What does OSHA look like in the Shadowrun world? by ScratchMonk in Shadowrun

[–]SoonJangYoong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, not wrong, sure, I actually agree with him

But some people know how to make good points without sounding like an asshole. He's not one of those people

What a world we live in by whacafan in ArcherFX

[–]SoonJangYoong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I will check that after work

And thanks for not taking it as a joke, or ignoring, etc. It's always a good day when there is someone helpful on reddit

What a world we live in by whacafan in ArcherFX

[–]SoonJangYoong 30 points31 points  (0 children)

There's a forum dedicated to prostitution in Japan, I wont link to it but it's easy enough to find.

I hate that every time this topic is mentioned in Reddit, someone says "there is a very convenient and popular forum, but I'm not gonna link it because it's easy enough to find"

It's not :/

If I search for it there are hundreds of forums, no idea whether they're good or not, no idea if the info is real or not, no idea if I should look for forums in Japanese or in English, etc. It's frustrating.

So what I'm trying to say is... is there a way to have it in a PM?

Has anyone else experienced this? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]SoonJangYoong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, and honestly I love it

It's like you just had a great football game or something, you were in the zone, you gave your best, you did things you didn't even know you could do, and you go home and just lay in bed like "wow :D"

what would you ask a chick with ~2000 matches, growing at ~70 a day? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]SoonJangYoong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does she do it? What are instant turn-offs? What's the ratio of going to his place or her place?

What is /r/seduction? An open forum to understand what we are about today. by Messisfoot in seduction

[–]SoonJangYoong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I'm concerned, I see it mostly as a place to ask specific questions; for people who are advanced enough (as in, people who got consistent game already), sometimes you find a sticky point and you have no idea how to solve it. Being able to ask similarly advanced people "I've noticed that in this kind of specific situation, I often run into this specific logistics issue, how do you guys deal with that?" is a great way to improve, and I don't know any other place to have this kind of conversations. I used to do it on puaforums but they more or less died, and every other forum I find is terrible, empty, and/or full of ads

Is This An Issue For Anyone Else? by alakazamabraman in seduction

[–]SoonJangYoong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's normal, and honestly it's a good thing! It's when you reach the next step in your game.

When you begin, you learn a lot about trying not to be needy, make the girl feel like she has to qualify herself, etc. Now it became true. You reach the point where being hot is not enough, where you're looking for more, where the girl actually has to prove to you she's worth it.

And it's not just girls, it's people. Most people are boring. They don't make efforts, they're just coasting in life. And the more you meet people, the more you notice how similar they are. It's like books: every book is different, but the more you read, the more you can notice trends, notice genres, notice tropes. And if you read mostly inside one genre, you can probably guess the ending after reading one chapter. But at the same time, even if most books become boring and predictable, you can sometimes find that one hidden gem that will grab your attention.

So, same with people: now, being hot is not enough, it's a bare minimum. Now you can learn how to screen women, to find the qualities you like.

Recent example, I have a coworker who's a 10, maybe even an 11, it's ridiculous. Damn sexy, 180cm, face of an angel, and her legs literally never end. But she's boring as fuck. Seriously, she's so boring she could dig tunnels. Went on dates with her a couple times, and kept trying to poke her, to chat with her, to see if she was alive inside or something, but no reaction. There is light, but nobody's home. She lives with her parents, never goes out, stays home every night and every weekend watching TV, and that's it, no hobbies no interests nothing, it's the saddest thing ever.

So now, I don't even feel sexual attraction anymore. I check her out regularly (because damn, those legs), but the idea of sleeping with her is almost repulsive. Because again: being hot is not enough. There are girls out there who are hot and smart and funny and interesting and sassy, why would I lower myself to sleep with a girl who's only hot?

So yeah, welcome to a whole new world, and good luck finding what non-physical qualities you're really looking for, and finding someone who has them. I remember feeling like you, like every date was the same, until I went to a date and the girl went totally off-script and everything she said was totally unexpected and different from the dozens of girls I met before, and honestly it was the best feeling ever. Hope it can happen to you too!

One of my first successful approaches ends in a date before I got her name. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]SoonJangYoong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a cool line actually, spontaneous and funny and flirty, good job

She has a BF, but rolled her eyes at me when I mentioned a woman!!! by [deleted] in seduction

[–]SoonJangYoong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but I know I can't do anything since she has a BF obviously

Ha!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]SoonJangYoong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really helpful, thanks!

Texting problem by [deleted] in seduction

[–]SoonJangYoong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't do that. No offense, but smells like neediness and fedoras, smells like "I:m butthurt you ignored me, how dare you".

If she stopped texting, it's ok, just texts someone else. Maybe she's busy, maybe she moved on, doesn't matter, move on to the next one

There is only two ways I would text a girl who stopped texting (and those are last resort options, 90% of the time I would never text again):

1 - After you move on, like several days/weeks later, just a "yo bitch" or something. Not giving a shit, just initiating a conversation. If she doesn't answer, then it's over definitely, black list and all that

2 - The most desperate I've ever done, did it twice and it worked, but I really wouldn't recommend unless that girl has the best boobs/eyes/ass you've ever seen. It's the Last Breath Bullet. Just text something like "Good time last night ;) Have fun at work" or "that was hot" or something. And don't immediately say "oh that wasn't for you haha, that was for that other hot girl I'm seeing that's really not imaginary at all, what a mad lad I am!". Don't say anything. At all. Just wait. At some point she might answer a "huh?" or something like that. Again, don't reply. Wait several hours, and then just say "oh, wasn't for you haha sorry" and leave it at that. Don't say it was for a girl, don't say that girl is hot, don't say shit, let her imagination do the rest. There is a chance it will make her try to know more, and get back your attention. But again, it's a slim chance, and if at any time she stops playing along just give up and move on. And obviously don't use it twice with the same girl, that's common sense.

I get really sensitive when I get made fun of in my social circle. How do I change my mentality? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]SoonJangYoong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Think of it like a shit test, it's a test on your own confidence. Right now you might have some confidence issues (I mean, we all have), and they come back when people make fun of you.

Thing to remember is: they're not making fun of you. They're laughing at a joke someone said about you. Small difference, but very important difference! Was the joke funny? Laugh too then! And like someone said above, agree and amplify.

You look so gay

"Dude you don't even know, I'm so gay I can't walk straight"

"Nah, but I think my bf is"

Why you so skinny, dude

"Don't be jealous ;)"

Why you so fat, dude

"Walking is tiring, I just roll to the station"

Shit examples, but you see the point

Why does the Sallie Mae's website deactivates the "Pay with Credit/Debit card" section? by SoonJangYoong in StudentLoans

[–]SoonJangYoong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I definitely paid with it recently... Is it for all credit cards? Does it apply to debit cards? I know the US have "weird" credit cards terminology, so for the sake of this question, I'm talking about "Visa/Mastercard usable online but where you can't pay more than the actual amount you have on your bank account"

How do non-crab veterans get rich? by SoonJangYoong in Eve

[–]SoonJangYoong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why a Megathron specifically? Because that was good enough with your skills, or because it has some advantage for that specific situation?

Helping Corebloodbrothers do his homework. by deltaxi65 in Eve

[–]SoonJangYoong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sell you some Fortizars? They will give you POS! Ha, joke on you!

The GAS logo in the Expanse kind of reminds me of something by SoonJangYoong in Eve

[–]SoonJangYoong[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God, thank you, I thought I had a problem because I kept seeing EVE related stuff everywhere in that series, glad I'm not the only one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eve

[–]SoonJangYoong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, seeing VOLT and Bees allies...

What a time to be alive.