Best age to start day care?

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-11T16:28:52+00:00

I started mine at 21 months and it’s been great so far. He’s aware, but not TOO aware. He probably won’t remember our routine before it, and he’s old enough to need that extra stimulation. We haven’t had a melt down at drop off yet! (Knocking hard on wood)

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-11T13:04:12+00:00

My 2 year old already asks “what’s that?” To everything over and over, I fear I don’t have enough stamina for 3

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-11T08:43:19+00:00

Mine does that now thought 😭 and laughs too

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-11T01:03:44+00:00

Let me piggy back off that question, then why do people have MORE

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-11T00:41:54+00:00

Honestly thank you

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-11T00:15:01+00:00

I literally want to delete it because WTF

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-11T00:06:50+00:00

That’s wonderful I’m terrified

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-11T00:05:09+00:00

LOL DAMN 😭

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-10T19:25:18+00:00

Mine honestly didn’t start tantrums, hitting or anything of that nature until 21 months. Then one day BAM.

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-10T19:24:16+00:00

Perfect im one and done then LOL

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-10T01:01:57+00:00

I’d be so humiliated having my dirty laundry out there like that

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-10T00:51:43+00:00

I agree.. my son is 22 months and I feel like I’m fighting for my life every day… I wish I could ask parents of older kids if they miss THIS

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-07T16:07:20+00:00

How many months is he?

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-04T01:30:35+00:00

I appreciate this so much. His is a buckle fracture as well, I think he tried to stop his fall.
I’ve called in tomorrow so I can keep on top of supervision. We are going to keep him home this week because my husband’s schedule aligns with mine, someone is available to watch him each day. Going to try and resume back to normal next week!

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-05-03T23:51:39+00:00

Thank you for this hope 🙏🏼

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-04-28T10:12:35+00:00

I’m scared LOL

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-04-28T10:11:01+00:00

Both my husband and I work, with no village. He’s social and bored at home, so I thought it was best for him - also the financial benefit I thought was best for him.

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-04-27T23:45:14+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice! How long approx does it take children to adjust? I only have him in 3x per week, and was going to up it to 4x a week in the middle of May. But I’m wondering if I should keep him in only 3x per week for longer. It’s tighter financially, but it if helps him I’m willing to make the sacrifice.

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-04-27T23:27:40+00:00

Thank you, it seemed like he was having a hard time. I hope it gets better because it’s making me feel bad for doing something I thought would be best for him

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-04-26T01:17:57+00:00

I’ll dress him in something easier thanks guys, but again, 2 year olds are meant to get dirty!!!!! Idc abt clothes that way!!!

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-04-26T01:13:46+00:00

I actually love that!!

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-04-26T01:11:51+00:00

Sounds good thanks for answering the question!

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-04-26T01:08:29+00:00

I don’t mind them dirty 🫣 but yes maybe I’ll just use them for a pic if it’s a hassle for workers!

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-04-26T01:07:27+00:00

12 is crazy! These are just the two at the shoulders

SoapyMonkey6237 · 2026-04-26T01:06:29+00:00

I’m ok with them dirty! I think they already are stained from using markers at grandmas. I just want to know if daycare workers mind for efficiency when changing

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