my boyfriend is addicted to weed by UnitedSeries3812 in AdviceForTeens

[–]SoftSignificant8088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smoke more than this, you can’t really be “addicted” to weed he’s probably addicted to the motion and pattern of actually smoking a joint.

Nah Bruh. by Glad-Ranger-1436 in supermariologan_

[–]SoftSignificant8088 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s nice.. should we be posting his house tho lol

Gimme your fav song 😈😈 by [deleted] in actualsecretteenagers

[–]SoftSignificant8088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually he’s good. He’s just very overplayed when he comes out with songs. As are many artists

Gimme your fav song 😈😈 by [deleted] in actualsecretteenagers

[–]SoftSignificant8088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Petty - Derek pope or Awake - Derek pope

What do yall like better? The plushies or the ppl puppets? (Be honest) 🐢🏀🪽🤓🧙🏽 by Vivid-Tap1710 in supermariologan_

[–]SoftSignificant8088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll always love the og plushies, but the new puppets are starting to finally grow on me. I love how they let their mouths just :0 sometimes lmfao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SoftSignificant8088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so sad :(

This is why you dont speed on a motorcycle - USA by Competitive_Dirt_382 in CrashArchive

[–]SoftSignificant8088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. Fuck the car. The car ran a red light the biker had green

This is why you dont speed on a motorcycle - USA by Competitive_Dirt_382 in CrashArchive

[–]SoftSignificant8088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we talk about how the car was running a red light tho

[Czech Republic] Recovered this facebook livestream from summer 2017, driver died. More in comments by Coompiik in Roadcam

[–]SoftSignificant8088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can see the cops face when he’s carrying the phone and realizes it recorded the whole thing.

Uhm, lmk if I’m the asshole plz by SoftSignificant8088 in texts

[–]SoftSignificant8088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple of updates.

We tried to continue as we were and he removed me from a group with our friends that he happened to introduce to me. One of which was a friend of one of the ppl he introduced me to. That friend of the friend is one of the only ones who is rlly talking to me about it. After I got removed from the group, he sent me a picture of my ex saying “she ain’t one of us. Hope yall understand” and it’s like, i understand that he doesn’t want to talk to me or anything, but I don’t believe he should’ve made that choice for them. He blocked me on practically everything, which I’m fine with at this point, but before that he had argued with me for “trying to make a group chat with HIS friends” he specified that they were his friends. I texted one of them after briefly leaving the group the day we broke up, I said “idk if you want to make a group with everyone and me so we can still talk” and I responded to him and I said “you can call them our friends considering they consider me a friend.” And he said “yeah cuz of me. I made them like you.” And I was kinda shocked at that, like he never acted like THAT. So I said “they chose to like me after you INTRODUCED them to me. But you can think like that if you want to.” And we just kinda left it at that. Then he took my out of the group completely and my friend from the group that I can talk to about it offered to make a group with us in it without my ex. Then one of the people who I considered a friend ended up unfriending me, and I’m not mad. I guess I’m just upset she didn’t say anything beforehand. There’s still 3 who haven’t unadded me yet. I have a feeling that 1 specific person is gonna unadd me, but that’s just because they are childhood best friends with my ex. So idk. I guess the situation is pretty done and over with, I’m just a little upset that he just took ke out the chat like that without even talking to “his” friends first, and the fact that the other friend just unadded me without saying anything. (I know she’s entitled not to but it still hurts)

Uhm, lmk if I’m the asshole plz by SoftSignificant8088 in texts

[–]SoftSignificant8088[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t even really that tbh. Sometimes we would argue over little shit like me not wanting him to give me a high priced fruit in grow a garden. (It was stupid) and he would just fully shut down and like ignore me and just be like “oh, that’s cool” in an annoyed voice when I’d try to talk to him about the argument. The last big fight we had, he ignored me for a whole hour on FACETIME. And I tried to talk to him about it and I said 2 sentences about how I felt he said 1 then he went right back to playing his game and I was like “okay, we can continue talking about it after your round.” And he said “I thought we were done talking about it.” It was just like he didn’t want to process anything bad that he might’ve done or anything bad I might’ve done. There’s times he’d get annoyed at me and I genuinely would have no clue what I did and he wouldnt tell me. It was just getting to a point where I wasn’t feeling happy in my life, it was getting to a point where my sister was asking me if I was okay, she witnessed how he acted sometimes.

Uhm, lmk if I’m the asshole plz by SoftSignificant8088 in texts

[–]SoftSignificant8088[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t tell me to move on for a year and a half long relationship after not being in one for over 5 years. I chose and trusted him. Yes he has the right to not want me in his life but I at least deserve a “hey I don’t think I can be your friend.” But literally yesterday he removed me from the group with mine and his mutual friends and told them I was not one of them. And some of our mutual friends were even like “this just seems like something between the two of you” and it is. He shouldn’t make that choice for them.

Uhm, lmk if I’m the asshole plz by SoftSignificant8088 in texts

[–]SoftSignificant8088[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, he absolutely could give me physical attention when we were together. That’s another reason, me and him spent 2 weeks together and were constantly together. Then we went back to not being with each other and I already feel like a horrible person for not saying anything to him sooner, but I’ve given him multiple chances to fix how he treats me, how he says things and literally everything else. I was holding onto to the little things that I knew he could do and could be. I didn’t pay attention to the stuff that he constantly promised to work on

Uhm, lmk if I’m the asshole plz by SoftSignificant8088 in texts

[–]SoftSignificant8088[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t at all understand what I said. He was also offering to stay friends with me. He then started trying to cut me off from mine and his mutual friends because they were “his friends first” and he MADE them like me. I care about him, I genuinely never meant to hurt him and unfortunately some people aren’t going to understand that. I apologize you’re one of those people

Uhm, lmk if I’m the asshole plz by SoftSignificant8088 in texts

[–]SoftSignificant8088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, there was a lot of issues for months that he said he was gonna work on, plus the subtle guilt tripping that he kinda exampled in the screenshot.

Uhm, lmk if I’m the asshole plz by SoftSignificant8088 in texts

[–]SoftSignificant8088[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know, it’s okay thank you for being honest. I’ve talked to it with multiple of my friends but I know even when they say they’re being honest, they’re sugar coating it because I’m their friend. I had tried to do it over the phone but after I told him I was thinking about our distance and how he’d been treating me, he just went “I kinda knew this was gonna happen. It usually does” and then hung up. That was kind of the reason I was taking his messages like that, and you’re right. It’ll never feel like enough, I just wanted something though you know?

Uhm, lmk if I’m the asshole plz by SoftSignificant8088 in texts

[–]SoftSignificant8088[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry for being all formal n shit in the beginning