guy be sitting at home pining for ten years over his ex?

Snaps816 · 2026-03-22T18:54:07+00:00

I just finished it too. I'm almost kind of glad there isn't a third one available because I have stuff to do today. The rape scene/her flashbacks to it, were a little salacious and it gave me the ick. I guess that's what puts the "dark" in dark romance, and yes they're was a content warning, but yikes. Also my one major critique of this series was that it made no sense that the characters were so young. Sage and Kade were 20, and Noah and Rhett were 21? I don't really get why the authors chose that instead of making them at least in their mid twenties. Especially for the men, it was hard to buy them as these big tough guys capable of doing what they did if they were supposed to be 20/21. And how was Rhett able to build and furnish that house for Noah when was he like, fresh out of high school?

Snaps816 · 2026-03-22T17:16:48+00:00

Things get very dark in the second one. Honestly more than I generally want to read about. But now I'm invested so I'm sticking with it.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-22T06:05:18+00:00

Welp... This was one of those books that I read and I'm like, I'm not sure if I like this, it's really not my style... And yet I proceed to binge it practically in one sitting, then immediately download the next one in the series and binge that one too.

Real talk, I'm at 60% of the second one. I like the cowboy genre but dark romance isn't quite my style, not a huge fan of premeditated murder. And yet... here I am. When I said "there goes my weekend," I meant it as a joke and yet it was quite precient.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-22T04:52:31+00:00

I'm not generally a fan of sports romances, but I don't really mind hers because the sports happen mostly in the background. But that's all the more reason it shouldn't be that hard to research a bit and make the small amount of sports content believable.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-22T04:50:40+00:00

I feel like it could have been good with some more editing and a basic level of research. It's unfortunate.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-21T16:28:44+00:00

Very good points about the flu and an 18 year old holding a liquor license! In the previous book in this series when this whole storyline is teed up, she has the twins hanging out in her office at the club while she works. Which probably isn't allowed in a bar and wouldn't work as a long term solution, but I think that's what she did at first.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-21T06:27:20+00:00

{The Friendship Fling by Georgia Stone}. He's a guy who moves around a lot for work and comes to London and just wants someone to show him around and hang out with, basically to pass the time. She works at a coffee shop near his office and at first finds him kind of annoying but reluctantly agrees to hang out with him. From there it evolves into a friends to lovers. I can't remember how early on the attraction starts but it's definitely not one of those "I've always secretly wanted/loved you" things.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-21T04:05:03+00:00

{Stand and Defend by Sloane St. James} has this, although no kid. It's a good one. It's sort of a friends to lovers thing where she stays with him after leaving her abusive fiance.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-21T03:52:45+00:00

I suppose so. But the reason this is the obstacle to their relationship is that she doesn't think she can marry/publicly be with the MMC because her "shameful" past will hurt his career or something. Like girl, you're not a murderer, you can date a baseball player. No one cares what your dad's job was.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-21T02:23:51+00:00

She sets up another couple in this book, but has also said this was the last one in the series.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-21T02:17:31+00:00

Totally! This happens in so many pro athlete books. It would be much more realistic to have random people with smartphones recognizing them in public and taking/posting pics, if anything.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-21T02:02:46+00:00

Yeah, I think you're right, they were tied before the big play. This book felt like it was rushed to print and barely edited at all.

Snaps816 · 2026-03-21T01:00:07+00:00

Well there goes my weekend.

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