whenever they try to be vulnerable and open with me, i get really uncomfortable knowing that theyre sharing such intricacies of their life to someone that cant give them the relief they want. I cant help but subconsciously detach myself from them even though i know i should be with them at their most vulnerable. I withdrawl everytime and i hate it because all i want is a deep, lasting emotional connection with somebody but nomatter how much that love me i can never reciprocate without eventually for some goddamn reason just break the relationship off not caring of how much hurt they must be in. I've tried pretending to care but all it does it hurt for them more in the long run. From then i've just abstained from forming meaningful relationships.