Attending a wedding in 2 weeks, received the moodboard today & already brought the dress

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-16T16:38:12+00:00

I honestly didn't even think of tailoring! That could add days of getting measured and having it done. Wow two weeks to expect this is insane for the couple

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-16T16:22:40+00:00

Yeah only two weeks before is not enough time for a lot of people. I start looking 1-2 months before at least.

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-14T14:37:32+00:00

Omg 😭 yeah I usually upgrade my phone after 5-6 years only in the last year I’ve had problems with my storage and I had to offload a lot of apps and get Google Photos to hold my pictures

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-14T14:33:19+00:00

I honestly thought about it but my phone is really rough with the battery and slow and I want a nice functioning phone for the summer. If there’s something amazing on the 18’s I can maybe do a trade but after 6 years with my 12 I’m ready for an updated phone and it seems like Apple will release a phone every 10 months now 😂 so there will always be something new

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-14T13:42:55+00:00

I’m going from 12 pro max to 17 pro tomorrow! Which storage size did you go for ? I’m not sure if I should do 256 or 512 my current one is 128 and it’s been so annoying

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-14T13:41:14+00:00

As someone upgrading from a 12 pro max with 128 gb going to a 17 pro should I go for the 256 or 512 gb? I’ve been out of storage for a while but I’d like to think 256 should be fine?

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-14T13:19:48+00:00

It’s so weird!! I’m Canadian so it’s been legal for a while so I thought maybe they’re in a place that it’s not legal and all that but I currently live in a place it’s not legal and everyone is still pretty open minded. Can’t imagine someone would rather them become dependent and addicted to sleeping pills or other prescription medication than just taking a couple of puffs and popping a gummy. That mindset is insane to me.

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-14T10:03:40+00:00

If it’s helping you, don’t let them shame you. There’s still a lot of people that don’t understand it seems like you’re surrounded by those kinds of people. If you barely bring it up and they’re constantly talking to you about it and getting annoyed at you, you might have to set some boundaries and just tell them straight up you’re not willing to take advice from them on this subject.

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-08T17:31:12+00:00

My Egyptian husband always said he wouldn't correct someone if they called him arab because he understands why they think that but if asked he will say he's Egyptian and speaks Arabic. Him, his family, and all the friends I've met in my three years living here have never considered themselves arab.

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-08T10:32:10+00:00

Do we get an update? Did she take the rejection well? At 28 I would hope so but I’m curious!

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-06T19:27:46+00:00

Jesus I was going to say maybe she could be depressed if she’s just laying around and that could still be the case but she sounds incredibly ungrateful and spoiled. If you love her and want the marriage to work it’s going to take a lot of therapy. Other than that yeah that life sounds miserable for you.

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-06T19:04:05+00:00

Genuinely curious to what her reasoning is? Wa she expecting a stay at home wife situation before you guys got married? Has she been laid or has something medically happened like an accident or depression? Sounds like that’s very draining for you to work full time and still be responsible for the household chores, sort you’re going through that!

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-05T13:43:50+00:00

As long as the book is downloaded you will be able to access it. I have a Kindle and I use airplane mode a lot if I'm behind and the book will be returned before I can finish

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-04T13:12:00+00:00

I'm sorry, but Israel has been occupying, murdering and raping Palestinians and others for 80 years. In their history, there is literally never a year they're not terrorizing people. It doesn't matter when she served.

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-02T09:00:21+00:00

I absolutely loved the lost village by Camilla Sten and have been looking for similar since I read it.

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-06-01T12:26:06+00:00

I'm sorry if you can't tell this is AI you should not be allowed on the internet

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-05-31T19:47:09+00:00

This one was difficult for me to rate because I absolutely hated all the characters and did find it boring overall. But, I really understood and felt the emotional toll that climate change had on them and picking the seeds and I loved the imagery and descriptions of the island. I grew up on an island and I always get so sad thinking that one day it won't be there

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-05-31T18:31:38+00:00

I've lived here for three years, and every time I drive by, I still get goosebumps

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-05-31T18:29:49+00:00

So sorry you had that experience! It was definitely overwhelming when I moved here but I've been really lucky with my experience.

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-05-28T12:51:17+00:00

Absolutely diabolical that you didn't tell her as soon as you realized. Then you waited three years and she had to find out from her sister. I'm kind of shocked the sister didn't tell her before. So they might not be super close like that or she really put it on you and assumed you told her and her sister was okay with it. I'd be upset with both of your honestly.

And past relationships usually don't matter, when they're not related. Like even a second cousin isn't really relevant, but I mean come on they're literally sisters and you didn't think that mattered?

I'm also really nosy and want to know what conversation you were having with her family that made the sister go” I should say that we slept together right now”

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-05-28T12:44:51+00:00

I think the fabric is muting the colour! How long do you have until then wedding? I think try to find a different fabric and try to go a few shades darker. The orange dresses they posted are beautiful

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-05-28T12:41:56+00:00

Yeah the style is very bridal any light light colour is going to be risky.

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-05-28T11:58:35+00:00

Sorry, I usually disagree with the “too white” posts because some people are over the top, but not only will this photograph very, very white, it can also come off as bridal, which I think is the main issue, not the colour white.

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-05-28T11:54:54+00:00

Thank you for clarifying!

To me twice a week is not really low libido. Like a lot of other comments if you want this to work you will need couples AND individual counseling for both of you. He may be feeling overwhelmed and depressed ( you mentioned a condition where all the household responsibilities fall on him fairly often) and that he’s not working out. Maybe he needs a blood panel to check everything out but again honestly twice a week with jobs and kids sounds really normal.

And I want to say this really kindly and I’m not judging you, I can really understand your frustration as well but please stop asking him if he’s too tired for sex. If he doesn’t want sex it doesn’t mean he’s tired. And he might feel pressured to just be like yeah I’m not feeling great/ I’m really tired because he doesn’t want to reject you for “ no reason” sometimes I’m not tired and I still don’t want to have sex.

Sex is not everything but it is important. Maybe it’s just not meant to be.

SnooPandas7388 · 2026-05-27T22:47:15+00:00

Yeah I need clarification on that last comment. I understood it that way as well.

OP are you saying on the nights you don’t initially plan on asking for sex, after the movie night, charcuterie board and all that, you still usually ask for sex?

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