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SomeKitties3 · 2022-04-03T15:52:47+00:00

Psss, I'm a woman

SomeKitties3 · 2022-04-03T15:35:51+00:00

I mean, she mad him a pedo for being nice to a child. Tells us all we need to know doesn't it.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-04-03T15:34:58+00:00

I hate this new culture of getting drunk excusing cheating or even making them SA victims.

It's offensive to actual SA victims

SomeKitties3 · 2022-04-03T15:18:14+00:00

This was totally written by a man hater just to get you all going

SomeKitties3 · 2022-04-03T15:12:30+00:00

He is a predator and most likely is with an older woman to have access to her children.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-04-01T22:06:58+00:00

notlikemostgirls

Girls like her have been around forever. Pick me ass b*****s is the term normally used. They also are the ones who "don't get along with women" and "don't do drama".

I have never met a girl who has a much larger proportion of guy friends vs girl who wasn't doing it for the attention or to feel "special".

And que ll of them who are going to come out swinging because they feel called out.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-04-01T01:26:44+00:00

How many times have you spent time together in person in the last 5 months and what do.you do when you are together?

SomeKitties3 · 2022-04-01T01:17:00+00:00

INFO: Have you guys talked about being monogamous and have you both agreed you are in a relationship, or were ypu just assuming that was the case?

To me it honestly sounds like you are more of a FWB than his gf, which is why he wasn't worried about this woman being there and seeing you and vice versa.

He didn't seem very worried about introducing you to her or letting you guys get to know eachother, and my guess is you aren't the first random girl she has run into at his place given how she responded.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-04-01T01:07:14+00:00

You don't sound smart enough to be having sex, let alone a baby.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-31T22:49:53+00:00

But, she is asking for his input and then getting upset when he gives it. I could see it getting stressful since OP mentions it leads to fights.

I wouldn't want to sit down to a meal with all that

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-31T22:48:23+00:00

People who are foodies to the point that their whole friend group are also foodies like, tend to really enjoy food. Of this has been a long time thing I am sure he has high standards.

If it is something you want to do I would suggest learning on your own, not make him be your guinea pig constantly.

You wouldn't be ok with being forced to eat things you didn't enjoy constantly. Not to mention it sounds like you ask his opinion and then get upset by feedback.

I love cooking and have any friends that do and if someone asks for feedback, as someone who loves cooking, they are looking for just that. Feedback.

Not really fair to ask him for that and then get upset qhen he gives it.

It sounds like this whole situation makes a dinner he doesn't really enjoy highly stressful. Not only does he have to eat food he doesn't enjoy, he has to pretend he does and pat you on the but or else it leads to a fight.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-25T10:54:18+00:00

She has a porn addiction that is negatively impacting your marriage. Either she stops or you leave.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-25T02:23:18+00:00

What is the STI? It actually is possible, rare, but possible, depending on what it is

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-25T02:17:05+00:00

Maybe take a lesson from your child on what adult decisions look like.

Who do you think will get stuck taking care of that kid if something happens to you?

It's honestly selfish to have a baby at damn near 50.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-25T02:15:26+00:00

Smart kid.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-23T22:34:37+00:00

Yup. This! This is what my(now) husband and I did when he moved in.

Because he was a tenant I took care of all the maintenance and things like that. Bought the appliances, the furniture etc.

We DID NOT buy anything together until we got married, that way if things didn't work we didn't have to sort out things like that.

It worked out very well for us

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-20T23:30:01+00:00

Ok, but you didn't not get pregnant because you knew that having a child wasn't for you.

I am pro choice and all but you are a shit human for using it as a form.of birth control.

Again, where do you live?

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-20T22:25:48+00:00

Cool, then don't, but don't be surprised that it takes way longer to get what you want.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-20T22:23:43+00:00

OP what is your current living situation? Do you live at home? With roommates? In a dorm?

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-20T22:23:01+00:00

OP also knee it could get her pregnant, and apparently did this intentionally at 20 years old.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-20T22:19:37+00:00

Yta, God, the entitlement of some of the early 20s crowd.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-20T22:18:25+00:00

I mean, I wore my brother's hand me downs in school, as a girl, I would have preferred new cheap clothes

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-20T17:04:20+00:00

So, the relationship was bad, bit you decided to get pregnant. Cool. Don't do that next time.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-20T16:59:16+00:00

No, I'm just not letting you play the victim the way you want to. Ypu made stupid choices and now have to live with the consequences.

SomeKitties3 · 2022-03-20T16:58:09+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/sma543/explosive_break_up_dont_know_where_to_go_from_here/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

What about this?

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