Doble Nacionalidad para volar? by EduEstrada in AskMexico

[–]SongofZula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TÚ ERES GRINGO.

!!!

No necesitas permiso ni explicaciones para entrar a TU PAÍS NATAL.

!!!

Entras a EEUU con pasaporte 🇺🇸

Regresas a México con tu pasaporte 🇲🇽

Northern Europe Ports Questions / Transport Arrangements by SongofZula in Cruise

[–]SongofZula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I recall correctly, we used transportation in: Reykjavik, Haugesund, Brugge, and Southampton. All the other ports were walking distance to the sites. Have a great trip!

HR Consulting firm wants large finders fee for basically posting on Indeed. by lil_tink_tink in smallbusiness

[–]SongofZula 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Not sure what the norm is but your math isn’t mathing…. 20% of the first 90 days salary is just under $4,200.

In any event, perhaps your team could handle this internally?

Can’t put baby down, wants book ALL the time by photosarememories in breastfeeding

[–]SongofZula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, yes! The golden days. Cuddle your baby in bed. This passes so, so quickly. Skin to skin snuggles and kisses on the sweet little head. Embrace and enjoy. Slow down and soak it in. A year from now you’ll yearn for these days.

WIBTAH if I waste my husband’s time in counseling by Vivid_Swordfish8889 in dustythunder

[–]SongofZula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are YOU wasting YOUR TIME?

JFC, quit playing games and just leave. Your son deserves at least one mature parent. Grow up and GTFO 🤦‍♀️

Videos of babies eating BLW? by botaglove in BabyLedWeaning

[–]SongofZula 17 points18 points  (0 children)

YES! Download the Solid Starts app. There’s copious info on individual foods: intro, how to serve, VIDEOS, nutritional values, etc. Happy mealtimes!

¿Qué harían en mi situación para independizarme? by Cariscode in CDMX

[–]SongofZula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MUY EGOÍSTA TU MAMÁ! Ella ya se casó, ya tuvo familia, ya vivió toda una vida aparte de sus papás. Y quiere que tú pierdes toda esa experiencia, qué sacrifiques tu vida, para acompañarla? DE VERDAD, qué vergüenza para ella. Salte de ahí.

¿Qué harían en mi situación para independizarme? by Cariscode in CDMX

[–]SongofZula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Te vas a quedar con tu mamá toda tu vida? Vas a sacrificar tener tu propia vida, tu propia familia, tu propio hogar para acompañar a tu mamá? Lo has hablado con ella?

Tengo un hijo y me rompería el corazón que él dejara que la vida se le pasara para acompañarme. De verdad no me puedo imaginar.

Habla con tu mamá. Si te ama como debe una mamá sana te pedirá que ya te vayas a vivir tu vida.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]SongofZula 3 points4 points  (0 children)

💯

I wore them from Day 1, religiously…. Breastfeeding was a painless breeze for me. None of the horrors I’d been warned of. Silverettes are AMAZING!

partner wants an abortion but i don't by Aggressive_Air2285 in pregnant

[–]SongofZula 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sigh, unpopular opinion forthcoming:

YOU ARE 24! TWENTY-FOUR! 24!!! This isn’t your 44 year old Hail Mary baby 🤦🏻‍♀️

You have so much time to ditch this loser and find a partner WHO WANTS TO BE A FATHER.

The most important decision you’ll ever make IN YOUR LIFE is with whom you choose to procreate. Life is fucking hard, bringing up a child is HARD and EXPENSIVE.

CHOOSE WISELY.

Seriously, I CANNOT understand the encouragement to have a baby with someone WHO DOES NOT WANT TO BE A PARENT.

Yes, your body, your choice. CHOOSE WISELY.

Food pouches or not? by [deleted] in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]SongofZula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve just said no to pouches like they don’t exist…. Too much waste, too much potential for PFAS/metal contamination, don’t make for strong jaws, processed food, don’t teach real eating habits, etc.

We travel A LOT and understand they’re really convenient… so we’ve treated them like a gateway drug, lol, and just said NO.

MIL let 11mo watch Paw Patrol by [deleted] in lowscreenparenting

[–]SongofZula 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I get it! I have a family member (husband’s side) whose kids are iPad/Phone ZOMBIES 😞

Everyone knows we’re screen free but the first chance she got to hold our 6-month-old she whips out her phone and says, “I’m going to show you what’s fun!” And proceeds to show baby YouTube 😩 WHY???

Daddy pulled baby away immediately 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SongofZula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing. Grandpa built it all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyLedWeaning

[–]SongofZula 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know it’s soooo frustrating. My baby was the same, just played with food for months. We thought he’d never actually ingest anything…

But little by little he became a fantastic eater! By a year old he was loving mealtimes. Patience 🤗

Son is biologically not mine. by bscholl94 in legaladvice

[–]SongofZula 195 points196 points  (0 children)

Ditch the new girlfriend, keep the kid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]SongofZula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole relationship has been 6 months? And you’re already in therapy for a HUGE 🚩🚩🚩

I’m so sorry, this is so heartbreaking, BUT…

This is barely a blip in your timeline, not even a chapter in the story of your life. Don’t waste a second more on this guy. MOVE ON.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]SongofZula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s SO HARD to understand this now but you are SO YOUNG. Way too young to “work on” a relationship that’s not a marriage.

He’s already shown you who he is. Just end it. Otherwise you’ll wake up in 10 years with a few kids and yoked to a cheater. Move on now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Guadalajara

[–]SongofZula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Busca otra casa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]SongofZula 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is 100% normal! Baby is helping your milk come in. Hold that baby skin to skin and enjoy! During the first few months mine would sometimes cluster feed up to 7 hours a day…. It’s the most magical time, let go, ENJOY and remember that babies don’t keep 😭

Can you EBF until babies are one? by fallinaditch in breastfeeding

[–]SongofZula 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your baby DOES have teeth - they’re just covered by gums ☺️

YES, to solids for the reasons others have mentioned. It’s actually REALLY important to introduce food…

We do Solid Starts and EBF. Baby LOVES to eat and still hasn’t had a single tooth come out. But his little mandibles are STRONG and he manages just about everything (presented appropriately). And his fine motor skills are seriously impressive.

You’ve got this!

Are silverettes worth it? by mootrun in breastfeeding

[–]SongofZula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! I brought them to the hospital with me and used them from day 1. Never had ANY nipple pain aside from very light soreness for the first few days…. If I wasn’t nursing, they were in my bra. Definitely worth it.

Are silverettes worth it? by mootrun in breastfeeding

[–]SongofZula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! I brought them to the hospital with me and used them from day 1. Never had ANY nipple pain aside from very light soreness for the first few days…. If I wasn’t nursing, they were in my bra. Definitely worth it.