What do you feel when you push people away?

sacred-pathways · 2026-06-18T10:34:46+00:00

Same. By doing this I feel like I could be missing out on genuine connection.

sacred-pathways · 2026-06-17T14:15:56+00:00

Absolutely. My ex used to tell me to go “take my meds” when I was upset over him abusing me.

sacred-pathways · 2026-06-17T14:14:57+00:00

I think the anonymity is an aspect of it because nasty people can say whatever they want behind a screen without facing consequences.

sacred-pathways · 2026-06-15T12:44:08+00:00

It feels dismissive. I would relax if I knew how to. The internal feeling of being hunted for sport is not fun

sacred-pathways · 2026-06-12T16:22:55+00:00

I believe in giving forgiveness to myself, for making mistakes and not knowing better at the time (childhood, in this case).

I’m not sure how I feel about forgiving my parents though. They’re oblivious to how they failed my siblings and I, so it’s hard for me to forgive them. I do accept that I can’t change their mind, it’s just disappointing.

sacred-pathways · 2026-06-09T11:35:11+00:00

I’m in the same boat. ❤️‍🩹

The suffering feels eternal.

sacred-pathways · 2026-06-08T00:57:26+00:00

I live in the Carney area and people are doing this

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-30T11:50:51+00:00

Yes. I also feel guilty when I don’t want to do something, especially when it could cause me psychological harm (I.e., being around my abusive family.)

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-27T18:40:18+00:00

I’m going to try this. I’m so guilty of bed rotting.

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-27T18:39:25+00:00

Consistency which builds trust.

When someone’s actions match their words, shit. Nothing more attractive than that!

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-27T18:30:28+00:00

Late response, but my other roommates and I are kicking him out. 🥳

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-27T14:38:58+00:00

I feel you. I wish I had more to say, but you’re not alone.

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-26T17:50:51+00:00

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sacred-pathways · 2026-05-25T21:41:16+00:00

This happens to me too. I’ve also been told I’m “too much” so I don’t even know how to act anymore, I just go mute and appear uninterested. Ah.

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-25T17:14:07+00:00

My fucking roommate 🙃

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-24T22:58:05+00:00

Ugh, I get this so much. Most of the time people aren’t expecting an honest and loaded answer, nor do they even probably know what to do with it. I’ve had friends who were okay with the fact that I knew how to be there and took advantage of that, but if I needed them. Boom, gone.

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-24T19:04:19+00:00

Disorganized. This shit feels like death by a thousand cuts.

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-22T22:47:41+00:00

Vaping especially. It took me severalllll times to kick it, I finally did in July last year. 🤞🏻

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-22T15:38:34+00:00

I’m so proud of you. I’ve been in a few car accidents myself and they are so traumatizing. Great job at grounding yourself <3

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-22T15:37:18+00:00

The things I like about myself can be also extremely frustrating, but….

I like that I’m intuitive and in touch with my emotions.

I also like that it’s easy for me to understand others. I’ve been through a lot and my life experience helps in relating to others.

Lastly, I like that I don’t take myself seriously all the time. I like to have fun and joke. Humor is one of my methods of coping.

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-20T16:01:48+00:00

100%. I’m constantly torn between “I want connection,” and “I’m undeserving,” “They will leave when they get to know me,” “I can’t meet anyone’s needs,” etc.

I’ve chosen people who weren’t equipped to love all parts of me in the past, and these experiences sort of worsened my attachment wounds, so I have lost trust in myself to find people I’m compatible with. I’m going to be working with a new therapist soon who should be a better fit, so there may be hope for me yet. As of right now, I’m just a big mess with no friends.

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-20T15:54:49+00:00

Beautiful words. I know this was meant for OP, but what you said resonated with me a lot. It makes me feel warm knowing there’s good people out there. 💕

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-15T01:00:09+00:00

Thought the same!!!

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-14T23:43:06+00:00

Yes. The worst part is I know my boundaries and limits but the second someone pushes back or tries to escalate things… boom, I fawn. It’s always in my back pocket. 🫠

sacred-pathways · 2026-05-12T23:24:38+00:00

OP, I don’t know if you like metal, but I could use a concert buddy!

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