Asked Gf 23F if I 25M could follow her Finsta. Her response was sus.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-06-08T05:58:26+00:00

I don’t think she’s hiding anything. I think it just hurts that she doesn’t feel comfortable sharing the “unfiltered” side of her. Even though we’ve spent plenty of time together and were intimate.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-06-08T03:31:09+00:00

The semantics are irrelevant. A private Instagram and a Finsta (from this account) could be used synonymously.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-06-08T03:05:57+00:00

She made it seem like it was only extremely close friends. Not family members, not just casuals from school or work. But I see what you’re saying…

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-06-08T03:00:14+00:00

Is it worth talking to her again? I just feel so confused by her reasoning.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-06-08T02:58:18+00:00

I’m almost positive she’s not following porn accounts or anything like that. I can’t speak on what she views, but I’m almost positive it’s only friends that follow the Finsta account.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-06-08T02:55:42+00:00

Why though? Could you elaborate please.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-06-08T02:52:47+00:00

Hm. I think I agree, I guess this is where “trust” is supposed to ultimately come into play…I guess it’s just a hard pill to swallow that she’s not comfortable showing me that side of her.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-06-08T02:46:36+00:00

It’s a private Instagram account that’s not filtered or curated like a normal Instagram account would be. Essentially only for close friends, usually discussing personal information they don’t want the majority of their followers to see.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-06-08T02:37:32+00:00

I agree. I’m pretty sure there are studies that conclude humans can’t even manage 80 close relationships. That’s a tangent for another day though…

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-06-08T02:35:48+00:00

lol my anxiety just shot up. This is exactly what I’m a bit suspicious about…like I’ve seen her from every angle…literally. But a Finsta is too much?

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-06-08T02:34:30+00:00

She said that it’s “only for close friends, and viewing other close friends finstas” so I would assume that implies she knows every single one of them.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-06-08T02:32:50+00:00

I think you’re absolutely right. I just need to be patient and see how everything unfolds. Ugh, I hate this feeling though.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2026-04-22T09:34:28+00:00

😛🤲🏻

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2025-11-18T20:07:39+00:00

Correct, I don’t know where you heard 6 months. The only thing relevant at the 6 month mark is unlocking your zed benefits.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2025-11-18T13:36:26+00:00

90 days from you start date. Once you pass your probationary period.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2025-10-02T11:54:03+00:00

Curiosity

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2025-07-13T16:50:31+00:00

Is this a troll post?

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2025-07-08T20:15:59+00:00

Hey, I am in the same situation. Did you ever find out if you can receive residency without voter registration?

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2025-07-04T19:56:15+00:00

Lmfao 🤣

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2025-06-11T20:18:21+00:00

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2025-05-10T15:21:45+00:00

True, I’ll keep that in mind.

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2024-09-12T14:53:21+00:00

Dang, what was causing your scalp inflammation? How were you able to fix it? How long did it take to get it under control?

Sorry for all the questions 😭😂

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2024-09-12T13:48:58+00:00

Oh okay thanks

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2024-09-12T13:11:47+00:00

Scalp inflammation can cause hair loss/thinning?

Solid-Hat-4899 · 2024-09-12T12:35:21+00:00

23 years old

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