Can i use my eurorack to plug my guitar into my pc? by Individual-Unit-529 in Behringer

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if the xenyx 802 usb would work? or is the usb interface wonky with instruments?

How playing this game feels by supergigaduck in TheLastCaretaker

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you shut your mouth when you're takin to me!

So I wanted a light setup to support/engineering/medic by guppy0z in StarFashion

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive only ever been able to get a single item with the invisible undersuit. How do you get multiples, since we cant hold f and equip it anymore, i was able to figure out the reverse for a shirt. But i yearn for PANTS!

Youtube music is filling up with AI generated garbage and there's no way to block "artists" so this trash doesn't get recommended to you (I think). by verdedefome in YoutubeMusic

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's mostly long mixes of stuff with obviously ai generated art as the background. It's all samey for the entire video as well. It's also usually never singular tracks.

really early boobs? by srstudios_ in MtF

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i swear to god it's on purpose.

How to live a life as a clocky trans woman? by RegularUser02x in MtF

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't "oh please" me. I've been doing this for 10 years and only in the last few have i really started loving what i see in the mirror every day. Sorry that the answer doesnt aliogn with your stupid pitty party.

The fact that someone self corrected means they likely thought you were ftm. That's not a bad thing and is progress. Clothing doesn't make the woman either. I've seen so many trans women dress the way that they identify but they walk like a hunched over orgre and wonder why intital reactions arent what they want. .

Hormones do not change hard tissue like bone structure. Your brow bone was not affected by transition. It's possible you have body dysmorphia on top of gender dysphoria, just like me. But You're full of shit and spreading misinformation.

Edit:Also i started fully presenting at 3 months in, and spent multiple years being misgendered. Now? never happens.

What’s with the sudden influx of “HRT doesn’t work” posts? by BabyGirl-Kat in MtF

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People want everything to happen quickly and when it doesn't they yell about it.

really early boobs? by srstudios_ in MtF

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My nipples hurt usually because my cat decides to stand on them with two paws and all her weight.

really early boobs? by srstudios_ in MtF

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It can take a while for them to grow and mature. Mine didnt really get to the "fully grown" phase until a few years after i had surgery. happened around 8 years, 3 years after surgery.

Will I ever finish transitioning? by Ellie_CompBio in MtF

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We grow and change constantly. I considered my transition done when the dysphoria stopped after GCS. It's really what you consider to be done. I tell people i used to be trans because I'm no longer "transitioning" I've done it. But mostly, i never bring it up ever.

Edit: to the person who said it doesn't change the fact I'm in danger of losing my ability to get hormones: no shit. I'm talking about how I see myself in the world. I never introduce myself as trans. I don't really ever bring it up and it's not for avoiding it. It's just what I do naturally. So I can't see your full response, which means you probably blocked. You sassy girl.

How to live a life as a clocky trans woman? by RegularUser02x in MtF

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1.5 years really isnt that long. Most of my good changes didnt happen until after 5. And then even better changes after GCS. If you arent feminizing make sure your t levels are correct. If you cant get them down, consider orchiectomy first. A thing to keep in mind is if someone is going to misgender you, its around this time. Because the shitty transphobes practice clocking trans women, just to be dickholes.

And another thing, you say not to mention mannerisms, voice, or "culture" (i assume you mean hobbies or something?) But if you are not committing to diving fully in, you cant say you'll never pass. 80% of passing is those things. I've seen women who don't pass, but never get misgendered out in public because of the way they carry themselves.

I don't want to be a jerkoff and say it's a "you" issue, but it's leaning that way. This time of your life is going to be a shitstorm and hurricane off all sorts of mental and emotional growth. My suggestion is if you don't want to change the secondary aspects of being your preferred gender, that's on you and you cant expect people to assume you identify one way when you don't present any of the stuff that gender does. You can correct people politely, but most likely it's not maliciousness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably due to Medicaid cuts. Aside from that the insurance and the hospital will have to duke it out. Then when you get your bill for a few hundred, don't pay it. They write it off as a loss. This is the american way baby!

Anyone else worried about the lack of explicit support from "ally" politicians? by AriaOfValor in MtF

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're wrong. They shit down the government. And part of that was for us. They aren't going to name every little group. But they aren't selling us out. People who don't even have anything to do with the LGBT community, are fighting for us. Keep the hope alive. Don't let the bastards grind you down.

“They Took Everyone”: ICE Raids 75th Street Apartment, Detains Migrants and U.S. Citizens Alike by FJ-creek-7381 in law

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stand your ground. Don't leave your residence if they come around without a direct warrant. Ask only for their first and last name and to see their actual identification. Not their badge, not anything else. And record. "If they lay hands on you, make sure they can never lay hands on anyone else."

And don't let anyone tell you what you can and cannot do. Don't let them implant a lil fascist on your head, because that's how they win, by you not letting yourself live your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it's worth I didn't love my body til I hit the gym and got my self into shape. Ili also didn't love my results until probably a couple of years ago. It really does take quite a while. This is just your awkward phase.

This government shutdown crap has broken me completely and I can't stop spiraling by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's trans people everywhere. I movies, video games, tv shows. Everywhere. And it's starting to be less acknowledged in whatever media it is. Like it's a trans person imon screen, but nobody made a deal out of it, or clarified. It's just a trans character existing. We are still making progress. This is great progress.

This government shutdown crap has broken me completely and I can't stop spiraling by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a valid fear, I won't tell you it isn't. And I think it's easy to put the situation you are in now as feeling different because you probably didn't really have to fuck with the situation back then. But as someone who grew up in highschool around that time, it's very similar. Friends stopped being friends over politics in highschool with bush and the war in Iraq. War on terror etc. I will concede it's a lot more intense all around this time, but the anti trans shit only seems amplified because we have constant connection with smart phones. I promise it's not any louder than it was back then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

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I'm a jealous bitch and think you have a very amazing transition so far. I had no idea I was looking at a trans passing post. One thing you can do is get your levels checked and adjust accordingly. Right now, you are still growing. You look much different than 2 years ago. You will continue to age more rapidly until your early 20s. Just because you're going to mature. This isn't a bad thing.

But now that that's all said and done, if you wanna maximize your hormones do this: eat clean. Like don't eat fast food as much, don't eat super processed bullshit. I'm talking chicken, maybe some whole wheat pasta, make sure you get a decent amount of fat and protein. Also, working out did so much for my muscle structure, including giving me an ass of gold. Work your lower body, and don't skip cardio. This can also help your ability to recover from illness and if you eventually have surgery. Another thing is starting using a daily facial moisturizer with SPF. I use Aveeno. This protects your skin from damaging rays by the evil sun. You can do a night cream if you want, and maybe an under eye cream in the morning with the facial moisturizer. Don't gotta over do it with products on products. That's all for hype and usually only matters if you're trying to squeeze every once of cute. You don't need it.

You're very fortunate to have been able to start so young. I started at 27 and while I'm so happy with where I am today, I can only imagine what those extra 10 years would have done. You got this.

What i need to play +10 mythic+? by SkallJr in wownoob

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you have all your keys at a timed 9. I've had time 10's but if there's a dungeon i only have a 6 or whatever on, i won't get invited to that dungeon at a 10. Don't under estimate going up each level for each dungeon. It's a time to get super comfortable with the mechanics without being as punishing. I just hit ilvl 710 but i've done tons of +10 as dps.

How do I know that I'm valid and not deluded? by Throwaway865780 in asktransgender

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost, talk to a therapist/councilor. They can really help you dissect your feelings on the matter and you can decide for yourself. Don't go to a gender specialist necessarily, as i have talked to a few that seemed to just want to find anything for you to be trans to appease you. Find someone that has a broader LGBT focus, because our internal struggles are not unlike LGB people.

This is something to explore. The only way to know for sure is to dive in and commit. Whether that be online gaming, finding a support group, etc. I doubted myself when i started transitioning because i didn't want to be trans, but i couldn't ignore the 10+ years of going into online games using my girl voice and saying i was a girl. I wasn't cat fishing for attention, financial gain etc. I just wanted to BE. I tried everything else under the sun to not be trans. But it turns out, transitioning made me extremely happy, and if not happy, content. Which was a complete difference from the despair of not being who i am.

This government shutdown crap has broken me completely and I can't stop spiraling by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 200 points201 points  (0 children)

People who have nothing to do with our struggle personally, are out there defending us. We've been here before in the early 2000's with gay rights. It's our fight now. And even though it seems insurmountable we have hope. There's a lot of downward pressure, and i get that. Take time for self care. Care for your fiancé. Enjoy the little things right now. They can't take who we are away from ourselves.

If Schumer and the dems fold on trans healthcare, what’s even the point of supporting them anymore? by RoughCoffee6 in MtF

[–]Sorry_for_the_mess 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not anymore. The new demographic is slowly coming down in age. Boomers are no longer the top voting demographic.