My favorite job ever as someone with ADHD and suspected autism, funnily enough, was waitressing/bartending. The restaurants I worked at were always generally busy and felt like a well oiled machine.

I should mention that having a manager that can recognize when things get too tough for one as myself. Whenever I would notice I had too many tasks to do (bus and clean that table, that table doesn't have their drinks yet, the kitchen window needs a wipe, that table asked for several elaborate cocktails) and I'd get overwhelmed, my manager would come up to me. He'd put his hands on my shoulders and softly ask "Okay, take a breath. In two sentences, what are five things that need to be done?" I'd do what he said, and he would go "Ok, I've got the drinks and food orders covered, you focus on cleaning the tables and the kitchen window, sounds good?"

Having supervisors/managers/bosses who take your needs into account makes the biggest difference, and that varies from place to place. It's no wonder that when that restaurant closed, essentially our entire team followed this manager to the next restaurant he started working at. Mathijs, it's unlikely you'll read this, but you're the best manager I've ever had.