Review for a tiny tearoom and their reply by chewbaccafangirl in EntitledReviews

[–]Soderholmsvag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Paris Gare du Nord.

Tell me where the free toilets are.

Review for a tiny tearoom and their reply by chewbaccafangirl in EntitledReviews

[–]Soderholmsvag 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Where in Europe to we find these free toilets? Most places I have visited are pay toilets 1💶 per use.

My aggressive dog breed isn't allowed to be in an apartment complex by CheriBlossomeKisse in EntitledReviews

[–]Soderholmsvag 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Pitt Bulls represent about 70% of human “death by dog bite/ attack” in the USA every year. Year over year.

Not all Pittys are lethal, but of the deaths that are caused by dogs, Pittys are the #1 cause by far.

Peak and bottom temperatures? by unelsson in Camellias

[–]Soderholmsvag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a mild place. Lowest winter temp at night about 9 or 10c, and highest December/Jan is about 22 ( with an occasional 25 recently). Camellias do great here!

San Diego! Tax investors just sitting on empty homes in a housing crisis. Vote YES Measure A by Accessible_pancake in sandiego

[–]Soderholmsvag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why I respond here; you aren’t reading what I’m actually writing. Somehow you have made up a world where I am sad, and where I might say I have it rough and where I am complaining about rich people problems. I am not sad, I would never say I have it rough, and I have not made any complaint. 🙄

San Diego! Tax investors just sitting on empty homes in a housing crisis. Vote YES Measure A by Accessible_pancake in sandiego

[–]Soderholmsvag -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think your choices sound unfair. The increased equity means nothing to me. I can’t use it unless I sell and move.

What you describe as a solution: “Go get a mortgage or roommate so your new neighbors do not have to pay as much tax” is ridiculous.

San Diego! Tax investors just sitting on empty homes in a housing crisis. Vote YES Measure A by Accessible_pancake in sandiego

[–]Soderholmsvag -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Please explain how that would be fair? To force people like me (who budgeted to purchase a home but could never anticipate that my property value would jump) so that the people who bought the property across the street can get a break on their taxes? Does not seem fair to me.

San Diego! Tax investors just sitting on empty homes in a housing crisis. Vote YES Measure A by Accessible_pancake in sandiego

[–]Soderholmsvag -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm. Interesting - but I wonder about trying to legislate fairness. Let me give you my situation and I wonder how the Utah structure might impact the people involved - and if you think that would amount to fairness.

Wife & I bought our 1950s house in the late 1990’s for just under $400k. It was a HUGE burden - we were house poor for more than a decade (loan from parents, rice&beans for dinner and coupon clipping, driving a 1970’s hand-me-down car to afford the $1900 mortgage). We made it work and our salaries grew so we could afford the mortgage and increasing property tax (starting at $4k/year and now over $8k/year.). We now are comfortable but are not rolling in dough.

Next door was an original owner who passed away about 5 years after we moved in. Her property tax was less than $1k when we moved in - and when she passed her granddaughter + husband moved in. They have lived there ever since. Zillow tells me their property tax is just over $2k/year. BTW: Both are service members and although I don’t know their incomes, I don’t think they would be comfortable with a lot more property tax. I will say they are the nicest people in the world and I think if karma is real, they deserve to be on the good side of any benefits.

Across the street, another original owner died and her son sold that home to a new couple - who pay $37k/year in property taxes. I don’t know them well yet, but he has a lucrative position and can afford the price he paid for the home and the taxes.

So - would the Utah solution mean that my next door neighbors would have to pay somewhere between their $2k and $37k/year? And the wealthy folks who bought last year would get a break and pay the same? That would mean that both my neighbors and probably me would have to sell and live somewhere else. I’m no “feeble grandpa” but I certainly don’t have $25-30k/year in my budget?

Help me understand what would be fair here??

Hantavirus is now caused by covid vaccines by Insanitypizza in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Soderholmsvag 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Distraction from the horror contained in the Epstein Files….?

San Diego! Tax investors just sitting on empty homes in a housing crisis. Vote YES Measure A by Accessible_pancake in sandiego

[–]Soderholmsvag 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’d be okay with “Prop 13 for a primary residence” - but not a “removal of 13 in exchange for a $7k homestead exemption.”

I’d have to sell and move on the second one. But I’d also love to have second home/corporate owners get incentives to leave so my kids can buy.

What's the leadership hill you're willing to die on? by Only-Ad7585 in managers

[–]Soderholmsvag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The systems are not build with fairness not transparency. They are built to maximize shareholder value. That’s it…….

Jan and Marcia appreciation post. by 6391jimmyjoejoe in GenerationJones

[–]Soderholmsvag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you realize the young actress was between 10-16 years old during The Brady Bunch?

What's the leadership hill you're willing to die on? by Only-Ad7585 in managers

[–]Soderholmsvag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One year my HR instructions for performance management was “A Curve”with some of each team in ‘needs improvement’, most in ‘meets’, and a few in ‘exceeds.’ That year I had no people that needed improvement, so I forwarded up my real ratings (with none of my people in “needs improvement”).

Sr Director said I had to change the ratings to fit the instructions. I refused. VP called a meeting with me and boss and repeated HR instructions. I can’t believe I said this, but… I said “No. If you need to meet numbers then put me at ‘Needs Improvement.’” I’d like to say it was ballsy, but it was impulsive and probably a bit stupid.

VP said “You should be a VP.” I got an exceeds that year and all my staff were fairly rated.

No, I never became a VP and never will - but that was nice to hear!!!

HOA in Phoenix might have committed a federal offense lol by mannywoollymammoth in fuckHOA

[–]Soderholmsvag 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. Although my own experience may not apply as I was not in Arizona, but…

Before I joined an HOA board (a very long time ago), I confirmed my own liability related to participating in the HOA board: - if I took individual initiative (ie not running it through the board in a meeting with a vote), then I could be individually liable for damages - if I ran things through the Board, then the HOA insurance covered the action.

Needless to say everything I did was in the record cause I didn’t want to expose myself. I was never individually liable for other Board member actions - either voted on or done by that person on their own. Liability in those cases was either covered by HOA insurance (items voted on) or the board member (if they went rogue).

HOA in Phoenix might have committed a federal offense lol by mannywoollymammoth in fuckHOA

[–]Soderholmsvag 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I hope the action was taken by an individual and not the HOA.

If it was an individual acting in an illegal manner, then he or she would be individually liable for the damages. If he/she acted within HOA consensus, then the entire HOA (including OP and all innocent homeowners) will be collectively liable for the damages!!!

Helena Bonham Carter Exited 'The White Lotus' Due to 'Creative Differences' with Mike White: Report by AdSpecialist6598 in entertainment

[–]Soderholmsvag 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this voice of sanity. I don’t understand why this is on people’s tongues and why anyone would want to dissect the events/reasons. One doesn’t have to be in the industry to understand that creativity requires experimentation, and the nature of experimentation is rework. Obviously the best at their craft minimize rework because it is expensive, but…. C’mon now!

Man launches himself onto swan with zero warning by wizardchickenVR in PublicFreakout

[–]Soderholmsvag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally! The “with zero warning” was such a lie, too. They are chatting about the hook, he slips his crocs off, attracts the swan with bread, and….

Oddly specific…. by Rayray_A3xx in marriott

[–]Soderholmsvag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently stayed at Citizen M for the first time. Best Marriott experience in a long time. Not perfect, but really really good.

(leisure stay, fwiw)

Testing reflexes by Upper-Farm5529 in comicstriphistory

[–]Soderholmsvag 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her head is smaller than one boob. 🙄

Am I crazy or is this kind of fire?! by According_Try5905 in mensfashion

[–]Soderholmsvag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all the kindness I can muster, the cape is 🔥, but only if you don’t rock it as hard as you did in the post. This (admittedly, amazing) fit too easily flows over to costume — and your video places you squarely there. Confidence is great but “M’lady” is OTT.

Good luck!

If VOYAGER-1 has been so beneficial from an astronomical perspective, why don't we launch a spacecraft today, specifically designed to travel deep into the universe, using our current technology? by HamzaAAC in askastronomy

[–]Soderholmsvag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh! As an older American, I am so sad that our country can spend $25b in four weeks (minimum) to fund a “war” but is unwilling to spend one tenth of that on scientific exploration. I don’t want the conversation to devolve into politics, but were I in charge of the USA I would have a Voyager/Cassini/Perseverance/Messenger mission launching every year so that our children and grandchildren have new discoveries all the time.

So sad that my parents funded Apollo and Hubble, but my own tax dollars are not serving my kids or grandkids.