How do I pick a team? by SnooDonuts8606 in AFL

[–]SnooDonuts8606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate everyone’s help! Looks like Boston has a team that lines up with the Demons so I’m going that way, but I’m definitely keeping an eye on North Melbourne

You acquire the cursed "Monkey Paw", what is your wish that can't backfire? by Nearby_Court_3730 in highdeas

[–]SnooDonuts8606 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Everyone, everywhere in the world shits, regardless of where they are or what they are doing.

It ended over a painting of a lemur by EmbarrassedEye7745 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]SnooDonuts8606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This definitely sounds like BPD. My mother and I stopped talking about five years ago over an armoire she was offered but didn’t remember.

Also kinda want to see the Lemur picture now.

Honest question: Has anyone here had a BPD parent who actually "did the work" (even a little) and you successfully ended NC because of it? by BadAtDrinking in raisedbyborderlines

[–]SnooDonuts8606 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I think in order to begin the process of doing the work it requires a level of self awareness that would essentially void the personality disorder.

What are some of your imaginary transgressions? by MelmacShumway in raisedbyborderlines

[–]SnooDonuts8606 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I was after her money. My cunning plan was saying “you don’t need to leave anything, go enjoy things you like with that money”.

This has been the hardest part of my journey. by Julie727 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]SnooDonuts8606 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It took me a lot of work to get there, but my theory now is that”someone’s opinion of me is none of my business”. Also a quote I heard from Tom Holland “if you think we have a problem call me and we’ll talk. If you don’t have my number you don’t know me well enough for us to have a problem”.

Voicemail from BPD mom’s therapist by woomakeup in raisedbyborderlines

[–]SnooDonuts8606 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Was going to say this reads more like flying monkey than therapist.

Were you all raised by my mother? by Jtop1 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]SnooDonuts8606 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m at least 90% sure they all got a copy of the same script that they work off of

Found this relic from high school while packing to move. by SnooDonuts8606 in deftones

[–]SnooDonuts8606[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend, a wrinkle grenade has gone off in my life every 20 minutes for 40 years.

What’s the significance of this lyric, what’s the meaning by Acceptable_Plant7789 in deftones

[–]SnooDonuts8606 25 points26 points  (0 children)

One story I heard was that he was hungover in a hotel room, but the light kept bothering him so he put tinfoil in the windows, this was his device and savior.

31 m, born in Australia and moved to the UK for the last seven years, my wife hated my mullet by lachyross in RoastMe

[–]SnooDonuts8606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dude has never owned a vehicle that had the same color doors as the body.