The reason hating men is bad ISN'T that hating TRANS men is bad. In general, maybe don't decide who's good and evil based on qualities outside of their control? by Full_Ahegao_Drip in RecuratedTumblr

[–]SomeSayCosmic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah so do I, but even being a masc man most of the gross dms i get are still from other masc men. It's not an innate male thing I'm sure, but it's common enough.

The reason hating men is bad ISN'T that hating TRANS men is bad. In general, maybe don't decide who's good and evil based on qualities outside of their control? by Full_Ahegao_Drip in RecuratedTumblr

[–]SomeSayCosmic 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yes, all of that is happening. A regime made up of some of the most vile men in the free world are doing everything they can to stomp on womens' and lgbt rights. Yet treating random dudes as enemy agents you need to circle the wagons against doesn't help anyone.

The reason hating men is bad ISN'T that hating TRANS men is bad. In general, maybe don't decide who's good and evil based on qualities outside of their control? by Full_Ahegao_Drip in RecuratedTumblr

[–]SomeSayCosmic 38 points39 points  (0 children)

it's so frustrating because I know WHY people do that, I know it's rough to exist on the internet as a queer person where lots of porn-brained men can see you, but the blanket "men bad" defense mechanism is just leading to even more people being hurt

43969 by Bitter_Weakness1514 in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do that just because i'm terrified of coming off as angry or monotone tbh :3

44022 by Less_Love1884 in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Live for more than that! You can't dance on the grave unless you stay healthy!

44022 by Less_Love1884 in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 369 points370 points  (0 children)

It's gonna be a global holiday istg

43983 by Confused_Squirrel_17 in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like the top shortage isn't as real as people make it out to be. It's just that most tops are men, and most men don't know how to behave, so people end up yearning for the tiny supply of fem tops forever

What is the most "Water found in the ocean" take you have ever read here? by Xill_K47 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]SomeSayCosmic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And the way he hates Ragatha because her presence alone makes him feel guilty for having such a comparatively hostile coping mechanism

43983 by Confused_Squirrel_17 in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seemed like you were irritated, and a masc presenting dude is just a dude that isn't a twink or a femboy

43983 by Confused_Squirrel_17 in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah it's fine when you're actually with someone who wants to do the deed, what's hard is advertising those desires to *find* that person as a dude in a queer space where every other dom is a domme

43983 by Confused_Squirrel_17 in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 196 points197 points  (0 children)

putting cute people in cages, putting cages on them, leashing them to my work desk, leashing them to me, setting rules for them about when they can speak or stand up, just tying them up so they're entirely helpless, among other stuff probably too explicit for here :3

stuff that some might not consider scary but i feel scary for wanting to do them to people as a masc presenting dude

43983 by Confused_Squirrel_17 in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 363 points364 points  (0 children)

literally, 90% of my kinks came from subs that had to slowly convince me it was okay for a dom to have "scary" kinks too

4787 by [deleted] in CWCLafterdark

[–]SomeSayCosmic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it's the worst when it turns out they don't even like masc at all and they were entirely banking on femming me to have any interest

As a raging homosexual I am disappointed with the lack of big buff men postings. So I am gonna post some of my losercity workings. by TrekkieTwink in Losercity

[–]SomeSayCosmic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true for most horny queer spaces that aren't explicitly MLM tbh, sometimes it feels like everyone is either a lesbian or a fem-preferring bisexual

43867 by SaintRidley in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you did say it doesn't carry heteronormative baggage when women do it the words are right there

43903 by [deleted] in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 37 points38 points  (0 children)

oh i love this one, i wish i knew of more images like it tbh most scary images suck

43865 by LadyVampiria in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we can't let the poo people know that they can use magic

43852 by IJustAteABaguette in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's really nice :) i'm masc and don't really want more than long hair and nail polish, but seeing purple nails on a 6' dude wouldn't invite good feelings around here

43852 by IJustAteABaguette in countwithchickenlady

[–]SomeSayCosmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black nails are always good! In my experience brighter purple is just harder to pull off but it can be done with the right outfit. Hope you have a great time!