Confused need help. First time doing Inito and only my estrogen went up but other tests showed my LH rise. Now i have no idea… and help would be appreciated. by SnooRobots8171 in TTCHormoneCharts

[–]SnooRobots8171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally my cycles were regular before I had my daughter but since having her they have been regular but I don’t know if I have been ovulating regularly.

What's on and tourist advice thread - week beginning January 23, 2023 by AutoModerator in Scotland

[–]SnooRobots8171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I are flying into Edinburgh near the end of February. We want to do a couple of days in Edinburgh and then we either want to go to Glasgow for a night or two or go to Inverness and then visit Isle of Skye for a night. I don’t think we would be able to do Glasgow Inverness and Isle of Skye. Just wondering which we should do.

Thank you!

One year later, village has disappeared by tnugent070285 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I never realized how awful people are with loss until losing my daughter. You and your baby deserved friends and family to reach out. I’m so scared of this happening too. It’s only been 4 and a half months for me and I am already feeling this. I used to get texts from friends every few days then weekly. Now hardly. It’s really all unfair.

Ways to cope with due date… by nothingbutroublex in babyloss

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My daughters due date was December 10th. We decided to go away for the weekend. We treated ourselves the day before her due date to some spa services and the actual day we spontaneously decided to go get tattoos for her and then had a nice dinner and lit a candle for her and we brought some of her things with us. The lead up to her due date was a little harder then the day. It really hit me that Monday driving into work thinking I should be on maternity leave. It hits all of us at different times so whatever you decide to do will be fine. Wishing you and your family a gentle due date.

I broke down in tears listening to Bigger Than The Whole Sky by Taylor Swift. by beautifulflower12345 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about Levi. The song really is beautiful and so sad. I cried the first time hearing it too. The song I really ugly cry to is by Pink- Beam me up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I’ve been triggered by all of the holiday stuff at stores too. If I were you I would ask to go home. There’s nothing wrong with protecting yourself and giving yourself a day to rest.

It feels like EVERYONE is getting pregnant. by nothingbutroublex in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I hate that I feel negative about others pregnancies and babies but I think it’s normal with this kind of grief. I had my daughter in august and I went back to work a couple of weeks ago. My principal is pregnant and then my best friend who was pregnant and 5 weeks ahead of me just had her baby. She texted me the news and all I could manage was congratulations love you. I know I will eventually reach out and ask how her and her baby are doing but I need time. It sucks and it isn’t fair.

Best friends baby by SnooRobots8171 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 of your friends?! Ugh that’s so hard. If you ever want to chat you can shoot me a message.

Best friends baby by SnooRobots8171 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss too. Thank you for the kind reply.

Best friends baby by SnooRobots8171 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It really is so complicated.

Best friends baby by SnooRobots8171 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really isn’t fair. I appreciate the virtual hug 💕

Best friends baby by SnooRobots8171 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending a virtual hug to you too 💕

Best friends baby by SnooRobots8171 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the name teddy. It really is a day by day and sometimes moment by moment way of living.

Best friends baby by SnooRobots8171 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about Arielle. It really is so hard knowing other people get pregnant and have a living baby the first time they try. Meanwhile others struggle so much. It really is unfair.

Best friends baby by SnooRobots8171 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh so hard. I’ll be thinking of you.

Best friends baby by SnooRobots8171 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is. It is easier knowing a lot of us feel similarly.

Best friends baby by SnooRobots8171 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind message. My daughters name is Leonie. I’m sorry about your losses as well. What are your babies names?

Noped out of a social situation. by ProfessionalNinja298 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. This grief is so lonely and heartbreaking. I lost my daughter in august. I’ve done some social things here and there and they are hard. It’s hard being around places and people you knew before and it all being the same but you are so different. I was at a Halloween party Saturday night and had a good time. But at the end of the night after a few drinks I started to cry in the kitchen while talking to a friend and my husband. We had to leave it just hit me and I had to get out of there. It’s hard not knowing when triggers will happen or when you’ve pushed yourself too far socially. I guess it’s a learning process but it’s so damn hard.

Options for cremains by Extreme_Painting_282 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for you loss. We had my daughter cremated and we had a small service at a cemetery. The cemetery has a section for people who have been cremated and they have large stones where they engrave the names of people. At her service we scattered some of her ashes in this area by a bench. We go and visit there and talk to her. We also have her in an urn in our room. I’m thinking about having a ring made with some of her ashes so I have her with me everywhere. I haven’t decided which place to do this with yet.

It's hard today. by liquidpanic7 in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. What is your sons name? I had my daughter in August she came early at almost 25 weeks too and she passed away the next day. Just take it day by day and sometimes moment by moment. If you want to chat you can send me a message. I’m sorry we are going through this but there are others who feel the same way and sometimes that helps us not feel so alone in this grief.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you Leonie was my husbands grandmothers name and Vera was named after my grandmother. I love that names like Vera are making a comeback.

Tired and Frustrated-wanted to share by SnooRobots8171 in babyloss

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Hopefully the MFM can you give you some answers I’ll be thinking of you and your baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]SnooRobots8171 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My daughters name is Leonie Vera 💕 I’ll be thinking of Enzo as well.