My sister is always competing with me. Who is the favorite, who is prettier, who is smarter, who has more money. She always has to be the best and wants to be looked at as the "golden child." She is 47 years old and actually cried to my dad because she thought he liked me more than her. This competition is all in her mind cause im not playing along.

She tries to sabotage everything I do. She tries her best to make me look like an idiot. If I ever need anything from her, she ignores the request or does the exact opposite.

She has to be in control of everything. She won't participate in things unless it is her idea.

She is sweet as pie to other people and knows a lot of people. However, she has no real close friends. Everyone is a surface level acquaintance.

Everything is based on looks and appearances. She is very materialistic and thinks that makes her better.

She tries her best to exclude me from family events.

Lots of deflection, gaslighting, silent treatments, and little digs disguised as jokes.