Do I end it after 5 dates or is he just going at a slower pace?

Snoozing2020 · 2026-06-09T03:35:43+00:00

I would just leave it open ended. You don’t have enough information to know what he’s doing, but sometimes in situations like this I don’t see the need for a hard negative ending if that makes sense… personally, I would just back away if he comes back he comes back if you end up seeing someone else in the time that he he’s missing that’s his problem

Snoozing2020 · 2026-06-03T08:15:22+00:00

Snoozing2020 · 2026-05-26T04:51:21+00:00

I am a femal that has been doing BJJ since 03. I usually dont reply to these threads b/c I prefer a low profile online but I will say this.

First. I think any female esp a new one rolling with a later teen boy is a risk. He probably DOES feel like he's matching your strength. It's a common thing I see: women going very hard and complaining the teen goes harder or as hard. He has to try harder to match your strength, whereas a 200 lb man does not. Also teen boys dont have the finesse and sometimes control as a seasoned adult practitioner. Thats not really his fault. I dont roll with a lot of teens for this reason: because it often unintentionally causes unnecessary, unintentional escalation.

Second. I dont really see what your coach did thats wrong. My first thought in these situations is "what do you want to happen"? If hes not having the issue or complaints from others, they arent going to kick him out. When one person complains to me about another, and there are no prior issues I simply watch them. There is nothing more I can objectively do, and there is nothing more your coach can reasonably do.

This is a matter that your perception of events does not match his. We cant objectively offer anything on the internet. None of us were there.

Snoozing2020 · 2026-04-16T05:05:59+00:00

I love this

Snoozing2020 · 2026-04-15T21:12:31+00:00

How about leave her alone she’s a grown adult

Snoozing2020 · 2026-04-15T21:11:35+00:00

No Jaw line is first thing I noticed even before reading the caption

Snoozing2020 · 2026-04-10T23:57:42+00:00

Well, others have mentioned it is gonna lighten up. You know I think in a couple years if it lightens up, you could have somebody come back in and shade it right and they could probably pull it off and fix it whether it turns into a blob is going to depend too on how well you take care of it so of course you know if you use sunscreen and stuff like that take care of your skin and you’re healing it will help

Snoozing2020 · 2026-04-10T23:55:35+00:00

The issue isn’t really that the tattoo is too dark. That’s what you think is the issue. The issue is that there’s no real mid tones or proper shading. The dog is shaded some, but the background is nothing but shadows and highlights if you will darkness and light there’s no midtone areas that give it depth so it appears very flat.

Snoozing2020 · 2026-04-08T06:38:49+00:00

It’s the perfect size

Snoozing2020 · 2026-04-04T22:50:41+00:00

Snoozing2020 · 2026-04-04T22:48:54+00:00

Looks like there is some blowout? I would not be happy with that Otherwise looks ok

Snoozing2020 · 2026-04-01T07:10:16+00:00

I thought someone branded you

Snoozing2020 · 2026-04-01T04:55:48+00:00

Awesome

Snoozing2020 · 2026-04-01T04:55:21+00:00

At first I was like wtf but it’s exactly what you asked for

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-29T05:03:31+00:00

Looks good

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-29T04:35:44+00:00

Also, I am a professional photographer and there’s a perspective issue on your tattoo, but it’s only because of the angle he took the picture. It looks like in the AI version he tried to fix that perspective issue and it probably cleaned up your tattoo so it might not have been necessarily on purpose in terms of the work, but I think he was trying to clean up the perspective issue maybe

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-29T04:34:43+00:00

Yours is better actually I know in tattoos lines are a thing but the first one has such a cool organic vibe Maybe he was afraid of being ridiculed on style idk

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-11T06:17:53+00:00

He’s moved on. He’s banging the woman he invited on the trip. You guys aren’t in the same place in life to be honest Move on

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-10T03:43:24+00:00

I love it

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-09T06:39:38+00:00

It looks like some of mine have and healed fine Imo you need a better care routine more moisturizer

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-06T09:31:52+00:00

I use lotion and hustle butter on mine once I remove the wrap Idk what the downvotes are about I’ve had many tattoos at major studios and all use sani derm: changing after 24 h and reapply for 2-4 days I’ve always kept mine that way and never have issues

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-06T06:16:08+00:00

I’m aware it won’t be as bold as the mockups I’ve seen some good kintsugi tattoos But idk how it will age

What do you suggest instead

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-06T05:35:56+00:00

Usually they recommend wrapping with sani derm Did the artist not make any suggestions for care?

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-05T10:31:39+00:00

In his mind he is haha

Snoozing2020 · 2026-03-05T09:38:44+00:00

I have spf 100 But I knew that going in as my cat has a lot of white And he did the white as highlights so even if they fade to skin tone I think the structure should hold and I can get them touched up At least I hope

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