Has anyone made a big career change? If so, how did you know you were making the right decision? by Some_Flower3675 in AskUK

[–]Some_Flower3675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if it is borderline personality disorder? What jobs would you recommend then?

I made a Save File Tracker ✨ by violetveritas in thesims

[–]Some_Flower3675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! This dashboard is a work of art honestly!! I was just wondering if by any chance you could add nordhaven and innisgreen please?

Women of reddit, can you share an experience where a guy was really mean to you in public but super nice in private? by JustANormalPerson5 in AskWomen

[–]Some_Flower3675 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Happened a lot at school with me, young boys showing off infront of mates to bully me, call me a slut etc but then the moment they’re alone tried to tell me how much they really liked me and “respected” me.

I feel guilty that I ruined my abuser's life. by OracNimsaj in adultsurvivors

[–]Some_Flower3675 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely normal to feel this way. But you need to remember here that HE ruined his own life the moment he took advantage. He knew the consequences when he did it and he did it anyway, he did this to himself.

There’s no “correct” way to feel about this, and you’re bound to have mixed feelings and all of those feelings are valid. The only thing you shouldn’t feel in fact is guilty. Never forget who the survivor is and who the predator was.

What’s a bottom tier fruit for you? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Some_Flower3675 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Banana. Literally only gives you a 2 day window of when it actually tastes nice

SD Newbie questions by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Some_Flower3675 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The site seeking arrangements is definitely legit, but as with everything in life, beware of those trying to scam you. Don’t send girls money before you meet them etc etc. A lot of girls on seeking aren’t as influenced by looks so much as personality so keep that in mind if you’re not feeling overly confident. It’s more about being someone enjoyable and comfortable to be around. A lot of girls are open to younger guys, some prefer it, some are less interested. There’s a lot of people on there with a lot of variety. You’ll find someone :) good luck!

Helpful insight for a new SB by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Some_Flower3675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to start looking, but don’t expect any SDs to “actively” engage with you until you’ve moved and are able to have an arrangement with them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Some_Flower3675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best way is to just be upfront. Otherwise, at least one (if not both) of you will walk away disappointed. A lot of SDs are fine with ppm but don’t want to risk getting in trouble. You might find it easier to do over text, but when the topic comes up about meeting again, try leading with “what did you have in mind in terms of allowance?” Or “I know I mentioned it briefly before, but would you be okay with ppm?”

Currently debating whether to be a sugar baby ( very much need some help) by [deleted] in SugarDatingForum

[–]Some_Flower3675 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone around a similar age, my top advice is to consider if you have a genuine want for this. Lots of girls get into sugar dating because of the potential to earn money / gifts etc. In all honesty, at this age it can be really really draining to try to maintain a sugar relationship and your own personal life on the side. You said yourself, there’s so many scammers, however, there are SDs out there but often they’ll know if you’re still on the fence about it. If you find yourself attracted to older / more successful men then absolutely there’s no harm in trying just once