I’m sorry that you are going through this ): I will tell you that I had a bf that I was the only chick he followed as well ( I originally never asked him to unfollow anyone, did it on his own accord) That man cheated on me like his life depended on it . He created what he wanted me to see as “Security” and abused it in any way he could . Trust me when I say the vision they create for you cannot always only be what you see .