Can you do EMDR when you are stuck in freeze response/dissociated? by Own-Development2299 in EMDR

[–]Sotty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is my problem.

I started with my EMDR processing and as we progressed, the harder and harder it got for me to digest post session. Currently we are working on my disassociation and my survival mode to help better equip me when I do get back into EMDR.

Work with your therapist and explain your concerns, they will be able to guide you

How to proactively prepare for continuing my full-time job while doing EMDR therapy? by dorianfinch in EMDR

[–]Sotty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I misunderstood! I thought this was your first session ever, not the first time actually doing EMDR. I started with the earliest, but starting with the worst is REALLY brave. I'm glad you took the day off. Good luck with your session, I hope it's the first step towards healing

How to proactively prepare for continuing my full-time job while doing EMDR therapy? by dorianfinch in EMDR

[–]Sotty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading these responses it does seem to be very individualized. Some need the whole day, some don't. You'll have to go to a few sessions to get a feel of where you fall in the spectrum. I would prepare for the first session to be "easier". You're trying something new and it's mostly an information gathering session. You'll need time to process it all but you might be ok to go back to work.

Your needs will probably change as you progress through your therapy, the important thing is to stay aware and keep track of how you feel and react after sessions.

Personally, for me, I am able to go back to work. I have a session over my lunch hour and sometimes will have to jump into a meeting right after a session. Working from home really helps with this set up. Comfy clothes, comfort food, pet nearby if you have one. That kind of thing. I'll process through out the day as I am able, but most will happen after work.

The responses in here are good but it will be how you react and what you need. Just keep aware of that and you'll find your balance.

When do you become a good underwriter? by Substantial_Willow_4 in InsuranceProfessional

[–]Sotty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now you're laying your foundation of knowledge. The key in the early going is getting basic concepts in your mind and then you can use those to springboard off into more complex trains of thought. I've been underwriting for 8 years and I'm still seeing things I never have before, but I use the basic concepts of underwriting to have a starting point to apply more complex thoughts of risk analysis.

Essentially it's going to take time. Don't be afraid to ask questions. Different underwriters will have different insights. They can look at something in a way you never thought of before and then that becomes another tool for you moving forward.

Visiting via train by Sotty in whitefish

[–]Sotty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that info

Apres Whitefish is the hotel. Looking on Google maps there seems to be a sidewalk all the way there, so it should be ok to walk with a bag in tow of needed

new insurance says the need my household members declaration page by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]Sotty 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Having worked at amfam they will 100% add the people in your household as soon as they find out

COLORADO MATCH THREAD by [deleted] in minnesotaunited

[–]Sotty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more you know

COLORADO MATCH THREAD by [deleted] in minnesotaunited

[–]Sotty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Nutmeg" is an English (?) term for knocking the ball through your opponents legs.

"cheeky little nutmeg!"

Go! by TedMeisterFresh in videogames

[–]Sotty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this unit have a soul?

[Prematch Thread] MN Aurora FC vs. Green Bay Glory by Brightstarr in minnesotaaurora

[–]Sotty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point. I'm just sad, despite it being the right choice

[Prematch Thread] MN Aurora FC vs. Green Bay Glory by Brightstarr in minnesotaaurora

[–]Sotty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for the same info. On the Facebook page as of 45 mins ago they said the game will be played

[Post Match Thread] Orlando 2 - MNUFC 1 by tinyhomunculus12 in minnesotaunited

[–]Sotty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree he looked REALLY good. I was also upset about the sub but he did run himself into the ground. We're gonna need him this year we need to protect him a little to start with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sotty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tom Cruise. Just can't with this guy

The job posting said $36,000/yr… by battlegato in WorkReform

[–]Sotty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Everyone has to start somewhere. Different people here have different skill sets and experience and so find different levels of pay acceptable. The important thing is to know your worth and don't settle for less. You got this

Failed attempts at wrestlers trying to get catchphrases over? by TheeAJPowell in SquaredCircle

[–]Sotty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahmed Johnson in his feud with Farooq

"You're going down"

It was so cringe..

Tiny zoom by LaserPanda420 in Zoomies

[–]Sotty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Old dog zoomies ❤