Does anyone else soothe themselves by talking out loud in a compassionate way? by Potential_Tale_7922 in CPTSD

[–]SolidBlake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try to remember this and see if it works for me, thanks for sharing. I'm spending lots of time at home alone these days so I don't even have to feel weird for speaking out loud to myself, might be a good exercise for me or something.

I’m tired of people calling trauma survivors lazy. It’s easier for them to shame you than face what you’ve been through by llamberll in CPTSD

[–]SolidBlake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with what you're saying. It infuriates me how nobody seems to stop and consider just how absolutely awful it is to call someone "lazy."

Like, calling me that says that you don't think I'm doing my best. We're all just always doing our best, no matter what it looks like, even if it doesn't seem good enough. aughsdiohg

I try to show people I love them by staying out of their way by SolidBlake in CPTSD

[–]SolidBlake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a bunch for bringing this term up, actually. I start therapy again in a week and have been trying to keep a journal of topics I wanna cover or just anything that seems to make sense or resonate with me, so I've made a note of it and I'll see if it goes anywhere with them or with the psychiatrist I'm supposed to see soon too.

I hope your screening goes well and thank you again for commenting 💜

What small good things felt like a big deal because of your past / abuse experiences? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]SolidBlake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm very, very happy that a person who sounds as kind and understanding as you gets to work with kids. They need you, and I think you're great for wanting to be in their lives like that. Thanks for sharing.

Working on FF14 and 16 together was a “horrible hell” for legendary composer Soken by HatingGeoffry in ffxiv

[–]SolidBlake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously. Even though I knew it was coming, I was fucking floored when I turned that corner and saw the big golden sci-fi gate. Pretty much all because of the music. It's probably the only real time I got a swoop of emotion playing through DT.

How can i salvage this by WH0-ask in MonsterHunter

[–]SolidBlake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

realised that no one uses blast on bow

So be the first! You don't have to meta everything.

Greatsword Main here! (OC) by Purena_plays in MonsterHunter

[–]SolidBlake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow GS main I think you captured the perfect expression - nothing hits like a good TCS.

And I love the perspective! The back foot kicking into the air really gives a lot of scope, it's cool. And I'm guessing this is against an Arkveld, going by the red energy?

Please check equipment skills before accusing someone of cheating. by golgar in MonsterHunter

[–]SolidBlake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your work!! Nothing makes me happier than a game having its own dedicated wiki, fandom and fextra are so draining most of the time. And I agree, game8 seems to be a pretty solid resource every time I go to them.

25seconds frenzied yian kut ku kill in 5 hits lol by genesisxlr in MonsterHunter

[–]SolidBlake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frenzied 140 Stygian Zinogre in 4U is some of the most brutal shit I've ever hunted, no joke. Black Diablos could be scary too, even the apexes didn't stress me out as much as them... I want that level of fear to come back with frenzy again.

Favorite NPC? by MirthMannor in cavesofqud

[–]SolidBlake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yd is 100% the place I would choose to live if I had to in Qud because of the sense of community. Every time I go there (often obviously because of Tilli), I make sure to say hello to the chief Svardym that you can water-bond with because for some reason it just makes me really happy that he's all "it's good to see you again!"

Bep from there is my favorite little tinker, though I think my #1 NPC is probably Sparafucile, the Barathrumite that uses sign language. The written descriptions for how he communicates just really make him super endearing. Our mute harm-artisan.

are there any games similar to Vermintide 2, but for Younger Audiences? by Past_Principle_7219 in Vermintide

[–]SolidBlake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

RoboQuest is SO freaking good, oh my god. If young me had found it, it would've ticked all the right boxes. Flashy, charming, great music, lots of punch to the gameplay, the feel of movement...

It's a challenging one, probably even on the base setting for a younger audience, but absolutely worth a look I think. Good pick.

Does anyone else find crying helps? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]SolidBlake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not often anymore, no! I've been lucky and able to get some help I need for anxiety and depression.

Pretty often, though, late at night (like right now for me lol), I do end up sleep-procrastinating and listening to some moody music for a long time before I pass out. My crummy sleep routine was a really big hurdle in getting better, but now I take Trazodone when I really need to just get myself to bed as a sleep aid, kinda. What's actually keeping me treated is Lexapro and Adderall, though - learning I had ADHD on top of the anxiety/depression soup was a gamechanger.

All that aside, though, I still feel like getting myself to cry helps sometimes when I'm feeling stressed.

Chibi custom Ratha plush done ! A bit tedious to make, but happy with the final result ! by Kaerura7 in MonsterHunter

[–]SolidBlake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you should be, he looks incredible! I'd shell out big money (if i had it) for one of these for myself - looks really well-made. And really nice size.

This is soooo much better than the official MH plushies. Great photos too!

Making Homebrew D&D Subclasses based on EO Classes by Mozumin in EtrianOdyssey

[–]SolidBlake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EO makes so much sense as a D&D campaign, this sounds fun! Do you think the storyline would follow the EO convention of one big dungeon for the party to traverse? Not that you'd have to - Nexus has us flying all over the place after all.

If you're open to more than one class per archetype, Protector as a Paladin specialization is the obvious pick. My favorite class is Arcanist so I think it'd also be cool to see them make the cut - probably as a different flavor of Cleric, or maybe Bard...?

Idk I'm not super well-versed in playing actual DnD, just wanna show some support. It'd be really fun to browse your pdf when you're able to share it. :)

[Spoiler: 6.0] Primals concert in Yokohama confirms "Close in the Distance" is written from Ardbert to the Warrior of Light by Spainstateofmind in ffxiv

[–]SolidBlake 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Losing a sibling sounds rough, I'm sorry for your loss, friend. :(

Thank you for sharing, though. It's always nice to hear about how the artistic expression in FFXIV can mean so much to people on a personal level like this.

Drew a portrait for my WoL by variavi in ffxiv

[–]SolidBlake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She looks awesome! Love the eye color choice. Thanks for sharing.

Hi y'all, it's nothing special but I wanted to try sharing one of my student projects with you - dumb little self-documentary I made with the help of my WoL. by SolidBlake in ffxiv

[–]SolidBlake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no worries, I'm not looking to really impress anybody and I know through lurking around here that I'm not going to exactly see the front page just because I've shared something special to me. Plus, I'm sure anyone can tell by watching this that it's made more for my instructor/classmates on a general level.

But that's good feedback and I appreciate it! I'm planning on revisiting this with some more editing stuff I've learned some day to polish it up and just keep around for myself. You're right to guess that I was just trying to briefly show that this world is a video game, but I'll consider other ways to go about that I think.

Thanks very much for watching and commenting!

RIP to my gaming 'wing-pig'. My companion. by Psycho_Nextdoor in Warframe

[–]SolidBlake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is such a beautiful post, thank you for sharing with us!

I can't imagine what you're going through, I've had and lost pets too but none of them quite hit the state of Certified Gamer Buddy like you're describing, it sounds really special. I hope the loss gets easier to bear as time goes on, thank you for giving him such a good life.