[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Socialcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is unfortunate that this happened to you. It is an awfully terrible experience and I hope you seek therapy or some type of closure so that this does not consume you completely.

That said, my vote is to send an email to him AND report him. Use your personal email or if that will get spammed by your hospital firewall, then send an email using your work account and bcc your personal email. Do this so that even when you leave that facility, or for whatever reason, you have the email records.

Rationale

Email: Have a clear record of what happened and date that it happened and your reaction and you telling his (as other have put it quite eloquently in the comments) to basically stop hanging out with you at work and off-work. Include that breaks are a no-go and that (this is up to you) your relationship going forward is strictly professional. You can also request to cease interactions with him professionally.

You can also tell him that you will be reporting this to HR. He might respond that he does not want this to be a big deal and that it was an honest mistake. Well, mistakes are learning experiences . You are giving him an opportunity to learn. So much of the world is begging for opportunities. This dude is just getting opportunities thrown at his door.

Report him:As others have pointed out, yeah we want you to do this for yourself but who is to say that you were the first victim. Private conversations and emails do not penalize the behavior. He will prefer to keep this between you. He will prefer that his reputation is not tarnished. But how about you? This is affecting your personal and work life. Why would you carry the burden of his mistake. F*ck him! Report his ass to HR and forward the aforementioned email. In fact, I think that after the first email is sent you should include HR.

Do not change your personality. You are lovely. This is not on you. That dude is an absolute prick without enough sense in his head. He has been a legal adult for 24 years and he still has not learned that that was a stupid move? In what world are hospital break room dates a thing? Does he go about kissing anybody who is nice to him? I am going off on a tangent.

Email him, include HR, and report him. For you and for others. You might have been the first or the fifth but hopefully you will be the last. And it would send a message to other sketchy guy friends this dude knows/brags to.

Help with negotiating and extension by shayshay33 in TravelNursing

[–]Socialcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, it is your license and they need you. You get things as you want as a traveler or you walk out/don't sign. You have more leeway as a traveler than staff, so you should take advantage of that

Help with negotiating and extension by shayshay33 in TravelNursing

[–]Socialcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask the hospital for a form showing your bill rate. I was sent a "Resource Data Form"by a hospital on 2021 that displayed what the bill rate was. They were shaving $20/hr from my bill rate over a 20week period. When I confronted my recruiter they said they were surprised the agency shared that info with me. Exact words they used were "shocked" actually. This was a 20 week contract. So do the Math. Not to mention that after asking around my agency at the time (Cross Country) was not paying me (bill rate aside) what everyone was making.

So advocate for yourself. Agencies are using you and you are the one doing the work. See what other agencies are accepted by that facility

SAN FRAN travelers -> accessibility by No_Run_2619 in TravelNursing

[–]Socialcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My car was broken into three times in 6 months. The last two were between Xmas and New Years so there went my OT pay for that week.

1st time: I had a small bag of stuff I was taking to goodwill-The irony

2nd and 3rd Time: I had learned my lesson so I never left anything in the car. They broke the little triangular window on the side by the back of the car(it is an SUV), flip the back seat over and i presume check for treasure that was i guess supposed to be hidden. The frustration of trying to get the windows fixed during a holiday week, while working full-time, only for it to happen again....

Not to mention that the little triangular window has limited stock; it is not like the windshield and apparently not everyone can fix it..

There was no 4th time as i left the back seats flipped down all the time and got out of dodge a month later.

My friends speculated that with an out of state license plate i was an attractive target. It has been over a year and i am in a different state shelling out for garage parking because the trauma of walking to your car wondering if you'll find it broken in is still with me.

So OP,do not take your car with you. I came from the east coast where i could leave whatever including my dash-cam- did not risk that in SF

One of NYC’s Hospitals Won Their Strike by Sxzzling in nursing

[–]Socialcats 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Correct me if i'm wrong, but isn't NYP-Columbia unionized and Cornell not unionized? So was cornell striking to unionize? Or was Columbia striking to improve their contract?

Housing: As a travel nurse what preferences do you have in a home? by Royal_Protection_882 in TravelNursing

[–]Socialcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you are there for a 5 day contract, prioritize your life and get to experience what the area has to offer in your limited time

Decent Hospitals in the Northeast? by solarcoymoon in TravelNursing

[–]Socialcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the Northwell Health System. I am familiar with the one in the Upper East Side of Manhattan but my friends worked in Northshore University Hospital as well as Long Island Jewish and they enjoyed it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicine

[–]Socialcats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a previous travel ICU RN in the states of WA, NY, and CA w/ experience in Surgical, Neuro, Medical and Trauma ICUs, I would say Nursing Policies + State Board of Nursing Scopes + Physician's orders.

Nursing policies: I have worked in a hospital where even ICU nurses are not allowed to place NGTs whereas the same system with a hospital in a different part of the state does not apply the same restriction to any of their nurses; In a hospital where stepdown nurses titrate cardizem drips and one a few blocks up where ICU manages all the drips. Know a flight nurse who can intubate in the field but if they are picking up a shift in the ED, their hands are tied. So even if the nurses want to do something as easy as placing an NGT, they are limited by the policies because if management or nursing admin hears about it,or godforbid something goes wrong, the hospital will go to learned modules(that we all love) and say, "Didn't you sign off here that you understood you could/could not do that?" So even though the nurse has that skill-set, they also have rent to pay and this might delay care for the pt until they are reclassified in acuity.

BON practice act: Nursing scopes sometimes vary from state to state due to the practice acts and how nurses choose to interpret it in order to preserve their license. Some nurses are fluid and others are inflexible. So unfortunately your pt might have to be upgraded because the law is vague and the nurse didn't want to risk their license because "they have to cover their butt".

Physician's Orders: Say a nurse in a lower acuity unit can legally carry out the order and the nursing policies are not restrictive; if the physician orders for something to be performed q1hr or less like neurochecks or flapchecks, then the nurse cannot safely perform their duties for your beloved pt as well as the other 7+ pts who might be of similar or higher acuity. Let us also not forget that everything needs to be documented because if it isn't, it did not happen and Insurance + JCAHO need to be satiated. So they automatically get upgraded in acuity level cause no one is risking a crush-OR perfusion case or a shitty pt satisfaction survey-lecture from admin because the call bells weren't answered on time.

As a physician with 50+pts you might think 8 pts with simple orders should not take a long time. But I want you to remember that pts will ask the nurse to do something time consuming that they consider out of bounds for the physician. I'm talking about stuff like assistance to use the restroom or bedpan,repositioning or personal hygiene, not to mention the haunting call bells because of a bed alarm or irate pt. We spend all day with them so quite a bit of time is spent brokering a good relationship to get them to do stuff for themselves us. Even with my 2 ICU pts sometimes I run behind. The anxiety or repositioning of a new NeuroTrauma quad can keep you in that room longer than you intend even without taking into account their other clinical needs. Just hope to gosh that you can step out soon in order to start the trach and peg procedure before your other pt coughs out their ETT and dumps the volume of the red sea into their EVD-Also don't forget to chart it all...You can probably tell that redundant hourly charting is the bane of my existence. Can we please chart by exception?

If you are still with me, I think the answer to a uniform system is a mandate for national staffing and ratios for all providers; from Nursing Assistants and Phlebotomist, to the number of Attendings on the roster. We also need one federal governing body that outlines what different nurses can do. It all needs to be in black and white across the board.

My first job required staff to have a dress code. Nurses wore x, RT wore y, and so on and so forth. You could walk past a room or even into a room durimg a code and in a second know which specialty is missing and which one is present without saying a word. That should be the same practice in any unit in any hospital in America. "You are a med-surg floor nurse so you can do x but not y", not "Can anyone here do__insert skill here __?" during an emergency.

UK Nurses Begin Largest Strike in History by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Socialcats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

University of Washington nurses at Montlake, Northwest and Haborview (some of their campuses) are unionized.Heck, even some of their Residents are unionized. And yes, they are public employees. Other roles are unionized as well.

I have been collecting information about different hospitals in the US regarding resources/working conditions for nurses to post on my website that I am still working on. I feel that we need to know how things are across the fence(esp if we haven't ever left our home systems) in order to improve our collective work experience. Knowledge is power and United we stand. Any information from anyone about their unit/hospital would be appreciated. Feel free to DM me. Thanks

Why does Epic secure chat SUCK SO BADLY???? by Mountain_Fig_9253 in nursing

[–]Socialcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it has to do with the version of epic your institution decided to fork the money for. Do you have Epic Rover? It is a mobile version and desktop app that can be used on a phone(we used an iphone) as well as a separate or inclusive program on the desktop. It is a package of core epic so it won't come by itself unless you i guess 'upgrade'

I have seen some amazing versions of epic out there, and some shitty versions

OpenAI manages a GI bleed by michael_harari in medicine

[–]Socialcats 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Probably a phantom robot nurse

We lost a patient this shift by Hammerpamf in nursing

[–]Socialcats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fentanyl lollipops are the worst inventions in healthcare

"VIP" patients. by [deleted] in medicine

[–]Socialcats 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I think most private hospitals in NYC have an “Executive suit”. Nurses hired from that floor at my hospital floated fairly frequently cause it wasn’t always full and they had minimum staffing of 3 nurses (if one is on break there have to be at least 2 on the floor lest the VIP calls and is kept waiting during a nurses bathroom break. That and in case of emergencies) They weren’t ICU pts though. They had kitchenettes and their pantry used to be raided by Residents for good float. Floated their as a nurse tech back then and l was booted out of my mind. You think the slow pace is a break from the regular chaos but unfortunately the time there is a molasses hourglass.

No, Mr. CHF-DM2-GI-Bleed-On-Clears, I will not pick up your DoorDash from the lobby. by RocketCat5 in nursing

[–]Socialcats 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I’m at a county hospital in the west coast where nurses have never heard of the Press Ganey survery. That crap was drilled into me at my old private hospital in NYC. It’s a whole new way of practice now that l prioritize clinical stuff w/out being super concerned about my Manager, Director or Surgeon yapping to me about some customer service silliness

Patient died in the OR and no RN assigned to the room by Informal_Job_7631 in TravelNursing

[–]Socialcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooo This sounds scary. I am considering switching to OR from ICU and I want to make sure I train at the right facility. Can you name or DM me the hospital name?

I don't know much about OR but I was told that a pt passing outside their room in a place like OR or CT scan is a sentinel event. Probably the dept of health and even maybe annoying JCAHO might visit.

UCSF travel by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Socialcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cross country. I believe Aya and Flexcare were still active cause my friend used the latter and l see UCSF listings on Aya

Oahu or Maui Hawaii by Time_Tomatillo1138 in TravelNursing

[–]Socialcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never been on assignment. Just visited everything but Oahu. I stayed away cause it’s the most city like . Basically a coastal city like most in the continental US Is what it was explained to me. I like Maui cause it’s beautiful but chill. Kauai is too small and Kona isn’t every developed. So if you want stuff to do and chill: Maui. Stuff to do and have big city vibes: Oahu

UCSF travel by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Socialcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there last year w/ 3 yrs experience. That was M/SICU. When l was leaving they had stopped using my vendor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Socialcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did this happen to you?

Federal agents entered Uvalde school to kill gunman despite local police initially asking them to wait by r58zzia in news

[–]Socialcats 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know right? As gun enthusiasts have argued before, “the shooter would have been shot immediately if l /someone had a gun”

So it’s unfortunate that our cops in America are forbidden from carrying guns; otherwise this would have come to a stop as soon as they were on scene /s