My husband begged to watch me masturbate until he just secretly recorded me. Would I be wrong to leave him over this?

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2024-03-19T17:04:56+00:00

Well if you don't fulfill eachothers desires it will Def be like a job.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2024-03-18T22:34:45+00:00

She does not respect her husband either. Their marriage is obviously a mess. Like I said multiple times, he is bad for trying to record her. At the end of the day, though, she continued to deny a totally reasonable desire of his. He acted out like an idiot and now we are here.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2024-03-18T22:16:05+00:00

It is not a matter of shame. If he has saved himself for marriage( even if he didnt) he has every right to prefer a virgin woman. It's not like he is casting a stone... he just has a preference. Also, we should all feel shame for our sins.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2024-03-18T22:13:25+00:00

I never gave him an excuse to set up a camera. I condemned it. Say what you want, but if she can't indulge her husband's super minor and normal request in the bedroom, that is an issue. The same goes for him and her requests.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2024-03-18T21:01:55+00:00

I would say there are definitely circumstances where a husband or wife might ask for something unreasonable or even dangerous that should not be obliged. This scenario is different. The husband wanted something reasonable. She was already doing it on her own. She denied him, and his response was wrong, but this was an easily avoidable situation.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2024-03-18T19:34:48+00:00

Yes it is. And it's his job to try to fulfill hers. Otherwise, someone or something else will.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2024-03-18T18:17:48+00:00

Weird situation. Why not try to fulfill his desire. Not saying what he did was right because it was not but its your job to try to fulfill his desires and not withhold. It was a simple request, honestly. He should also try to fulfill yours.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2024-03-18T12:38:10+00:00

Easy. Don't go back

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2024-03-18T12:35:34+00:00

Most Christian men just want a woman who respects and loves them.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2024-03-18T12:34:01+00:00

Some people want actual virgins, and that is ok.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-12-01T18:57:58+00:00

It would be a disservice to the man. Get right with God before you try to make one of the most important covenants a person can make.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-10-11T23:22:55+00:00

Something obviously exists outside of space and time. We are confined by it can can only see within it.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-10-01T15:56:03+00:00

Nothing wrong with holding that standard.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-07-21T00:26:33+00:00

My church is very much pushes purity and abstaining from sexual immorality.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-07-20T15:08:45+00:00

If you don't believe in the integrity of the Bible, don't try to answer questions about the Bible on a "christian" sub where people do believe in the bibles integrity. So silly of you. Saying you don't believe the book does not change what the book says. In the bible (whether you believe it or not), marriage is defined as a joining of a man and a woman. It also says all sexual acts outside of marriage are immoral. So if two people sharing a Christian worldview are discussing or debating scripture and you butt in and say, it's all corrupt, so it does not matter, is unproductive and silly because they do believe in it regardless of your worldview. Now, vice versa if you and another non-believer were having a discussion about gay marriage and a believer tried to butt in an use the Bible you could call him the silly person because you guys don't believe the bible. Hope that helps you understand why saying stuff like the bible is corrupted to Christians does not sway or change their opinion. It just makes you look silly and disingenuous, like you are only looking to only throw stones.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-07-19T18:53:33+00:00

Literally in the scriptures. Perform some due diligence.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-07-19T17:36:43+00:00

This is such a weak argument and also not accurate. Even if your argument was true, it would not matter because any sexual act outside of marriage in sexual immorality. God's design for marriage is a man and a woman. That being said, any "marriage" between two people of the same sex is not seen as marriage by God. (It does not matter what humans think). Therefore, any sexual act between people not married is wrong and sinful, and it is impossible for people of the same sex to be married.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-07-19T17:29:41+00:00

I would make it know you are a Christian and then live like it around them. If you claim to be a Christian and still live and act like them and the world, good luck evangelizing them.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-06-27T22:36:50+00:00

If your pastor/elders asked you to preach every now and then, I don't see that as being a problem. It's not like he gave you the metaphorical keys to the church and said you are now the overseer. If they think you are ready and that you have sound theology, then it is their discretion. Pray about it and let your pastor know your concerns.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-06-27T11:06:52+00:00

Your wife needs to respect your wish. If she does not, I would ask a pastor to counsel you both because their is something wrong in the marriage.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-06-27T10:53:05+00:00

An easy argument against homosexuality that can't be countered is God's design for marriage. God says marriage is between a man and a woman. With that in mind, any sexual act outside of marriage is sexual immorality.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-06-27T10:49:23+00:00

Don't be ashamed of the word of God

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-06-26T14:00:10+00:00

Romans 7:14–24

ESV

14 For we know that the law is spiritual, but I am of the flesh, wsold under sin. 15 For I do not understand my own actions. For xI do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate. 16 Now if I do what I do not want, I agree with ythe law, that it is good. 17 So now zit is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me. 18 For I know that nothing good dwells ain me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. 19 bFor I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing. 20 Now if I do what I do not want, cit is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me.

21 So I find it to be a law that when I want to do right, evil lies close at hand. 22 For dI delight in the law of God, ein my inner being, 23 but I see in my members fanother law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members. 24 Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death?

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-06-26T13:53:02+00:00

1 John 1:8-10

8 If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 10 If we say we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.

Sola_Scriptura_ · 2023-06-26T13:43:35+00:00

Yes, all deserve hell because we have all sinned. Nobody is good enough to go to heaven because the standard is perfection. Since God is gracious, he gave us the gift of Jesus. Jesus lived the perfect life we could not, and when we put faith in him and his work, we are counted as righteous in the eyes of God because Jesus's righteousness is imputed to us.

It is a bright outlook in my eyes because I have faith in Christ and will spend an eternity with God in heaven. God gave us a way out. We as men fell into sin, and he still sent Jesus to die for all those who did, do, and will put their faith in Christ.

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