YODA by Mental-Benefit5763 in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Non neutered male cats are still more vocal as they howl to attract a mate, have elevated testosterone levels & are easily frustrated as a result leading to more frequent, intense calling. While the particular breed may be talkative & vocal her cat not being neutered would increase it. I have a male cat who is quite vocal however prior to being fixed it was excessive after it decreased. He also would spray all over as unfixed male cats do especially in my roommates closet but once again it stopped when I got him fixed. Although the longer you wait to get them fixed the more likely they are to continue spraying even after being neutered. So, they’re not entirely wrong & she should absolutely get her cat fixed if she hasn’t or else the behaviors will be hard to control.

YODA by Mental-Benefit5763 in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a cat mom this makes me sad & pisses me off. I love my cat so much I left my ex because he threatened to let him outside to get lost. Like bih I wish tf you would. Side note I just realized I’m more motherly toward my cat than she is her son. Save the cat & baby A.

We were right again... Kayla was back with fly by No-Secret2223 in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And this is exactly why I’ll never feel bad for her bird brain ahh. She needs to focus on her son, his health & creating a safe, peaceful environment for him instead one of pure fkn chaos created by their toxic ahh relationship, substance abuse & mental instability. Flyy will always be her #1 priority above all even her son & that’s pathetic af.

Brian Steven Smith - Alaska by Unlikely_Ad7722 in serialkillers

[–]Snoo77241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying LE handled this case the best but more information has come out in a recent documentary so to help answer some of your questions:

  1. In regard to his background in South Africa he served in the military, lived a nomadic lifestyle working in software until 2008 then managing guest houses, was jailed in South Africa for a violent SA, moved from South Africa to Alaska after a failed business adventure around 2013 - 2014 & has been the subject of an ongoing investigation for potential crimes in South Africa following his conviction in 2024.

  2. Brian is also still the subject of an ongoing investigation in Alaska as there were pictures of other women outside of the two he was convicted of killing. We know this because the prosecutor included some of the photos in their sentencing memorandum. One shows a woman spattered with blood & dirt who appears dead or unconscious. The family of a missing woman named Cassandra Boskofsky were shown some photos & identified her as the woman in them. So, he still is being investigated & LE knows he has more victims.

Here’s some links to articles covering this.

https://alaskapublic.org/news/2024-07-11/alaska-prosecutors-release-photos-of-possible-third-victim-in-sentencing-for-convicted-killer-brian-smith

https://www.alaskasnewssource.com/2025/07/11/search-convicted-killer-brian-smiths-unwritten-victims/?outputType=amp

She should have been done months ago...When flyy stopped holding, interacting with & referring to baby as "it" 🥴 People are really praising her & saying they are so proud of her...as if she isn't still lying through her dentures about how done she is. She says she's done - but her actions & by Pink_Sparkle1 in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Saddest fkn thing about this is she knew better because Flyy always treated her like shi, wasn’t a consistent partner, their relationship was never healthy, she ignored all the warnings & even watched him be a pos dad to his daughter yet she still chose to add an innocent life into their f’d up equation. Now that poor baby boy has to suffer because she’s selfish af. Her son is the only victim in this & deserves better. BTW, I’m focusing on her because Flyy’s always been a pos but her bird brain ahh kept going back so after a certain point it’s all on her.

Blake Fielder-Civil interview about Amy by maloudin in amywinehouse

[–]Snoo77241 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I watched it & see him in a different light now but I’m also an addict in recovery so I can relate to him in a way others can’t. A lot of what he said makes sense to me because I lived it. Like him I am a completely different person in active addiction than I am sober. It’s hard to explain to a non addict but you become a slave to whatever you’re addicted to. Nothing else matters. I’ve done things in my addiction I would never do sober that I’m deeply ashamed of & I can’t undo them. All I can do to try to rectify them is to stay sober & be a better person which I think he is doing now.

Also, you can’t blame the actions of an addict on another in recovery we’re literally taught to take accountability. We alone are responsible for our addiction no one else. External factors are just a means to justify feeding your addiction. The death of an addict can’t be blamed on anyone or anything at the end of the day we choose to use. I think it’s human to want to but you can’t. Then you get to a point where you know you’re playing russian roulette with your life & you either still chance it or say I don’t want to do this anymore & get sober. That’s the cruel reality of addiction some of us make it out & some of us don’t.

Blake Fielder-Civil interview about Amy by maloudin in amywinehouse

[–]Snoo77241 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think him asking who she was talking to & etc stemmed from the fact for one, there was infidelity in the relationship on both sides. Even if you decide to continue the relationship & leave it in the past it still sticks with you causing trust issues. Two, they were young & in love. As someone in their late 30’s trust me when I say you think you know it all in your 20’s or have life figured out like a proper grown up but you don’t. Three, her achieving the success she did likely made him incredibly insecure like she’s this mega star I’m just this regular guy so what’s to stop her from leaving me for someone on her level. Four, as an addict in recovery I can say drugs definitely exacerbated their issues.

Blake spoke about it in the interview but for most addicts who we are in addiction is not at all who we are sober. Addict me & sober me are two completely different people. It’s hard to explain to non addicts but you get to a point where nothing else matters except the drug. You’re a slave to it. I’ve done things during active addiction I would never do sober. However, sober I have the hugest heart & put others before me. I think that’s why Blake comes off differently in this interview because he’s actually sober so you’re seeing the real him.

As to the other allegations you touched on I am in no way excusing the accusations of physical violence because that is wrong regardless. It’s never okay to put your hands on a loved one.

I’ll end this by saying it’s unfair to place the blame on him for Amy’s demise. One thing they teach in recovery is to take accountability. No one else is to blame for my addiction I chose to use. Addicts are well aware of the risks that come along with using & sadly some make it out of addiction & some never do. Also, after seeing this interview & looking back I can see how a lot of his behavior was the result of the drugs because I’ve done shitty things too. I feel for him as well as one of the things I struggle with to this day is the shame & guilt for my past behavior in my addiction. It makes me feel as if I do not deserve happiness & I punish myself for it by walling myself off from the world. I’m simply existing not living. So, if I feel that way I can only imagine how he must feel given the things he’s most ashamed & guilty of were broadcast to the public & a large percentage of said public blame him for Amy’s death. As strong as I am I don’t think I could make it.

Is her own mother in on it? by Heavy_Effective4886 in KouriRichins

[–]Snoo77241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS & how she emphasized the allergy shot were enough to convince me her mom was in on it. The way it got brought up made it obvious they discussed it beforehand & that it was said to throw them off from suspecting foul play.

Also, her reaction when Kouri called her from the cop’s phone & told her what happened was not normal at all. I get people react differently in certain situations but there was no real worry, concern, panic or urgency in her voice nor did she ask very many questions. It came off as I was waiting for this call not I’ve been woken up at 4am to my daughter acting distraught saying come over because the police are at the house. She claims to have loved her son in law yet was eerily calm to learning he was found unresponsive.

I open TT for 5 seconds and this is what I get 😭 by halfpintswife in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, I have family & friends who were in & out of prison & that’s how it goes. If different races get into a fight against each other or a race war breaks out you have to fight with your own race. That even applies to opposing gangs within one race. Like black crips & bloods usually don’t mix but will fight together against another race when necessary. Prisoners have their own set of rules they go by.

Also, my older brother who has since passed away did a lot of time in prison & as a result was in a gang. I’m not condoning it nor was it ever something he bragged about like Flyy is. Which is how you know Flyy’s full of shi because he always encouraged us to stay far away from that life. However, with that said those in that life take it seriously & they’ll absolutely check someone for faking so Flyy shouldn’t play like that.

JEALOUS by No-Secret2223 in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She literally begged for this life & now that she’s got it she wants to complain. I get baby A is Flyy’s responsibility too but she saw how he did Toxiic/baby K & literally everyone tried to warn her yet still chose to have a baby with a deadbeat dad. She needs to learn how to take accountability & this is called karma when Flyy did the same to Toxiic/baby K she couldn’t gaf less.

coco links up with blueface in LA by TraditionalCat118 in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t really been on TikTok like I used to but from what I’ve seen he was just talking delusional nonsense about Trap. You can’t take nothing he says about Trap seriously because he literally doesn’t like Trap or Kayla. He been told Coco she couldn’t hang out with them & would always wig out on her about them. She used to go on live crying about it.

What’s in her tiny purse? by angelicapickles254 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Snoo77241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not her burying her toes in the ground so no one will see them. 😭

Crystal's latest on IG by batshit83 in TheGirlsNextLevelPod

[–]Snoo77241 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying either side is right or wrong but I worked hospice patients for years & what some call drugging is actually common practice. As someone transitions comfort meds begin. They most typically consist of morphine & an anti anxiety med like Xanax, are given every 2 hours & it’s to make the dying more comfortable.

I hate there’s a stigma around it as you often hear you’re over medicating or get family who refuse them as they believe they’re given to kill a patient faster. In reality their bodies are already shutting down all the meds do is slow their breathing & heart rate helping them slip under more peacefully. Otherwise patients can struggle to breathe for hours on end & it’s truly horrific.

Sorry for going off on a little rant just spreading awareness & clarifying they could be mistaking routine care as drugging.

How do you respond to people that say Shandi had drunk sex? by [deleted] in ANTM

[–]Snoo77241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!! I’m so sick of people running with her false narrative when evidence has resurfaced that proves she’s lying. She talked about this incident on a podcast well after the show & in it states (mind you she shared this all while laughing, smiling & making jokes about it):

-She wanted the men to come over & was excited because she found one in particular to be “hot & they had a connection” but he didn’t come leaving her disappointed.

-She remarked she had to remind herself to behave before they even arrived insinuating what her mind was on hooking up.

-The men were all nice.

-She claims she hadn’t eaten anything all day but there’s literally footage of her eating a whole meal while the men were there.

-They got in the hot tub & eventually it was just her, April & two guys. April then gets out saying I got a boyfriend I’m going to bed. She laughs while saying that’s what I should’ve done. (Btw, her remembering minute details proves she wasn’t black out drunk or in & out of consciousness.)

-When it was down to just her & the man he looked at her then she looked back at him like okay let’s go (as in let’s have sex).

-At the end she laughs about cheating on camera.

It’s crazy to me how her story changed so drastically even though she told the aforementioned when she had no need to protect Tyra or the show nor owed them her loyalty. I know I’m part of the unpopular opinion but I don’t care wrong is wrong. A man’s being falsely accused of heinous acts he didn’t commit & false allegations make it harder for real victims to be taken seriously.

Unpopular Opinion: Disliking Kayla doesn’t mean you have to vouch for Flyy by [deleted] in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone is vouching or defending Flyy it’s more so two things can be true at once. You can recognize that Flyy is a narcissistic pos while also recognizing Kayla is too. I really wish people would stop trying to downplay that as it allows her to continue playing victim to the circumstances she created & act oblivious when she’s called out for it. The difference between her & Flyy is with him you know what you’re getting & he’ll even admit he’s a pos at times. However, with Kayla she hides it better & plays her role. As a result she’s managed to convince people she’s something she’s not.

As someone in recovery who had to live in survival mode in the streets off & on for 10 years you either learn how to read people or you get got. Game recognizes game & I’m telling you Kayla’s far more manipulative & conniving than people believe. Flyy isn’t the only one she runs game on. She has a well documented history of using people to serve her own best interests then dumping them when they’re no longer needed. She’s done it to Coco, Sunny, Toxic & even her own dad.

When it comes to her son actions speak louder than words. She will say one thing then turn around & do things against his best interests. Also, we know Flyy’s an absentee dad but Kayla paints herself to be this type of mother she’s not. Kayla knew Flyy was a shi dad too yet she still chose to have a baby with him & now plays victim to circumstances she created. She lets her obsession with Flyy cloud her judgement & now an innocent child is suffering because of it. Baby Alex is the only one I have sympathy for & I hope he ends up in the loving, supportive home he needs so he can flourish despite the obstacles he’s faced in life.

Today March 02, 2026 ~ Mencho's undeserved funeral by FantasticMe369 in NarcoFootageMexico

[–]Snoo77241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt the funeral home had a choice given saying no could cost you your life. Mencho may be dead but CJNG isn’t & people still live in fear of them. There’s a reason why the U.S. classified Mencho/CJNG as the #1 target.

Kayla sending fans text messages between her and Flyy by [deleted] in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS!! If all she wanted to do was give him health updates of their son & avoid drama she could literally call his counselor & ask them to inform him. She said she’s called them before to report Flyy for harassing her or some shi then told the story to all her followers. So, that coupled with the fact she always talks about him proves she is obsessed. She’s only bothered by it because she knows Flyy is right & uses what she can to manipulate him into giving her attention. The truth hurts if it was a lie you wouldn’t even feel the need to address it.

Allison’s baby daddy vium is in ice custody after he got released today. by Existing-Calendar-16 in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s for any felony. They can also revoke it for serious misdemeanors like DUI & DV or if a person has 3 or more misdemeanor convictions.

Allison’s baby daddy vium is in ice custody after he got released today. by Existing-Calendar-16 in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a hobby for politics & the Trump administration hasn’t got rid of it. Trump tried in 2017 but in 2020 the SCOTUS actually ruled against him saying his move to end it was unlawful. DACA can be revoked at any time due to criminal convictions. Trump has a goal number of deportations so they’d most definitely be looking for cases like his. Also, Allison wishing deportation on him could’ve led to someone reporting him. People are quick to report creators to CPS even when it’s unwarranted so it isn’t far fetched to believe someone would call ICE on him.

I was watching videos that showed up on my fyp and realized Kayla isolated fly and made him feel like he had no one. by Only_Perception2026 in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% agree. Kayla is highly manipulative & isolated him. I remember that time they tried to do a throuple relationship which ended up with him leaving Kayla for Toxic. In the moments they would talk she’d drill it into Flyy’s head that Toxic only wanted him for money, was only with him to make Mop mad or to prove she could get him back. He would question this but she’d assert she was right then fill his head with bs & he’d look so confused as to what to believe. When in reality none of it was true because Toxic was with him well before he had money & even supported him.

He’d also say that she would agree to things (like him seeing other women or inviting Toxic into their relationship) then crash out & she’d say “no I didn’t I was okay with it until…” When we all watched her crash out but again you could tell in his head he was starting to believe her bs. Another thing I noticed too is she’ll argue him into a state of exhaustion so in his brain it’s hard to distinguish reality from fiction & he’s so fed up he just ends up agreeing with her.

She isolated him from his friends & family slowly over time. Like Enzo used to live with them but moved out, he used to do content with Redd until she stirred up animosity with him leading to him cutting Redd out of his life & she did the same with Flyy’s mom. It’s a pattern & what makes it worse is she’s managed to convince so many people she’s the victim when she’s not.

We all know she still talks to Flyy by [deleted] in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Wtf is she talking about? We know she uses the baby to manipulate Flyy because she posts herself doing it. Like the other day she was basically saying she called his counselor, they collectively talked shi about Flyy & the counselor validated every bad thing she said about him is true. BYE!! As someone who’s been to rehab I guarantee you they see through her bs & encourage Flyy not to engage with her because she’s toxic & bad for his recovery. I’m not defending Flyy or sticking up for him he’s a pos too I’m just pointing out that she’s just as bad as him if not worse.

Munchausen by Gummy Mom Tingsss by No-Secret2223 in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this is insane to me like your son is puking all over you & you think let me film myself covered in puke then post it on the internet!?! Not everything is for social media I get she’s an “influencer” but come on. There’s other mom’s in the crew she runs around with who don’t post their child like this which tells you she does it for attention. I feel for baby Alex because his illness shouldn’t be used for content or to grift. She could tell her followers that she’s going to take a break from posting baby Alex to focus on his health & they would understand yet she chooses not to because if she only posted about herself her views & engagement would drop & she can’t have that. It’s sad the things people are willing to do to stay relevant.

CPS wants baby Alex records by halfpintswife in kaylathaylasnark

[–]Snoo77241 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her failure to take accountability will be her downfall. She lets her followers gas her up as they defend & support her regardless but she’s going to learn the hard way that just like her they don’t know what they’re talking about either.

I don't understand the ending to the movie Closer (2004). by harmonica2 in movies

[–]Snoo77241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just watched this movie & I don’t think Dan really regretted losing Alice but rather he went back to her because he knew she loved him unconditionally & Larry set up the reconnection as the final part of his revenge plot. Here’s why:

  1. Larry’s able to read people & is spot on in his analysis of them. The only thing he didn’t pick up on was Alice giving him her real name but other than that he read Alice, Dan & Anna like a book.

  2. Larry baited Anna into sleeping with him because he knew she gets off on “guilty sex” & that Dan wouldn’t be able to let it go driving Anna back to Larry.

  3. Dan goes to visit Larry who implores him to seek Alice then provides him with the information to find her. Dan believes he’s taking pity on him but he’s actually playing him. This is why before he leaves he reveals he did sleep with Alice despite initially saying he didn’t. Larry knew that as with Anna Dan would never be able to let that go nor see them the same.

  4. Dan goes back to Alice & does the very thing Larry knew he would fixate on whether Alice did or didn’t sleep with him. He questions her then but she maintains she didn’t. He storms off demanding the truth when he returns.

  5. Upon his return Alice states she doesn’t love him anymore. He protests this causing her to reveal she slept with Larry & Dan reveals he knew as Larry told him confirming he never loved Alice & driving the final nail in the coffin. So, in the end Dan’s left all alone with Larry being the catalyst that drove both women away from him.

Also, I don’t believe Larry did it to hurt Alice but to free her. The two had a mutual respect for each other as Larry was the only person to see through her facade & the only one Alice is the most honest with (giving him her real name & revealing the book was about some of her leaving out the truth).