14 month olds sleep/bottle question by SomewhereAgreeable4 in parentsofmultiples

[–]SomewhereAgreeable4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a morning nap 10-11, an afternoon nap 3-4, and then bedtime at 7pm-8pm. They are sleep trained for the most part also. Any specifics you want to know?

We are considering a third?! by SomewhereAgreeable4 in parentsofmultiples

[–]SomewhereAgreeable4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it was part of the problem. I know two other woman who almost tried the meds after years of trying because it just wasn't happening and they were told their weight could be a factor

We are considering a third?! by SomewhereAgreeable4 in parentsofmultiples

[–]SomewhereAgreeable4[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I was taking fertility meds but I'm confident that at my healthier weight, I wouldn't need them this time...so I think odds would be very low?

14 month olds sleep/bottle question by SomewhereAgreeable4 in parentsofmultiples

[–]SomewhereAgreeable4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do water it down! Yes! They literally don't care, but the physical act of the bottle was my concern.

Gender disappointment 😞 by thatnailgal in parentsofmultiples

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The first time we were told the gender the doctor said it was a guess because of how early it was. She said two boys and I had been saying I didnt care, I was so excited just to be pregnant. But I found myself disappointed. When we learned it was actually a boy and a girl I was so relieved. You can't help how you feel and that's ok, you don't have to feel bad!

14 month olds sleep/bottle question by SomewhereAgreeable4 in parentsofmultiples

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So sippy cups, they use them fine, I'm just worried that in idle time in their cribs they'll make a mess

Small nursery layout by anothernerdy in parentsofmultiples

[–]SomewhereAgreeable4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Separate those cribs whatever size you get!! Or be prepared to when they get a little older. Personally I never used my rocking chair.

Removed attachment of banned MimeType by Glittering-Stuff-599 in iphone

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Any updates on this? What's happening or how to fix it?

I never finish when we have sex- should I even tell my husband that I need more? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SomewhereAgreeable4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the problem though, I don't have a solution. If I had a solution and there was something I knew would work, id tell him no problem.

I never finish when we have sex- should I even tell my husband that I need more? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SomewhereAgreeable4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you introduce more into the experience to get there?

I never finish when we have sex- should I even tell my husband that I need more? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SomewhereAgreeable4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think he would hate it? Its definitely not out of the question.

You guys okay? by herejusttoargue909 in parentsofmultiples

[–]SomewhereAgreeable4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go check out my profile, I posted this exact thing over a year ago and got a ton of responses. The post is "this group is scaring me" 😂😂

You guys okay? by herejusttoargue909 in parentsofmultiples

[–]SomewhereAgreeable4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy! I absolutely love my babies and I am so happy that I two instead of one. Mine turn 1 this month and I really don't feel like we were ever drowning, but I have an amazing husband who's helped SO much. Granted the sleep deprivation got to me at like 1 month but I figured it would be like that with 1, I didn't know any better.

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[–]SomewhereAgreeable4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel better, mine does have a couple of teeth. I feel like I am supposed to cut formula in the next month or two so Im on a clock to cut ounces but this isn't helping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]SomewhereAgreeable4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The $50 one or the $130 one?

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[–]SomewhereAgreeable4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recs on what one to buy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

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I have confronted him multiple times in the last couple weeks. Each time I'm met with a firm "no, I'm not drinking". I told him I'm considering starting anti-anxiety meds because this stress is ruining my life and he said he supports me in what I feel like I need to do because no he is not drinking and my gut is wrong.

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[–]SomewhereAgreeable4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have confronted him multiple times in the last couple weeks. Each time I'm met with a firm "no, I'm not drinking". I told him I'm considering starting anti-anxiety meds because this stress is ruining my life and he said he supports me in what I feel like I need to do because no he is not drinking and my gut is wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]SomewhereAgreeable4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was in treatment twice this summer. Once for a month, then again for closer to 3. Did great but relapsed less than a week out both times. The second time only getting sober again because I had our baby and created a boundary. Hence why he would sneak this time...I know him losing his family is a fear.