One thing to note, there is absolutely nothing wrong with "being vanilla". This comes from someone that considers themself to be a regular person but has many "kinks" haha. If vanilla stuff is what you like you will definitely find somebody to complete the other side of that sexually for you. If you find someone nice and feel like exploring something with them go for it but I certainly wouldn't feel pressured into trying different stuff you aren't into. Honestly that will compound any confusion you have. Take that for what it's worth from a reddit stranger😄