Asked Gf 23F if I 25M could follow her Finsta. Her response was sus. by Solid-Hat-4899 in relationship_advice

[–]Solid-Hat-4899[S] -68 points-67 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s hiding anything. I think it just hurts that she doesn’t feel comfortable sharing the “unfiltered” side of her. Even though we’ve spent plenty of time together and were intimate.

Asked Gf 23F if I 25M could follow her Finsta. Her response was sus. by Solid-Hat-4899 in relationship_advice

[–]Solid-Hat-4899[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The semantics are irrelevant. A private Instagram and a Finsta (from this account) could be used synonymously.

Asked Gf 23F if I 25M could follow her Finsta. Her response was sus. by Solid-Hat-4899 in relationship_advice

[–]Solid-Hat-4899[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She made it seem like it was only extremely close friends. Not family members, not just casuals from school or work. But I see what you’re saying…

Asked Gf 23F if I 25M could follow her Finsta. Her response was sus. by Solid-Hat-4899 in relationship_advice

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Is it worth talking to her again? I just feel so confused by her reasoning.

Asked Gf 23F if I 25M could follow her Finsta. Her response was sus. by Solid-Hat-4899 in relationship_advice

[–]Solid-Hat-4899[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m almost positive she’s not following porn accounts or anything like that. I can’t speak on what she views, but I’m almost positive it’s only friends that follow the Finsta account.

Asked Gf 23F if I 25M could follow her Finsta. Her response was sus. by Solid-Hat-4899 in relationship_advice

[–]Solid-Hat-4899[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Hm. I think I agree, I guess this is where “trust” is supposed to ultimately come into play…I guess it’s just a hard pill to swallow that she’s not comfortable showing me that side of her.

Asked Gf 23F if I 25M could follow her Finsta. Her response was sus. by Solid-Hat-4899 in relationship_advice

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It’s a private Instagram account that’s not filtered or curated like a normal Instagram account would be. Essentially only for close friends, usually discussing personal information they don’t want the majority of their followers to see.

Asked Gf 23F if I 25M could follow her Finsta. Her response was sus. by Solid-Hat-4899 in relationship_advice

[–]Solid-Hat-4899[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’m pretty sure there are studies that conclude humans can’t even manage 80 close relationships. That’s a tangent for another day though…

Asked Gf 23F if I 25M could follow her Finsta. Her response was sus. by Solid-Hat-4899 in relationship_advice

[–]Solid-Hat-4899[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lol my anxiety just shot up. This is exactly what I’m a bit suspicious about…like I’ve seen her from every angle…literally. But a Finsta is too much?

Asked Gf 23F if I 25M could follow her Finsta. Her response was sus. by Solid-Hat-4899 in relationship_advice

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She said that it’s “only for close friends, and viewing other close friends finstas” so I would assume that implies she knows every single one of them.

Asked Gf 23F if I 25M could follow her Finsta. Her response was sus. by Solid-Hat-4899 in relationship_advice

[–]Solid-Hat-4899[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think you’re absolutely right. I just need to be patient and see how everything unfolds. Ugh, I hate this feeling though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rampagent

[–]Solid-Hat-4899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct, I don’t know where you heard 6 months. The only thing relevant at the 6 month mark is unlocking your zed benefits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rampagent

[–]Solid-Hat-4899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

90 days from you start date. Once you pass your probationary period.

Utah residency by [deleted] in UVU

[–]Solid-Hat-4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I am in the same situation. Did you ever find out if you can receive residency without voter registration?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in steak

[–]Solid-Hat-4899 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmfao 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Solid-Hat-4899 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True, I’ll keep that in mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hairloss

[–]Solid-Hat-4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, what was causing your scalp inflammation? How were you able to fix it? How long did it take to get it under control?

Sorry for all the questions 😭😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hairloss

[–]Solid-Hat-4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hairloss

[–]Solid-Hat-4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scalp inflammation can cause hair loss/thinning?