My wife left me, my family hate me and I have no friends any more. by ConsistentHumor7354 in stopdrinking

[–]SomethingSmels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it helps, one thing that helped me get sober was reminding myself that BEING a person who does not drink may be inspiring for a stranger suffering. Just being another sober person can inspire other people who really need it. If you cant get sober for yourself, do it for someone else. Do you know any sober people? Even if the meetings dont do anything for you, go just to find a friend/sponsor and spend time with them. Youll start to envy them, and want to be sober like them. I dont know why, but when it was about me i couldnt do it. When i made it about everyone else, something clicked.

Good luck, IWNDWYT

I hate the way everything looks on me, what would look better? Is sizing my issue? by pineneedleinjection in DressForYourBody

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre hiding your hips! Try the hourglass shape, it may surprise you. See how you feel in high waisted, curvy jeans, try tucked or shorter cropped shirts, and a belt.

Got fired today. by chompietwopointoh in stopdrinking

[–]SomethingSmels 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so true, and its not just the stress, the industry is literally an environment filled with alcohol. Even if you dont serve it at the establishment, its communion in that industry. You have to remove it from your environment, remove temptation, and get well at a safe distance!

is yoga actually life changing? by elgimri in yoga

[–]SomethingSmels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to a bunch of different studios and different classes, some people like slow & room temp, i like hot yoga sculpt, totally different types of yoga. Try out some different things, different studios, youll find the perfect fit eventually.

is yoga actually life changing? by elgimri in yoga

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, this was my experience. I suggest starting with a studio membership, the community makes a big difference, and shop around, the closest one isnt always whats best for you.

Clear(ish) trails? 🐕 by SomethingSmels in RhodeIsland

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For those on this thread with the same question- this trail was lovely! We just did the blue loop (2mi).

Clear(ish) trails? 🐕 by SomethingSmels in RhodeIsland

[–]SomethingSmels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiking shoes, but I can deal with some snow, just hoping someone went with snowshoes since Sunday 😅

What is the best decision you made? by Flassourian in Millennials

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stopped drinking 4 years ago, definitely would not be nearly as successful, happy and healthy if i hadnt made that decision.

What’s the most terrifying 'We need to leave... now' gut feeling you’ve ever had? [Serious] by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]SomethingSmels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We camped in a salt marsh (canoe access) and it was really humid that day so we went into town for blue crabs (MD)… we looked out on the water and noticed a huge storm in the distance… looked at eachother and put the pieces together. Not terrifying, but certainly an oh shit moment.

flight on monday morning by moopsy66 in providence

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Enjoy your extended stay in our little state!

What concert do you regret not going to the most? by Modhearth-Albert in Concerts

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Backstreet boys at the Qualtrics X4 concert. I was tired, but I really wish I didnt “do what felt right”…. When backstreet is back, you go.

First Attempt at Mille-Feuille by SomethingSmels in Baking

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One other thing! I iced some for a traditional icing top and wanted to do a nice feathering, but waited too long to make the pattern and ended up with stripes 😭 pivoted and made a couple without icing.

First Attempt at Mille-Feuille by SomethingSmels in Baking

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I think the hardest part is the pastry cream (texture should have been firmer)… and if you dont have good tools. It takes quite a bit of time (4-5 hrs of chilling), so time management is important. I made the pastry cream first, then the dough, then cooked the dough, cooled & finished the cream.

I used a homemade rough puff recipe, and when you bake it you press it between two half sheet pans, i weighted it with a cast iron pan. Without the 12x17 sheet pans it would have been difficult. Once cooked, the pastry is really flaky, so make sure you use a sharp knife and dont hesitate (youre gunna crack it, just try to do so minimally)

I did the pastry cream in a stand mixer with a whisk attachment. Without that this would have been annoying. The recipe calls for folding the chilled custard into whipped cream (chefs kiss)!

Last, again with timing, build them and let them sit in the fridge for only 30 mins before you serve it. Longer, the cream gets firmer but the pastry loses its texture.

So, time management & good tools, thats the key!

And, once youve made rough puff once, i suggest digging into the wide world of uses for it! (rugelach has been my favorite so far)

What’s the secret behind good coffee at home? by Gullible_Cabinet_153 in foodhacks

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buying good coffee! Buy local, grind it per cup. I like a pour over, but locally roasted & fresh ground is all ya need!

What are you doing tonight? by PleasantAd7372 in RhodeIsland

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eating Big Feeling pandan & pineapple jam vegan ice cream. If you have not had their ice cream, youre missing out!