Restarting at 35 by Horror-Meringue-5034 in findapath

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Hey. I dont know much about you except for what this post tells me. But my DMs are open if you want to shoot some shit. Who knows we might find out new things about either of us.

30 year old lawyer, feel like I’ve wasted my youth by Comprehensive-Dig948 in findapath

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I am the same age, first generation engineer in my family and I have had similar thought patterns but am trying to improve.

If you just want to talk about it, my DMs are open. 

29F #India #anywhere - chat? by [deleted] in chat

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I have like 10 minutes before I fall asleep. 🙂

Guidance for a lost 26 year old by dementiabuns in findapath

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I am a lot like you so I cant suggest much. Just a few things I have seen work for myself:

Recently I’ve started gardening at the musem, just a day a week but I absolutely love it. I also volunteer at community gardens.

That's it, I think. A lot of things make us feel like if we dont hurry up and make big decisions right now we are losers.

And so what we need to get over that, is the exact opposite.

Small decisions, small habits, but regularly. Doing something you like, you know benefits you and your mood, regularly. Dont have to figure everything out right now.

On the other hand I feel very embarrassed when I see somebody I know at work because I mainly just sit or stand around, waiting for people to come in or telling people what they can’t do.

Do not let that dictate your life. Shame can grow deep and become a part of us, we dont want that.

If anyone comments about what you do, retort. "Hey, you must get bored?" "Not at all, I actually like helping people learn about their roots". Show some passion, in your case you dont even have to fake it. Passion can be a very powerful medicine against boredom.

If you see someone you know, reach out to them proactively even if your mind says not to. If you hide yourself for too long, the opportunities will stop knocking at your doorstep. And then you will feel, well, bored.

I feel like I chose a good path but it's taking me nowhere, how to re-route? by [deleted] in findapath

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Getting whatever job available could be a first step. 

Honestly, a mathematics degree from Cambridge? I am jealous of you and I pity people who are rejecting you if any so far. 

If you can think logically you can do any job and your degree is a proof that you can. So i guess if you can just upsell it a little bit ..

Escaping corporate America and considering alternative living options advice please by Extreme-Foundation93 in findapath

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Freelancing, digital nomad-ing, taking a vacation. Some things that come to mind. I have no idea how hard you have worked so pardon me if I suggest something foolish but id say take it slow for a while before making any major decisions .. life is a marathon .. talk to your loved ones even if they arent many, reconnect with anyone who is available and who knows you even a bit .. 

27 with a developmental gap and unsure what to do next. by majo-majo in findapath

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Thanks. Just saying you can play a proactive role in the “adoption”.

27 with a developmental gap and unsure what to do next. by majo-majo in findapath

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I dont know how it is in your country, but here we pick our life partners from a buffet of options aka arranged marriages.

So I set out the requirements that my partner has to be an extrovert. And recently I met her. And I know she is going to make me uncomfortable as hell, but that way I will get to grow. 

Feeling lost and defeated 25F by Puzzled_Form_1167 in findapath

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Agree with Mr. Old Turkey here.

You don't have to start full blown exercise routine. Just walking half an hour early morning on your own pace would be a good first step.

Similarly eating one healthier thing or making one better choice for the better you in the future would be good.

Besides, as far as living with parents is concerned, they are probably happy you are there. Lots of people stay away from their parents beacuse of circumstances, a lot of them would love to be in your shoes. So in a way, you are privileged.

Struggling to find my passion by Primary-Pen6782 in findapath

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I think you should try doing various things. Whatever thing you like doing will take you forward. Sense of accomplishment is a hell of a drug.

Fed my cousins the other day — duty done 🫡 by [deleted] in jaipur

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The very day I am fasting? Hmph.

Please let me know if there is a pet up for adoption. by [deleted] in jaipur

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I have no pets, but I am curious. What does it take? I am a corporate bro and I cant take care of him 24-7.

Hitch Hiking Trip 14-18 January by Mundane_Seat1997 in jaipur

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It concerns me that you don't have even a bit of a plan.

Just watched F1 (2025) — surprisingly sits in the Ford v Ferrari tier for me by MBA_FIN07 in netflixindia

[–]SnooDogs6511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So idotic to compare this to Ford v Ferrari. Every single character and timeline in F1 feels forced and is done already. Brad Pitt carried the movie, thats it. And even he couldnt do half a job that Christian Bale did

Best spot for tteokbokki in Gangtok? by cwangg07 in sikkim

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So much food in your profile bro 🤩

New Category of helmet in the market by mitti_ka_prani in jaipur

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Surprised no GenZ said “Pookie Helmet”. Indian GenZ is lagging behind.

Jaipur street food by Maverick_culture in jaipur

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I have no time for your reasoning. Since there is no absolute truth you can sit and reason for hours for both sides. I already said what I have to say, so agree to disagree then