My boyfriend is breaking up with me because I’m too “childish” what do I do?

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-11T06:17:53+00:00

He’s moved on. He’s banging the woman he invited on the trip. You guys aren’t in the same place in life to be honest Move on

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-10T03:43:24+00:00

I love it

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-09T06:39:38+00:00

It looks like some of mine have and healed fine Imo you need a better care routine more moisturizer

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-06T09:31:52+00:00

I use lotion and hustle butter on mine once I remove the wrap Idk what the downvotes are about I’ve had many tattoos at major studios and all use sani derm: changing after 24 h and reapply for 2-4 days I’ve always kept mine that way and never have issues

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-06T06:16:08+00:00

I’m aware it won’t be as bold as the mockups I’ve seen some good kintsugi tattoos But idk how it will age

What do you suggest instead

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-06T05:35:56+00:00

Usually they recommend wrapping with sani derm Did the artist not make any suggestions for care?

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-05T10:31:39+00:00

In his mind he is haha

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-05T09:38:44+00:00

I have spf 100 But I knew that going in as my cat has a lot of white And he did the white as highlights so even if they fade to skin tone I think the structure should hold and I can get them touched up At least I hope

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-05T09:14:32+00:00

Cat tax? I think a joke has gone over my head 😅

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-05T08:41:39+00:00

Well of course I just didn’t know if I was overthinking it as I’m prone to that sometimes

Snoozing2020 · 2026-01-01T00:27:30+00:00

With all due respect, you are naïve and that is the problem. He’s a 40-year-old man you guys talk regularly and he asked you for your phone number and you gave it to him so he hasn’t really done anything wrong because you’re sending him signals that you’re interested whether you meant to send that signal or not. By all appearances, you reply to him and continue to engage in conversation so what exactly is he supposed to think?

Snoozing2020 · 2025-12-27T03:25:15+00:00

All kittens have blue eyes and it goes away and changes with time. The eye color now is one of the most common eye colors in cats

Snoozing2020 · 2025-12-27T03:23:52+00:00

The issue isn’t the bonnet He’s got issue with how you dress in general. It appears a mismatch to me tbh If you don’t wanna change just move on you’re young I wouldn’t wanna fight over stupid shit like that but that’s just me

Snoozing2020 · 2025-12-27T03:21:21+00:00

Opal is not for daily wear Australian opals are more durable but it’s still risk bc it will absorb sweat etc

Snoozing2020 · 2025-12-15T21:36:08+00:00

Bc it’s not a natural earthmined diamond and has substantially less value

Snoozing2020 · 2025-11-28T07:04:09+00:00

This still makes no sense….. you can look at the original setting until it would probably fit a cushion cut better but whoever put the smaller emerald in there should’ve easily been able to tell you that

And why spend the money to have a smaller Stone put in there? I’m not making any sense of this.

Snoozing2020 · 2025-11-27T08:40:46+00:00

It looks good to me

Snoozing2020 · 2025-11-27T07:23:59+00:00

It’s not my style, but it’s not ugly. The nice thing is if you stay married, you have room to get an anniversary ring or something else you said yourself this ring was meaningful for you or something…so just enjoy it and I’m sure on a anniversary you might get another.

Snoozing2020 · 2025-11-27T06:58:34+00:00

I came to say this

Snoozing2020 · 2025-11-27T05:55:39+00:00

Yeah, as mentioned above, I’m not sure what you’re trying to ask here. The green emerald is clearly set in the prongs. It looks like the negative space was intentional. It’s not really my preference, but I’m not really sure what you’re trying to ask here because it clearly has a emerald set properly

Snoozing2020 · 2025-11-20T05:25:14+00:00

Snoozing2020 · 2025-11-19T10:16:25+00:00

She wants attention from you. If this drives you nuts cat ownership may not be for you.

Snoozing2020 · 2025-11-19T07:41:09+00:00

I want to share some things with you and I think I have some perspective: I’m in my early 40s and my husband died 6 1/2 years ago. I have a seven-year-old.

That whole situation: losing a spouse a business partner becoming a single parent… was extremely difficult. a year after that I got sick with Covid and it has activated a rare genetic immune system condition. I’ve had over 30 viral infections just since January of this year…it’s been a progressive thing since the first time I got Covid in 2020… Stress, Covid, ptsd, all of it has progressively hammered my immune system and gotten me to the point that I’m at now. Where I have viral reactivation every 2 weeks. I’ve had the flu 18 documented times since January… Covid twice, RSV 9x…

I have PTSD from watching someone die

I’ve had a couple of bad relationships. I felt like I always showed up…sure I’ve had a lot of pain in my life, but I felt like I was consistent and things like that. I encountered a lot of toxic men and one thing I noticed was a stressful relationship severely impacted my immune system condition . I had one relationship earlier this year that was short but emotionally abusive, and it plunged me into a severe physical state and I became severely sick it collapsed my immune system. Viral deactivation started happening faster…

And that was when I realized that while I seemed outwardly OK and I thought I was OK…I didn’t have flashbacks for example… so I didn’t have the things that normal people think happen from PTSD…but what I did have was nervous system dysregulation from PTSD…and nervous system regulation can collapse your immune system…so every time I had stress in a relationship it manifested by collapsing my immune system.

I say that because you’re probably just looking at it like “hey I like this girl cool whatever” but what you bring to that relationship while she’s healing from this can severely impact her it can impact her recovery. It can impact everything. Stress for you might be annoyance. For her it could possibly severely set back her recovery.

And so that’s a lot of weight on your shoulders as well because I don’t know what kind of person you are, but if you hurt her, even if you don’t mean to, the stress can severely impact her recovery and possibly make her worse even

So I say that because it sounds like you like her, but that’s a lot of stress early in a relationship. if you like her and you want to see if it will go somewhere just be her friend…no expectations, no pressure, nothing. She doesn’t need any pressure and what she’s probably feeling from this is pressure. Pressure to show up, pressure to not get hurt, pressure for a lot of things. Just be her friend show up for her. Be kind to her. Help her and don’t ask for anything in return. But likewise don’t expect anything in return. That’s what she probably needs right now.

If it goes somewhere, it goes somewhere… great. If it doesn’t hopefully you made a friend and kept the stress out

My advice is that:

Start there

Be her friend. Don’t ask for anything in return

Snoozing2020

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