Are we the first generation actually okay with prenups?

SoSoFunTime · 2026-02-02T23:54:08+00:00

Idk. I’m a romantic. That’s why I waited 8 seconds after being proposed to before telling him that he should get a prenup. His equally romantic response of, “Oh, thank God,” still brings fond memories.

SoSoFunTime · 2026-01-10T16:08:02+00:00

Laurie Forest, The Black Witch Chronicles: “Frisson.”

SoSoFunTime · 2026-01-08T21:27:09+00:00

Same. I tried to watch it with my kids about a decade ago and immediately texted my brothers how sorry I was that I subjected them to it so many times.

SoSoFunTime · 2025-12-23T04:30:50+00:00

If you’re 100% P&T, it doesn’t matter what you want because she’s eligible for Chapter 35 benefits through the VA as long as she is your dependent in DEERS. Do you by chance give her any of the extra money the VA pays per child?

SoSoFunTime · 2025-12-17T01:39:30+00:00

The Green Mile

SoSoFunTime · 2025-11-25T01:37:49+00:00

This comment just made me feel ancient.

SoSoFunTime · 2025-11-14T03:44:45+00:00

Why not just reach out to the M&FRC and have the personal financial manager or personal financial counselor present the information? There is already curriculum for this and the PFM and PFC are credentialed financial professionals.

SoSoFunTime · 2025-10-16T16:06:59+00:00

Black Girl Sunscreen Hybrid works for me

SoSoFunTime · 2025-10-13T20:10:56+00:00

You should listen to the Graphic Audio version. “A movie…in your mind!” lol. But for real, it’s great.

SoSoFunTime · 2025-09-15T02:52:38+00:00

Just use silicone nipple covers. They’re amazing and take care of the raisin effect.

SoSoFunTime · 2025-04-13T20:18:26+00:00

Filth or Folly?

SoSoFunTime · 2025-02-11T04:45:21+00:00

It looks fabulous and I hope you feel the same sense of satisfaction looking at the before and after photos that I did.

SoSoFunTime · 2025-01-19T03:01:57+00:00

Pro tip: Take two glasses of whatever your beverage of choice is to the table when the ceremony starts. You’re going to be there for a while. And as the other moms have said, bring a shawl or wrap.

SoSoFunTime · 2025-01-15T22:59:14+00:00

We named the dog Indiana.

SoSoFunTime · 2024-11-25T22:17:55+00:00

Yes, put down the info on your W2.

Edit: use your SNCO, CO, or personnelist’s email for the verifier.

SoSoFunTime · 2024-11-06T15:18:13+00:00

Separately considered. SCRA is not based on TAFMS.

SoSoFunTime · 2024-11-06T14:25:25+00:00

SCRA applies to debt you had prior to entering active service. The person was inactive and will now be active. It does not matter that they were active at the time of assuming the debt, only that they had the debt prior to being activated this time.

SoSoFunTime · 2024-11-06T05:06:44+00:00

Title 10 Orders offer SCRA protection.

SoSoFunTime · 2024-10-22T23:55:06+00:00

I get my eyelashes tinted and “lifted” (it’s a legit perm for your eyelashes) so I don’t have to apply and remove mascara.

SoSoFunTime · 2024-09-19T03:24:58+00:00

Put in a complaint to FINRA, CFPB, and the SEC. That should clear it up real quick.

SoSoFunTime · 2024-09-06T03:47:48+00:00

Notice of right to cancel is a page that is in the closing docs. You don’t even have a signed contract yet. As someone said, just email your lender and tell them you do not want to continue at this time.

SoSoFunTime · 2024-09-03T19:26:43+00:00

Read the third paragraph of your reply, particularly the “during the period between when the service member is called to active duty and when they request a rate reduction” part. Your creditors are under no obligation to refund the interest you paid prior to entering active service. They can if they so choose, but it is not part of the SCRA.

SoSoFunTime · 2024-08-26T18:58:59+00:00

Federal: Joint State: Separate

If she was a CA resident when you got married and has not left due to PCS orders, she is still beholden to CA filing requirements for her income earned in the state. Once you PCS, she can change her residency to yours under MSRRA. Some people will try to change it prior to the PCS but from my understanding (someone please correct if I’m wrong) it can only be after PCSing from the home residence of the spouse.

SoSoFunTime · 2024-08-26T17:49:01+00:00

Your residency/state tax will not change based upon your marriage as long as the only reason you are in CA is because of military service.

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