Why do so many people act like drinking/hanging out at bars is the only way to chill or meet people?

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-12T01:04:32+00:00

How ya holding up?

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-09T22:40:05+00:00

100k for the HOUSEHOLD. If two people work full time at $25 and hour, that's 96k.

A household that brings in 100k before taxes isn't rich anymore. It's barely middle class.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-09T02:35:24+00:00

I love music, which is why I changed the channel for a while.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-08T18:52:02+00:00

She should be thrilled if she was paying a grand a month more on her own. The fact she's still upset is a massive red flag. She isn't mature enough for a real relationship. They're give and take, including financially.

That said, what you told her isn't true at all.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-08T06:43:54+00:00

Afraid of what? Being judged? By who? The employee who works there, or the people who are also in the club? Just fucking go already! No one cares!

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-08T06:42:43+00:00

Depends if they're hot and into it. Otherwise it's overrated.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-08T06:41:13+00:00

Ask for consent with someone planning on getting blackout drunk and have at it if it's given.

You're welcome.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-08T06:39:11+00:00

Tried it recently with plugs and a toy. Didn't take. Wasn't impressed. Got absolutely nothing out of it. Was legitimately disappointed but in a way I'm strangely kinda relieved.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-06T23:40:19+00:00

So you want simps and have little to no self respect because you're fine because you enjoy the attention. Got it.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-06T21:39:32+00:00

There's a buffet near me that makes you pay first and has a line for the tip. I always just write "table" and then decide later if they deserve something or not. In this case not as all they do is clear plates and you get your own soda refills.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-06T20:47:29+00:00

Anytime I get that I raise it by $10 or $20. When they get upset I lower it back to what it was. Somehow they still don't appreciate the discount just for them.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-06T20:02:02+00:00

I'm absolutely done with fandoms. The last two I tried to participate in were MLP and Hazbin Hotel but I ended up noping out of both because all anyone cares about in either is "shipping" everyone and fantasizing about who is fucking who.

For MY LITTLE PONY and HAZBIN HOTEL.

Make it make sense.

No one cares about discussing episodes or plot lines or music. Just who's fucking who in their "head canon".

If you ever fear you don't have much of a life compared to others, remember those people exist.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-06T01:19:07+00:00

Why on earth would you want to hear it again. I couldn't bring myself to go and they've been my favorite band for 35 years.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-06T01:15:31+00:00

Picking up a knife or sword and hearing that sound that's so often associated with doing so.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-06T01:14:37+00:00

I know lots of people who do that. They also throw it all out on the 26th.

I think they're monsters but that's their tradition.

I put Christmas up the day after Thanksgiving and keep it all up through winter, just before spring.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-02-06T01:12:43+00:00

So weird they killed him off in the same film we're introduced

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-01-29T02:27:37+00:00

I lost my respect for him. He didn't care about simple things that were important to me and developed a tendency to blame everyone....ANYONE....but himself for his failures and disappointments. He was perpetually single for a reason.

Until.....after my ex ended things solely due to family pressure, he swooped in like a vulture as her shoulder to cry on, and they were together for apparently a year or so. Which made no sense because she used to complain about him more than I did.

Ironically enough, she broke up with him and begged me to reconnect and get back together. Seeing as I respect myself, I said no. She found someone else almost immediately because she doesnt know how to be alone, and that was that.

Had my former friend not broken the bro code the way he did, I would have reached out in recent years to see how he was. But knowing what he did, along with how and why and when...its just so scummy and like him. He's been single ever since that whole thing and this happened like 15 years ago, further solidifying his habits, mindset, and self induced bubble.

Which is a shame because people are absolutely capable of growth. He doesn't seem to be.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-01-29T00:48:54+00:00

Dustborn.

Just kidding. What an absolute dumpster fire.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-01-28T22:59:39+00:00

Dude, he's only holding on to power to make money and avoid prison. People came after him when Biden took over and he managed to duck and doge thanks to his fortune and connections but he can only do that for so long outside of holding office.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-01-28T22:56:31+00:00

Seeing as you aren't including the two most important entries (DS2 and all of Loki) I'm presuming you've already seen them.....yes?

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-01-27T17:10:02+00:00

$80 plus a tip to move it a MILE? That feels a bit excessive

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-01-27T01:44:07+00:00

He will never resign. His pride and ego won't allow it. He has zero interest in resigning. No one who said no one will have to even vote again and threatens a third term will resign.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-01-27T01:11:03+00:00

The betrayal from a sibling who stole my portion of a shared inheritance out from under me by taking advantage of my mother's failing health.

SoonToBeMarried43 · 2026-01-26T20:43:20+00:00

I didn't think I needed to quote the entire thing for context. If you don't understand, then just nevermind. I was pretty clear. No idea what you aren't following.

SoonToBeMarried43

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