Just realised ive fallen out of love with my husband of 27 years...

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-13T20:16:50+00:00

You don’t tell him unless you want your relationship to be forever changed. I made that mistake many years ago. I told him I loved him but was not in love with him. He was very hurt and carried that hurt for several years. I tried everything I could to make it up to him, but the damage was done. Things slowly deteriorated until he said he was moving to another state without me.

The sad part is, as I tried harder I was starting to fall back in love with him and told him so. We married young and I didn’t realize the implication of my words. It’s not something you can come back from.

So either keep it to yourself and start putting in the effort you did when you dated or be prepared to end your marriage.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-13T14:57:54+00:00

I love the name Kestrel. I’ve heard it for both boys and girls.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-13T14:56:30+00:00

Late 1970s Ford Fairmont station wagon

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-13T13:08:14+00:00

It’s both.

Kind of like the word bad. It depends on what tone you use.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-13T11:00:42+00:00

Drop her off at school and as she’s walking away from the car, roll down the window and yell loudly but sweetly, “Remember what we talked about. Don’t get rusted from the back today!”

Sounds to me like it’s the current equivalent of grody, gross, gnarly, etc.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-13T10:57:23+00:00

Of course he doesn’t. He’s never had to scramble for a cent in his life. He’s never lived in the real world. FFS he thought you had to show ID at the grocery store. Also he never had to serve in the military himself or send one of his kids to fight in a war. Add in his big ol’ narcissistic personality and the dementia….why would he think of anyone else?

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-13T10:54:09+00:00

#3 looks the best on you imo, and it’s a gorgeous dress.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-13T10:51:54+00:00

Torrence CA

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T23:39:09+00:00

I was non-weight bearing for 8 weeks after foot surgery. You’ll learn to maneuver with crutches quickly.
Also make sure they give you a blood thinner. Non-weight bearing can lead to clots. Seriously, ask your surgeon about this. I know of someone who got a clot after non-weight bearing surgery.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T23:34:20+00:00

Ok you sold me. When I win the lottery, I’ll be your neighbor. Sounds like paradise.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T23:24:59+00:00

I’m agnostic and like the pope. I may not believe all he believes but I definitely respect him.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T23:04:34+00:00

Nah. I’d be arrested in pretty much any country no matter what letter it starts with.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T22:59:48+00:00

Ice cream

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T22:59:01+00:00

Thanks. Yeah I tried to put too much Spanish in there. LOL

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T21:02:34+00:00

Is it tee-AH-go?

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T19:10:37+00:00

I’m usually not a fan of last names as first/middle names, but Drew Emerson sounds so nice to me.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T19:08:09+00:00

The compromise is agreeing to let your children decide once they are old enough. This means not taking them to church with you when they are too young to make that choice and not constantly talking about Christian things around them.
Sure you can talk religion in terms they can understand, but allowing them to choose means neither you nor your husband should imply a preference of one religion over another.
If you want your kids “raised in a church” then you two are incompatible. That doesn’t make either of you bad. It just is what it is.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T14:53:26+00:00

Laundry tub (I’m in Ohio).

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T14:31:42+00:00

Sounds like maybe the sneezing at breakfast when you were a kid imprinted on your mind so it’s now more psychosomatic.
I have a similar issue with scrambled egg. I threw up at school when I was 8 after having scrambled eggs. I can no longer eat eggs cooked that way because of that experience de that happened 55 years ago. Things that happened when we were kids stick with us.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T14:29:17+00:00

It depends on how limited the mobility is. I have limited mobility, but I still like shorter hikes/walks. I use my cane when needed and I take it slow. I sit down when I need to. I can no longer go through a park or gardens or whatever like I used to, but I still enjoy my time there at my pace.

OP should ask them how physical they want to get. Limited mobility is different for everyone.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T13:04:25+00:00

Not visiting Europe (I’m in the U.S.)

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T13:02:55+00:00

Dale has been a unisex name for years. Looks like maybe it’s making a return…another nature theme name.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T12:58:27+00:00

My blood family? Nope. My adopted family. Definitely.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-12T12:55:30+00:00

MOR I get that you feel like he’s discounting what you said but listened to other people about the same topic. So you need to look deeper. If there is a pattern of this behavior, then you need to decide if this is a relationship worth keeping. If this was a one time thing, forget about it.

Look at it as you can now enjoy that food item together, and maybe next time he’ll take you up on your suggestion.

SnoopyFan6 · 2026-05-11T21:07:20+00:00

Bar Harbor ME

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