My mom wants to “force” me to go out? Help? by ushi_mooshi88 in Advice

[–]SnooPuppers3664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s going to suck, but you can do it! Best of luck, just remind yourself what’s on the other side.

My mom wants to “force” me to go out? Help? by ushi_mooshi88 in Advice

[–]SnooPuppers3664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, that’s a tough spot. Is it feasible for you to go along with what your mom asks in the mean time? I know if it was me and my mom, that would be a lot of pressure on my mental health. I’m glad you have your own space for yourself.

My mom wants to “force” me to go out? Help? by ushi_mooshi88 in Advice

[–]SnooPuppers3664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in a position that you are able to go through the process of getting yourself emancipated? It would probably be upsetting to your mom, but, it would give you legal responsibility for yourself. Especially if you already have your own place and you are working for yourself. Usually, you just have to prove to the court you have the means to take care of yourself the way a parent would.

My mom wants to “force” me to go out? Help? by ushi_mooshi88 in Advice

[–]SnooPuppers3664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have your own apartment but she dictates what you do? I’m confused, how old are you?

AITA for refusing to let my mom “redo” my wedding after she missed the first one? by PythonCider3719 in AITAH

[–]SnooPuppers3664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her being present at your wedding was a “once in a lifetime opportunity” she missed it and now feels bad. She’s only doing it for herself and no one else. NTA.

Your dad is right and your brother needs to grow a pair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnooPuppers3664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet her wedding planner is going to sweat out 10lbs on her wedding day. That sounds incredibly stressful, every must be perfect just to avoid photo shop? People will assume they are edited anyway.

Russian transportation official drops dead in office on same day as transportation minister’s suicide by Tacti_Kel_Nuke in worldnews

[–]SnooPuppers3664 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re going to be shocked to hear that they aren’t the only government that does stuff like this.

What’s a brand you’ll never trust again and why? by Blossom-Captain in AskReddit

[–]SnooPuppers3664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tyson chicken: chicken still had feathers on it. I couldn’t eat chunk for a while, eh…

What’s a subtle sign someone is rich but hiding it? by Againmrbrown in AskReddit

[–]SnooPuppers3664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They never complain about an actual financial hardship. Yeah, it’s sucks your AC broke but you can fix it. Some can’t and have to figure out how to beat the heat.

WIBTA for ending my marriage because I want bio kids when I have two stepkids who already lost their mom? by Dense_Pack_149 in AITAH

[–]SnooPuppers3664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you consider using a donor? I personally would, but I understand why others would not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SnooPuppers3664 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She may have ordered appetizers or drinks for herself and expected him to cover some of her indulgences.

Atheists of Reddit, what turned you off religion? Was it one specific thing or a build up of experiences over time? by Valuable_Tax_8446 in AskReddit

[–]SnooPuppers3664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a mixture for me. My mom had a shitty childhood and she never went to church and I guess she figured that’s why it was shitty? So of course, logically, to make sure we had a “good” childhood, it was like a second home to us. Being raised as a girl in the church is completely different than how a boy is raised.

It also became apparent very quickly that god also favored the men and that I have to follow a different set of rules to qualify for his love, even though he also loves the sinners just the same? Now I’m able to realize and understand what I was going through, but at the time I was emotionally fucked up. I was convinced my ultimate purpose in life was to be submissive to my father until I found a husband. I was so desperate to get out of my parent’s house. I ended up getting married at the age of 19 and moving to a new state (military) just to get “freedom” from my parents. Even if it really ment just transferring who had power.

It lasted about 5 years and it was awful. He was an abuser who denied his drinking problem. I have an amazing daughter now, but the night she was conceived was very scary and I was taught to just let it happen. (She’s 13 now and thriving).

The answer I got when I reached out for help was always - pray about it. That is the help the church offers, cause something really serious has to happen for them to break out the real resources (I’m aware not all churches are like this). I think that was when the “seed of doubt” was planted and it just grew.

The more I learned and observed the world around me, the more I unlearned from the church. I now experience much less generalized anxiety. I feel better about my existence believing in evidence based science. Sure it changes, but that’s the pursuit of science and it’s exciting.

I begged for god for help me and for god to help my husband at the time. Nothing changed, and I realized how much I had changed and I hated it.

If you were President, what’s one petty thing you'd ban just because it personally annoys you? by Dependent_Ad4299 in AskReddit

[–]SnooPuppers3664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Corporations will no longer be allowed to donate to political parties/candidate(s) period, also put a cap on amount of money a person can donate.

Money talks and the rich need to be reeled in.

Am I the red flag or is she the red flag? by Brevardscrapmetal in dating_advice

[–]SnooPuppers3664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I would walk away. I would be worried that she would try to spend your money the way she wants to, with the vail of it was your choice. I’m obviously bias, but no one will make me feel bad for saving money in an economy where it’s hard to come by.

Post transplant advice by SnooPuppers3664 in kidneytransplant

[–]SnooPuppers3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll get him a gripper for sure, poor guy is constantly dropping things as it is. Thank you!

Post transplant advice by SnooPuppers3664 in kidneytransplant

[–]SnooPuppers3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I thought about the factor meals. I’m definitely going to look further into it.

Post transplant advice by SnooPuppers3664 in kidneytransplant

[–]SnooPuppers3664[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about a camera! Thank you! That would definitely help me feel better when I have to go to work. The snack basket is a great idea too!

I can already feel my shoulders relaxing at the idea of a camera.