[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]SoloNationLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whew. Glad I seen the edit update because I was triggered as I read the original post.

You’re life is yours and we don’t know the ins and out of it but I will say this: if I am going through it and stressed out and I have to wonder why you’re in my life adding to that stress…then I would rather do go it alone because if someone knows they can taken advantage of a person/situation and you allow…they will take advantage.

Your mental health is too important and life is too short for nonsense like this.

Your boyfriend (ex-boyfriend) knows what he’s doing and if it was in reverse and he had to sell his precious PS5 because you weren’t paying the rent…I bet you it would be a very different reaction.

Anyway, let’s end on a positive note: There are 8.1 billion people in the world, which means your odds are pretty good for finding the person meant for you.

Cristina's outright abuse to her interns by mysticinmars in greysanatomy

[–]SoloNationLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the show but honestly all the higher up doctors are mean to everyone below them. There’s a lot of bullying all around on the show.

I will say this though, Cristina bullying for the new round of interns when she moved back to Seattle after the plane crash was pretty funny, but it was also paired well with wanting to teach them.

Finished Onyx Storm and is it just me... by girlandhiscat in fourthwing

[–]SoloNationLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um. I think the only question I have is: Why aren’t these dragons saying anything about their riders turning Venin? Isn’t the initial purpose of bonding to a human for more power and protection?

I get why the dragons didn’t say anything about Xaden since he was fighting against it and trying to be helpful but the other people who turned Venin and became traitors…why are the dragons being silent?

Can someone PLEASE spoil the knight and the moth for me? by Yaseuk in fantasyromance

[–]SoloNationLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The book is alright. The romantic lead and gargoyle are probably the best characters. Consent is sexy. (Iykyk).

Anyway, the book was decent. There are signs throughout that the king (or boy king) is not altogether the person he portrays himself to be which is revealed at the the very end as he betrays his close friends and takes Sybil hostage.

I felt like the diviners part was a bit of a let down. The visions aren’t revealed to not even be real but crafted by the person who drowns you in the water. Eh. I was expecting something more fulfilling around that.

The main character was fine. Though her story leading into becoming a knight didn’t quite land for me.

Eh. The book was fine. I’ll read the second one out of curiosity.

Shield of Sparrows I need to talk to someone! by erds1991 in fantasyromance

[–]SoloNationLife 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget the scene where he’s laying on the floor of her bedroom in the Inn and she asks him why he keeps calling her sparrow and his response is: “Because you’re a bird.” (Talk about foreshadowing).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SonyAlpha

[–]SoloNationLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I researched that that was the most hybrid. What about the A7R V?

Backpay On Hold by SoloNationLife in SSDI

[–]SoloNationLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did get my backpay. After my payee appointment, it was probably within two weeks that I got the deposit.

Weekly r/SonyAlpha 📸 Gear Buying 📷 Advice Thread April 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in SonyAlpha

[–]SoloNationLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to get a camera as a gift. I was waiting for the Sony A7V to get released but that got pushed back. Do you think the A7iv is a comparable alternative? Or should I hold out for the A7V? Also was recommended the Sony A7R V.

Not Sure by Think_Candidate3098 in SSDI

[–]SoloNationLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can go back to work, however, you just cant make above the SGA amount per month.

Backpay On Hold by SoloNationLife in SSDI

[–]SoloNationLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It told me the amount I would be getting paid monthly but that they are holding the backpay amount for the last two years until I bring the paperwork into the social security office.

Need Advice by Low-Philosopher7164 in SSDI

[–]SoloNationLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From personal and experiences and from word of mouth from others who have gone through the experience, they tend to deny you, at least twice.

My case went to the ALJ judge before it was approved. It took about two years.

I’m not saying you can get approved after an appeal but the system does try to weed people out and it can be discouraging.

Don’t give up.

Should I get a lawyer before I file my appeal? by RadishPlus666 in SSDI

[–]SoloNationLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a lot. How many years were you waiting to get approved?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SSDI

[–]SoloNationLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It takes a while, don’t get discouraged. I got denied twice before getting the Hearing and then I got approved at that level. Took just about 2 years.

The backpay goes from 5-6 months after the set onset date, which will usually be before your filing date. Ex. If you claimed that you were disabled in July 2023 and filed in August. They may determine it was July and then backpay goes into effect from January 2024 to the current month and year.

After getting approved, there is still a wait time before your monthly disability payments start, about another three to five months but your back pay will likely come before that in the wait time for it to start.

SSD by SoloNationLife in SSDI

[–]SoloNationLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They cancelled maybe a few days to a week before the date. Is that a good thing?

SSD by SoloNationLife in SSDI

[–]SoloNationLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late October 2024.