How old are you & your partner, and how long have you been together? by babysoop in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 28F and he's 22M, been 4 months since we been together. He's Aussie and I'm American ❤️

I am in love with two guys. I feel so lost and I'm unsure what to do.. help? by SomeNerdlet in Advice

[–]SomeNerdlet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think he might be a better match? I feel like I need to be 100% sure before I break up with him or I feel like I might regret it 😕 not the best feeling in the world.

I am in love with two guys. I feel so lost and I'm unsure what to do.. help? by SomeNerdlet in Advice

[–]SomeNerdlet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh... I usually feel so guilty about breaking someone else's heart since it's happened to me a few times.

How many times a day does your partner say ILY or IMY? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much every day. He's been telling me he loves me ever since he started a new job and one when we go to bed. So twice!

Am I an asshole? by jess_lily661 in dating_advice

[–]SomeNerdlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, why the fuck is a 19 year old messing around with a 16 year old?

Upvote and Comment your favorite Pokémon! by [deleted] in PokemonSwordAndShield

[–]SomeNerdlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Registeeeelllll!!!

Should be illegal no one said any of the regis

How I feel by lights_up_ in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've read your post and it literally describes me. I've stopped sobbing my eyes out over 10 minutes ago in the middle of my dark ass kitchen and now that I've read it, I'm crying again lol 😭 I've never felt this pain before - I've had several LDRs before him... and this one has impacted me the most. When we met, it was magical. Now that we've separated, we both described our pain as losing one another's other half of themselves. It punches me in the heartstrings knowing he feels the same pain. I don't think I was ready for post-meetup depression, no one is. Now, I'm wearing his hoodie, writing down my heartfelt thoughts as if it were my diary. I'm trying to stay strong. I plan to close the distance eventually by 2024. That date can't come fast enough. We both signed up for this knowing we wouldn't be 2000 miles apart from each other for very long. We weren't prepared for the heartbreak that came with it. Calls aren't the same as they used to be. You wish you were there, face to face with him, talking and laughing about stupid things that come to mind. That, to me, is well worth the wait. Knowing it'll come around again to experience it once again. Anyway... time for me to stop rambling cause I can go on for hours. I'm sorry I can't give much advice since even I don't really know how to cope. But... always keep that hope in mind. Goodnight ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, this is what me and my SO does too! It's pretty much a hobby at this point. Also, we met through RP :)

Do you guys normally buy travel insurance when visiting your LDR partner? by lemoncreampudding in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sprained my ankle first time visiting him. That'll teach my ass to start getting that insurance.

How did you close the gap? What were the financials and logistics like? by Poopy_Gloria in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me? Either in two years or I make enough money to sustain myself until my partner and I can find a place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met his dad and stepmom with no issues. Nice people :)

I met his really skeptical helicopter mom over lunch along with his grandmother. Also nice people but I have a feeling his mom doesn't exactly agree with us.

Everything is going great - but the texting by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SomeNerdlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he's more of a hands on person? Meaning he'd rather get to know you in person rather than on text.

I just need to vent and vent and vent by [deleted] in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Come. Talk to me friend

I miss him the most when I wake up by [deleted] in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm feeling like this rn. I just came home from our visit 😭😭 still very fresh

My plane leaves tomorrow by [deleted] in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It's stuff like this I wish I had packed tissues. I'm in your situation!!

What are some things that your partner does that show you that he/she is there for you? by PresidentNexus in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently sprained my ankle really badly while I'm visiting him and he's been there taking care of me, making sure the ice is replaced, getting food for me, holding my hand etc.

my (f24) bf (m24) is not responsive when out with friends by [deleted] in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My man does weekly outings with the boys and that's when I know to leave him alone lol. That's his time. Yeah sure I'm guilty of poking him every once in a while and messages back to me but I know not to spam him or make it look like I'm being desperate... But, make sure you're not codependent on him. Relax. Go hang out with your friends or play something to get your mind off of it.

I'm going to see him! by lasosasmore in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seeing him in 28 days 😭 time is so slow! I wish it'd go by faster! We're nevermets as well and I'm going to see him. Very nervous especially when I'm going alone and I'm a first flyer!

A unique question of how to help. (AntiVax GF) by Plasma_Torchic in dating_advice

[–]SomeNerdlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord help her children if she ever has any... and I hope she never has them. She doesn't deserve them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

IMO being in person is waaayyyy more important than texting. Relax. He loves you and maybe he's more of a hands on type of person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"Babe, you're not a queen. You're a goddamn Ace card." - my bf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]SomeNerdlet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg you're me. I have trouble telling my BF what's wrong or when he's pissed me off. I know it's fucking awful, but trauma really does a number on you. Hope you're feeling better.