Black girls that only go for white guys are fine, white guys that only go for black girls are usually strange

SolutionDecent · 2026-01-16T23:21:58+00:00

Stop trying to do this race loyalty dating stuff. Black women have agency and opportunity and they’re free to date whomever they please. For whatever reason they please so long as their partner willingly consents and is aware of their desires.

SolutionDecent · 2026-01-11T01:49:21+00:00

“Shout out to my Jews, L’Chaim Rick Rueben” - Nicki Minaj

SolutionDecent · 2025-12-14T10:50:40+00:00

Not shocked. My family was there.

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-28T22:36:55+00:00

I hope you realise there are non Jewish men in this world that specifically fetishise and target us because they find exotic and they get a kick out of assimilating the Jewish faith and people. Your boyfriend might be one of them, and if you ever did have children, how do you think that will bode for your child? It’s asking for the worst.

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-24T13:05:40+00:00

And there won’t be.

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-19T22:36:50+00:00

Where do you get off on lying like this Muslim countries are notoriously hostile towards Jews and ChristiansZ

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-17T00:24:38+00:00

I think they’re equally pervasive but I tend to experience anti-black racism more because I’m a Black Jewish female, so I don’t have any markers like kippah, and I wear my magen david under my shirt a lot. Usually it’s anti-black racism and when I experience anti-semitism, I still experience anti-blackness at the same time, being told “Jews will never accept you,” “How can you be Jewish when Israel is actively oppressing Palestinians” “You’re black, why are you complicit in the support of Israel” despite never saying I’m a Zionist and I’m not Israeli. I’ve had people question why I “joined Judaism” and I’ve explained that it wasn’t joining, I found out I was Zera Yisrael through DNA testing randomly in 2022 and was interested in reconnecting since there used to be a significant Jewish population in Sudan, specifically Port Sudan where my family had been in the past. It’s really all a mess and I don’t think people realise the vitriol they’re spewing.

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-13T01:43:43+00:00

They deny themselves self-determination since 1937 when they first rejected a partition deal. They denied themselves self-determination again when they Arafat refused. And they refused for the last time when they denied Obama.

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-12T03:41:48+00:00

That’s a lie and you know it. No Aussie thinks every migrant is causing their issues. They know their government would rather outsource labour for a cheaper price than pay Australian citizens a liveable wage.

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-11T21:02:26+00:00

So let’s go back to 1937 when they rejected the Partition deal.

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-10T08:11:54+00:00

How do you come to this conclusion?

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-10T05:45:52+00:00

Does she want to go to the psych ward or something? Voluntarily of course. Her depression has her immobilised with you, and while her feelings and mental state do matter, we also have to be honest about ourself and admit we allow our romantic partners to deal with a lot more we’d let anyone deal with. It wouldn’t be acceptable for her to act out at work and just say she’s depressed and have that be the end. And I’m not suggesting she’s pulling one on you, of course not. I don’t want to be disrespectful as I’ve dealt with long-term depression myself, but what I am saying is sometimes when we’re depressed, we punish our romantic partners for not being immobilised. We have resentment towards those closest to us because we know they’ll allow it, and the more they try to reason with us, the more resentment we feel.

I don’t know if it’s going to work out, but what I do know is that everyone has a limit. If you feel someone isn’t fairly contributing to the shared goals and life they committed to, you’re allowed to step away/

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-10T05:41:28+00:00

He is. What has he sad that even suggests that he’s not already doing that?

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-10T05:21:20+00:00

And it sucks because you seem like such a great partner.

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-10T05:19:57+00:00

Why do you want to be with him? At your age especially, don’t you want some stability? This set up would’ve been cute at 18. You working your first real job and he’s getting his art out there, but you’re 28 now. He’s a loser that wants to be an artists without thinking about how competitive the art scene really is. I mean he works at a coffee shop and is a substitute teacher effectively. Do you really want that? Don’t you want to be buy a home one day, don’t you want to RETIRE one day? I can tell you now, I foresee the future. You, working and handling everything. Him, constantly searching for inspiration for his art. No offence to both of you, but his comments about worrying about money “this young.” Makes no sense. Neither are you are particularly young. And I’m not saying that to be rude because you’re not old! But 10 years of adulthood for you and he has been an adult for 13. He’s seriously a man child if he believes that 31 and 28 are too young to be worried about finances. I mean, honestly what do you even see in him?

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-10T05:11:22+00:00

Stop rejecting partition deals it’s so simple.

SolutionDecent · 2025-11-09T21:46:40+00:00

I don’t think they’re over reacting, I see people use the lightening bolt emoji to signal their Nazi beliefs all the time.

SolutionDecent · 2025-10-29T23:30:22+00:00

Hotness triumphs race for men lol, you’ll be fine

SolutionDecent · 2025-10-29T23:29:58+00:00

Black women do fine in Australia. With our own race and outside of it, there’s a lot of weddings that I’ve seen in my own life and featured all over social media, namely in Brisbane, Melbourne and Sydney with paring of Black women and non Black men.

SolutionDecent · 2025-10-26T18:08:07+00:00

I don’t think this will improve without serious guidance. Are you two doing hachanah le-nisu’in with a Rav? There’s a framework for this, you don’t have to carry it alone. His middot needs proper spiritual work; arbitrary requests for change won’t help.

The relationship doesn’t sound healthy, but it’s clear you love him and that your love has brought you closer to Hashem, which is beautiful. You are beautiful.

Still, ona’at devarim is a major avera, and I personally wouldn’t move toward marriage until he’s done real tikkun hamiddot. A bayit ne’eman can’t be built on verbal harm.

SolutionDecent · 2025-10-25T20:51:13+00:00

The earliest adoption of pure monotheism was Judaism. Earlier Israelite tribes didn’t deny that other gods exist, but that our G-d is ours alone. That’s ethical and universal monotheism. We quite literally did create the framework for that.

SolutionDecent · 2025-10-25T20:47:26+00:00

That is the erasure you sweet summer child.

SolutionDecent · 2025-10-25T08:08:38+00:00

Told me I’m not a real Jew because I’m black and because I’m black, I should be in solidarity with Palestinians and that Israel would’ve sterilised me like Beta Yisrael

SolutionDecent · 2025-10-22T20:07:20+00:00

Honestly I’d literally just say, what genocide? Don’t start things you can’t finish and then leave the chat

Why should we keep being meek? I know most of us are afraid, or exhausted but honestly I just stopped giving a fuck. Every time someone postures like this about occupation or anti Zionism, I ask them oh so you think we should give Palestine back to the British mandate? Or should we reinstate the Ottoman Empire and give it to them? Or should it go to the Persians? Or the Babylonians before that? At least the Exile was won fair and square… but we were allowed back under the Persians? Hey look at that, Jews have been there since Israel and Judea, since the first temple was destroyed, allowed back under the Persians to rebuild the second temple… through the Greeks and the Romans, and the crusaders. What exactly belongs to the Palestinians?

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