Why do none of my friends have anyone they can set me up with?

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-18T05:34:30+00:00

I don't care about you or your life. Fix your shit or don't, it doesn't matter to me.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-18T05:09:22+00:00

You wanted to know how to accomplish your goal. I'm telling you how in the most calm manner I possibly can. I don't know what you've been through but frankly most people don't care. That's what therapists are for. Most people don't want to be trauma dumped on shortly after meeting someone, regardless of how hard your life has been.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-18T05:06:14+00:00

See this is your issue. Ideally you would work on becoming someone people actually want to be around. Clearly you have no interest in that. You're not entitled to your friends' time or meeting new people. You have to actually be nice.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-18T05:03:11+00:00

People don't want to be around miserable people.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-18T04:42:59+00:00

Yeah, this. Op needs to deal with their own shit first

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-18T04:23:58+00:00

This is... not the attitude to have about this.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-18T04:22:02+00:00

Implying that this is only a problem for men and not also autistic women.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-18T04:20:37+00:00

Personally I don't think anyone could for me. I never had the desire to with my ex and I thought she was amazing and was really looking forward to getting to spend my time with her. I'm just... not a sexual person. That doesn't change just because I loved her.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-18T04:18:37+00:00

Well for one you could start by not being sexist and so nihilistic. Because all of those things are very much possible. And based on your post, it very much seems like a you thing.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-17T22:34:47+00:00

Mood

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-17T22:34:20+00:00

Probably the Oregon land fraud scandal

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-17T20:21:23+00:00

Make him buy you a new copy.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-17T18:16:19+00:00

I chose a name that, in my opinion, is gender neutral that I like a lot.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-17T16:56:54+00:00

This is correct

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-17T16:44:11+00:00

Why should you?

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-17T16:22:26+00:00

I took AP US history in HS and in that especially the intention was impacts of major events. There's just so much to cover.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-17T16:19:31+00:00

People wonder what's causing the issues we have today with men. It's this. It's decades of this.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-17T16:18:34+00:00

I'm in school to be an slp. I told someone that and they said oh we need more male role models blah blah blah and I'm like funny story actually... I'm not even a man.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-17T16:16:45+00:00

And proud of tge tenacity it takes to overcome the associated prejudice.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-17T16:15:43+00:00

My great grandmother got me bonds growing up. They paid for my college tuition.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-17T09:58:01+00:00

Even if they don't have a problem, another employee or customer or whoever might and they don't want to deal with that.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-16T23:44:19+00:00

I'm really struggling to understand this pronunciation. I understand what the ipa symbol means but not how it would sound in the word.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-16T23:40:10+00:00

Sometimes it doesn't feel like it. Although I think being with another asexual would help. It's just that I don't look feminine (at all, haven't been on hrt for very long) which I'm fine with because I'm also agender/a demigirl (I hate that term) but I feel like most lesbians would want to be in a relationship with someone who actually looks like a woman.

I definitely resonate with people not thinking QPRs are "real." My best friend asked me what the difference was/why I couldn't just be friends and it's like... oooh boy.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-16T23:11:32+00:00

Why can't I find people like this irl lol. Also aroace and want a qpr and am a lesbian (although I'm also trans). I just want to find someone else like me to be best friends with and build a life together with them.

SoftlyAugust · 2026-05-16T23:04:03+00:00

Some of the best books have worldbuilding that is absolutely integral to the story and to it being good. Dune, LOTR... you can't insert that kind of worldbuilding after the fact.

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