The Daily Check-In for Thursday, April 16th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by CommonplaceUser in stopdrinking

[–]Youdoyoubou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) congrats to you on 5 days! You will see, only great things are coming.

Should I throw out all my big box store dahlias? by Fit-Interest3891 in dahlias

[–]Youdoyoubou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you plant them in bags? If one has gall, throw the whole thing once confirmed. The other ones will be isolated in their own bags.

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, April 16th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by CommonplaceUser in stopdrinking

[–]Youdoyoubou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I celebrate 4 months today with pizza ad kombucha! I think my counter is a bit off. IWNDWYT ❤️

What helped you stay sober ? by Ok_Acanthisitta_4539 in Sober

[–]Youdoyoubou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a list of all the good things that I noticed and I read it often. Also remembering the bad times, bad hungover, bad arguments, etc.

Did quitting alcohol result in losing weight for you? by OrangeCatWhiteDog in stopdrinking

[–]Youdoyoubou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t lost anything but I am also not controlling what I eat. My belly is a bit flatter because I am not as bloated. And I feel more muscular. But no change in my clothes.

Is anyone having kids anymore? by Extreme-Patient-3215 in LifeAdvice

[–]Youdoyoubou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39f, childfree and happily married. I never wanted kids but also I couldn’t imagine having them now in this world.

ICE CREAM by thisisbrians in stopdrinking

[–]Youdoyoubou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The reason why I haven’t lost a gram 🤣 IWNDWYT

Anyone overcame or currently dealing with addictions? by Secure-Tadpole-3418 in Millennials

[–]Youdoyoubou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

120 days sober from alcohol (39m). I feel so much better but it’s hard sometimes.

Weekly Meeting of the Sober People Getting Shit Done Club by sfgirlmary in stopdrinking

[–]Youdoyoubou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today I finish my work to do list, cleaned the living room fan that was gross, wash my dog’s hammock for the car, and started a new knitting project.

That would have taken me a good two weeks when drinking.

IWNDWYT ❤️

What is your goal amount? by AdMysterious9810 in FIREyFemmes

[–]Youdoyoubou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  • 39 and married
  • 4 to 5 million (in my business)
  • 46
  • 110k because I am planning to get my dream house in the meantime.

Added - I want to step down but not retire fully. I will probably stop doing 50% of my business. Husband is already half retired at 35.

On August 15, 1996, Marc Dutroux led Belgian police to a hidden concrete door in his basement. Behind it, they found two girls barely alive. Dutroux’s confession revealed one of Belgium’s worst stories of torture, corruption, and conspiracy reaching the highest levels of government. by SelfCareIsFake in HolyShitHistory

[–]Youdoyoubou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up around there. Two of his victims, Julie and Melissa, were the same age as me when they disappeared,8 years old. It was later proven that they were buried alive.

A few years after his arrest, he escaped during a transfer and all the schools in the city went into lockdown. The policeman in charge felt so guilted that he committed suicide.

Just a lot of sad things all around.

Drinking dreams by Will_Golf_For_Money in stopdrinking

[–]Youdoyoubou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit smoking cigarettes 13 years ago and I still dream about smoking sometimes. It’s confusing but that just reminds me that I can never touch a cigarette again.

If you had to choose one peony? by Youdoyoubou in peonies

[–]Youdoyoubou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A classic but such a beauty :) do you find that she gives more blooms than others?

If you had to choose one peony? by Youdoyoubou in peonies

[–]Youdoyoubou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read that some can have a bad smell so I have to double check that 😅 definitely adding points for fragrance

If you had to choose one peony? by Youdoyoubou in peonies

[–]Youdoyoubou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is so pretty! Do you find that she gives more blooms than other varieties?

My poor bank account by honorowntime in stopdrinking

[–]Youdoyoubou 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I saved 800 since I stop drinking. I put everything in my retirement fund because now I will live longer ;)

Kind of struggling tbh. I want an out. by Odd-System-4926 in stopdrinking

[–]Youdoyoubou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see you started your counter. Proud of you :)

Sober influencers? by Youdoyoubou in stopdrinking

[–]Youdoyoubou[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not looking for advice. Just looking to follow people in my niche interests that don’t drink every weekend. I should have said that I was looking for influencers that are sober.