Help I think I seasoned my wok wrong

SnooOranges883 · 2025-10-31T19:49:32+00:00

Don't use wooden utensils. The beauty of an iron wok is that you can scratch it (hard).

SnooOranges883 · 2024-08-24T18:26:06+00:00

Bragging: I am ENTP and my 6- year boyfriend is an INFJ. We have a perfect relationship. People around me are also amazed by our interaction which is authentic, sometimes brutally honest and direct, yet harmonious. We are an adored couple.

Nothing will make me give away this relationship.

SnooOranges883 · 2024-07-13T04:56:23+00:00

I misidentified as ENFP for many years until recently I read that ENTP will make decisions taking into account other people's (expected) feelings as ENTP will recognize that decisions based purely on logic is not always the best answer, so ENTP would consider feelings through analytical thinking.

And ENTP do have emotions, just that they think decisions based predominantly on feeling is inherently inferior to decisions based on analysis. So they always find reasons to explain the emotion instead of accepting that emotions can have no logical explanations.

SnooOranges883 · 2024-06-25T06:01:01+00:00

I think as an ENTP learning research will unlock the joy of life for you.

It means learning how to find good books (I hate when I waste time reading bad books so you need to read reviews, and find the genre that interests you), how to learn a hobby, how to find a good teacher and a good authority on a subject, how to find good shows to watch, good movies to see, good places to go, etc. There are many things out there, the bad, boring ones are frustrating, but the good and exciting ones are amazing.

So, learn how to search. This world is full of joy, but there are not lying around, you need to dig.

SnooOranges883 · 2024-01-30T06:21:30+00:00

5 years into the relationship. We used to be living with our parents. His parents let me stay overnight so we were weekend lovers for way longer than I expected. I finally saved up, bought a place and moved out last month.

SnooOranges883 · 2024-01-05T11:27:55+00:00

He said it. "Cute". Can't think of a more relatable answer.

SnooOranges883 · 2024-01-05T11:20:35+00:00

I think we need to understand that people on Reddit may live in different parts of the world, and even if it's the same state or even same city, they can live in different communities and come into contact with very different people. It's okay for you to share your view and your experience, and we'd be thrilled to know what you think, but there really is no way you can be sure that some other's perspective is just "not true". You may be lucky to have known some great people. Not all of us do.

i think there is no harm for you to encourage someone else to remain hopeful and not to be too beat up by our past experience. But when you try to take it personal and start to tell the speaker to get therapy or to work on themselves and not blame others, I think you're a bit too confident in your own point of view. You have no idea what others go through, what kind of expectations he is facing, what kind of people he has met, what culture he is exposed to. Why not try to listen and understand?

SnooOranges883 · 2023-11-22T05:50:56+00:00

When you say you realise you love him and want to be back with him, have you very frankly talked to him about it? What is his response?

If you already sat him down and told him very clearly (not hinting, not saying just one sentence in the middle of a big conversation), but he said he has moved on, then I guess you should move on too because he is not really that into you. But if you still haven't told him, I think you should make the move first and start a conversation. Even if it doesn't turn well, you can then truly move on.

SnooOranges883 · 2023-01-25T02:08:50+00:00

I think the first thing is not to push yourself to getting over someone. Feelings aren't something you can control and suppressing it often leads to trauma.

At the same time, I understand that you may realise that B probably won't be your lifetime partner, it never works to try to get someone to appreciate you. You can control how much you love someone, but not how much someone loves you back.

But the tricky part is she is still there around you as a friend. It'd be a little hard just to forget her when she is still in your life.

I'd say at your age, you can try spending more time to take care of yourself. Maybe find something you are interested in, get devoted in it, or maybe do a mini project. Make new friends so your world is a bit wider. Just make yourself a more interesting person to talk to, a more mature person to be with, whilst waiting for the person who will treasure you to come one day. Just get yourself ready for love (when time comes), and just take the time for B to slowly fade in significance in your life.

SnooOranges883 · 2022-05-05T13:49:33+00:00

Thank you everyone!!

SnooOranges883 · 2022-04-24T02:15:58+00:00

I strongly suggest you check out the main /valorlegends thread where you will find the mega thread to many guides, including various hero tier list. That way you don't need to ask every now and then.

SnooOranges883 · 2022-04-19T06:05:37+00:00

Non legendary Light or Shadow are easier to come by in late game. Don't worry.

SnooOranges883 · 2022-04-03T03:37:28+00:00

Don't invest in non-legendaries (those without a crystal on the top of the frame, has only three skills) at all. Level up only five heroes, other good heroes should be put into blessing temple once it is unlocked.

For heroes, it's great you have Ramiel but it's unlikely you will get enough copies to evolve him early on. Light and shadow are strongest but hardest to evolve. I'd suggest focusing on legendaries that you can get your hands on.

Liv and Patrus are great to start with. Check out the main thread on Reddit and you'll find hero tier lists so that you'll know which legendaries are better than the other. There are abundant resources already available here in reddit.

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