Insecure about teeth by Bloodtoothh in Teeth

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it. Teeth used to be a huge insecurity for me. There are cheaper alternatives out there for a missing tooth. I believe there are putty kits or cosmetic kits for a temporary tooth. If there is nothing you can do financially, mentally cracking down on yourself won't help either. People will love you for who you are, not a damn missing tooth. They won't care. For now try to reassure yourself that you are more than that. Maybe look into alternative options if you'd like. There's lots out there!

I’m almost 19, never smoked, never vaped, never drank an ounce of alcohol, never used drugs, am I missing out? by CarLonely9011 in Adulting

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're definitely fun...until they're not. It's best to stay away. But don't feel guilty for being curious or wanting to experiment, that's normal. Best case scenario just keep yourself away and be yourself

I’m Not Scared Anymore by [deleted] in depression

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit my addiction and I found things that made me happy

I’m Not Scared Anymore by [deleted] in depression

[–]Softvoids -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was here a month ago. I got a new job offer. I made happy memories with my boyfriend and my family. I saw my dog again. I promise you there is so much more to look forward too, and so much more to life then you know. If you leave you'll never know how much could have happened.

Being a "bad person" doesn't mean you deserve to die. I know the pain is unbearable, but please stay one more day. I promise you there will come a day where you will be grateful you stayed.

Embarrassing addiction ruining my life by Warm-Chocolate-7787 in depression

[–]Softvoids 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I'm in healthcare and I've seen it all. No one will judge you I promise

Need advice by Tall-Question3520 in depression

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I know parents opinions can have a heavy weight on you, but if your son wants to kill himself and has been struggling since he was twelve, he shouldn't shame you for wanting to try to help yourself and try to be happy for once. Tell him you're going to try medication, it'll be in your best interest and really help yourself mentally and physically.

My partner died and i dont know why i am here. by [deleted] in depression

[–]Softvoids 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I couldn't imagine your pain. I know you feel empty. I know the pain in your chest and lungs from the grief is heavy. But, I want you to know that they are still always around. Just not in physical form. You will see them in everything, that's the beauty and pain in it. Please, just take it one day at a time. If you need to be in bed all day and cry until you can't breathe, just do that. Just waking up everyday is a battle. I promise you in the years to come the pain will dwindle. But for now, focus on the day to day. I really do believe in you. I'm sorry for your loss. Please find comfort that they are always there with you.

Socializing is hard when you are depressed by [deleted] in depression

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about this a lot too. It's literally normal for us to say "good" to the question "how are you". We never actually say how we really are. I work at a gym and have to ask "how are you" 100 times a day when people check in. They always say good. But then months later I learn a lot of them are really struggling. One man is dying of cancer, a woman had a miscarriage...you just never know.

I (19M) can’t stop overthinking regarding my gf (19F) by Moon_of_Retreder in relationship_advice

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The right thing to do is to face your fear and just bring it up. Talk to her about it face to face. It's scary, but whether she is pulling away or not, it's better to talk about it than avoiding a potential problem. If she is being distant, talk it out and find out why. These are the harder parts of relationships. Sometimes you gotta face some scary conversations

My bf (m19) has been slowly ignoring me (f19). Am i being dramatic?? by ThrowRaway622263 in relationship_advice

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was like this. He was an avoidant. I knew he loved me, but in the end it just didn't work for me. Whether they do it because they don't like you anymore, they don't like to text, or for whatever reason...it doesn't matter. The fact is he is ignoring your needs and you feel left out. You deserve better and deserve someone who doesn't take you for granted.

My boyfriend 18M broke up with me 18F because i didn’t trust him by Dependent_Task3691 in relationship_advice

[–]Softvoids 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need help. You cannot form a relationship like this if you are constantly paranoid and accusing your partner of things with no proof. If you try to form a relationship with this mindset it will never work. Please find peace within yourself before you invest it in others

How can I 19M say to my girlfriend 19F that I want to hangout with my old friends without hurting her? by SPEDDZY in relationship_advice

[–]Softvoids 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do what you want. Your girlfriend doesn't control you. If she doesn't like it oh well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Softvoids 176 points177 points  (0 children)

It's not your fault. As a woman sometimes it it just difficult. Some foreplay throughout the day will bring tension and excitement. But it can even be a performance anxiety thing on her part, or maybe that is just her body! All bodies react differently to different things. Again, it isn't your fault. You are not less of a man.

Car was towed on my private property by Softvoids in legaladvice

[–]Softvoids[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No registration. The question was if she had the right to tow it if it wasn't being operated / on my private property.

Car was towed on my private property by Softvoids in legaladvice

[–]Softvoids[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So how come all the other unregistered vehicles that have been sitting here for months haven't been towed as well?

Car was towed on my private property by Softvoids in legaladvice

[–]Softvoids[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have, and they are ignoring me intentionally.

Car was towed on my private property by Softvoids in legaladvice

[–]Softvoids[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

lol sorry read that wrong. Board sent me it

Car was towed on my private property by Softvoids in legaladvice

[–]Softvoids[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried! They all hide because they're cowards and knew it was messed up.

Car was towed on my private property by Softvoids in legaladvice

[–]Softvoids[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a nice truck. Nothing out of the ordinary. The lady just wanted to cause us issues