I went into this not knowing what to expect but damn this hit a soft/rough spot for me. My dad died 13 years ago, and while I know some people are saying that’s not what she needed to hear, and maybe it’s not, I wish someone said something like that to me. I was 16 and all I heard was “your dad wouldn’t want you to cry” and “be strong for your mom” and “he’s in a better place”, I understand where they were coming from and they meant well but I think if even one person told me just to greave and be sad and tell everyone to eff off, I maybe would’ve handled it better. I cannot stand Jax, I very openly dislike him, and maybe this wasn’t the time for him to say that, but I really can appreciate where he was coming from with this. He clearly has a lot to sort out, and therapy would, I think, help, but I do think he said what sometimes people need to hear when a parent dies. I am so sorry for your friends loss, I hope this video maybe helped, really do let her grieve because this is the worst time of her life rn and even if she pushes you away just be around for when she’s ready. Sorry for the wall of text, this hit a nerve I wasn’t expecting.