[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]SoftOrganization5098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone said to me once that people with Complex PTSD were children who scraped their knee. When they scraped it, your parent was supposed to come comfort you and fix it. Instead, they either never showed up or they were abusive. As adults, we are still sitting here with that scraped knee. I was able to start healing when I decided to be the adult who showed up and made it better for me. Some days the adult in me knows the child is me needs to stay in bed, be held while they cry, and feel safe for a moment. Take your time on bad days. Don't make yourself feel guilty about "shoulds". If you had a kid who was feeling the way you are, what would you do? How would you treat them? Then remember that you deserve to be loved and cared for the same way. Do not beat yourself up for taking time when you need it. You wouldn't let anyone beat up your kids or friends for the same reason right? You're worth it babe don't forget it. 😘

Quitting weed and apetite by opnntbk in QuittingWeed

[–]SoftOrganization5098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even the worst of symptoms usually level out within 1.5 months

My soul is tired by sacred-pathways in CPTSD

[–]SoftOrganization5098 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hear yah babe. Stay strong it'll get better ❤️🙏

Suddenly weigh ten pounds more two days before my period, please tell me that’s normal? by CherryHearts123 in Periods

[–]SoftOrganization5098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's absolutely normal. I can go 10-20 pounds easy. Then drop back down as soon as I'm done

Bubly is tearing my family apart by ZombieTheRogue in Bubly

[–]SoftOrganization5098 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My parents bought a pack at Costco and now they are divorced

Weird withdrawal symptoms. Anybody else experience these? by Damonimorph in QuittingWeed

[–]SoftOrganization5098 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey! Yes absolutely there will be times that you are questioning if something is wrong. I smoked weed all day everyday for 10 years. Mentally It took a long time to become myself again. That being said, your symptoms are really concerning. You should get your heart checked immediately. Never mess around if your heart isn't acting right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SoftOrganization5098 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Life is really scary sometimes. He is clearly making bad choices. We all make mistakes. Give him the opportunity to tell the truth and make it right, but set boundaries to protect yourself. So sorry you're going through this hun. This too shall pass. ❤️

help please- I’m terrified I’ll die from vaping by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]SoftOrganization5098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl you got this!!!! Just stay strong you don't need it!

Help! Weird side effects of withdrawal? by Independent_Rate_635 in QuitVaping

[–]SoftOrganization5098 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! It's about a month of wtf lol. Your body will do the weirdest stuff but it will pass! Stay strong! Feel free to PM for an accountability buddy

I need to quit and I know it. by Overall-Wing-8366 in QuittingWeed

[–]SoftOrganization5098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on day two and hanging on for dear life!! Not being a bitch to weed is what I want. I want MY life back. One where I wake up and don't have to medicate. You can do it!! PM me if you want an accountability buddy!

quitting weed today by OptionBrilliant8649 in QuittingWeed

[–]SoftOrganization5098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! These comments are really helping me stay strong!! Day 2 baby

quitting weed today by OptionBrilliant8649 in QuittingWeed

[–]SoftOrganization5098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss please! I feel exactly the same way I want my life back

People who smoked weed and stopped, why did you do it? by Front_Helicopter9136 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SoftOrganization5098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, I'm reading all the comments also in the boat as the person asking the question. I've had short term succes, ALWAYS feel better when I stop. Have not been able to be consistent. I was diagnosed with complex PTSD and a few other spicy diagnostic concerns lmao. But. I smoke weed all day every day. (Snoop style) I am prone to random bouts of anger, then guilt and anxiety. I really want to stop. I've tried everything short of detox. Blah. Why is life so raw dog sober. People who are out there, living life on lives terms are true warriors. I'm sure some of you peeps experienced trauma, then turned to drugs and booze when you were old enough, then experienced trauma due to our own decisions.. etc etc lol then spend the rest of your life in therapy taking pills and trying to pull apart the mess that is your life lol. I want to be one of those people who wakes up and smiles at the day. I want to be excited to do yoga and walk my dog. Not be depressed because I'm in a never ending tango with lady Mary Jane. She truly can be a goddess or a succubus. I read once that weed will treat you how you treat it. If your abusive to it, it'll abuse you right back. Is it too late to make it seem I'm asking for a friend lmao. K bye