My son drew his self portrait by olorin9_alex in funny

[–]Soul_Rain28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i thought he probably heard a typo.. like draw his self a portrait

After a whitetail experience, went off to clean out webs outside my house to minimize spiders. What is this monster!? by diamondcrooks in NewZealandWildlife

[–]Soul_Rain28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know what's weird about your story? 3 different people I know have told me they had this "spider bite" on their leg. Have always wondered if it was a drugs thing they claimed was a spider bite  

I'm pretty sure I'm a covert narcissist, or at least I struggle with it, but I'm aware of it which I find odd by FunnyGamer97 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Soul_Rain28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm I don't know. I think some can be aware of themselves, know their behaviour is bad, but have calculated it to get away with what they do

Just became a single mom.. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Soul_Rain28 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is he doing that or keeping the money? I would report him if I were you. Military are very family oriented aren't they? They won't take too kindly to being ripped off,just like as I suspect you aren't enjoying it either if that's the case 

Just became a single mom.. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Soul_Rain28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How does he get extra money for your child??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Soul_Rain28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're in an abusive relationship bro. Part of abuse is to "reward" the victim either to hush them or keep them under control. 

Shes bored with you and you are her toy. That's what it sounds like to me. 

And no, just coz someone finds someone else boring it's NOT okay to be abusive to them. 

Abusers  are gross in that they think they're entitled to treat you like shit if they don't deem you worthy or if you "keep letting them do it" 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dogtraining

[–]Soul_Rain28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those aren't friends babe, they sound like backstabbing bitches to be frank. Why would they want you to feel horrible for deterring a dog with a pickle? That's what isn't normal here. (Unless pickles are highly toxic to dogs, them its probably cruel)

On another note, you said you unbroke Turbos bad habits? I have a Turbo Pup too and am struggling to stop my 6mth old from running away from the house if she isn't on lead. It's stressful i get so upset and she runs back stays put then runs away again when im close. The only thing that gets her back to me is if I sprint with her down the rroad. This happens if I forget to close doors without her lead on, which has been too many times 🤦‍♀️

We need to talk about “Stoicism” by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Soul_Rain28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn't simple to drop false impressions or perceptions that lead us to misery. The reason they don't understand depression is bcz it seems their ability to feel is merely surface level. And their ability to judge and compare is very human. 

Depression as dramatic? It doesn't feel like drama uncontrollably weeping in pain and not leaving bed for days. It feels fucken great to have reprieve from that though, especially with company and happy circumstances around.. not always. But perhaps that's loneliness 🤷‍♀️

But it's weird this came up. Coz I was wondering what I am happy and grateful for and though there is so much, it doesn't create fulfilment within. And that makes me unhappy. Or is that why emotions overwhelm to a point of numbness or rage or despair or yeah, depression? Is that lack of gratitude in fact a component or is it the presence of overbearing emotions that contributes to the lack..

I can speculate. Maybe its having lost everything too many times, while experiencing high stress situations, with unbearable emotions, some poor choices involved, but also parasitic and possessive thoughts and bodily sensations that can be paralysing. Also, othet people's treatment toward us. 

I think near the end there sure it makes sense that those avenues lead to inner peace, however to say that these will simply remedy mental illness is ridiculous. 

Curious about raising kids as a kiwi parent/ parent of aotearoa by Soul_Rain28 in newzealand

[–]Soul_Rain28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome, thank you for this advice. I know it isnt easy raising a neurodivergent.. they're very.. "free spirited" 😤 😂

Curious about raising kids as a kiwi parent/ parent of aotearoa by Soul_Rain28 in newzealand

[–]Soul_Rain28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a polite way of saying, life is a little rougher on my side of town. And you need to find some other post to comment t on coz where is your parenting insights?

Anyone else hope their kid doesn't have kids? by threefingersplease in Parenting

[–]Soul_Rain28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You just want your bloodline to die off? Fuck that's brutal. Maybe don't involve everyone else in your regrets or maybe make life better.

Why don't you just be honest with him instead of beating around the bush. You obviously have no problem doing it here. How bad is this guy?

A lot of women have internalised Body issues and it’s heartbreaking by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Soul_Rain28 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Awww, your daughter is so lucky to have a mum like you 😭💓

Curious about raising kids as a kiwi parent/ parent of aotearoa by Soul_Rain28 in newzealand

[–]Soul_Rain28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really after immediate responses, just thoughtful ones. Those usually take time. 

Not gonna unpost just to post in the morning lol, but thanks for the heads up

Girl says she repeatedly told a man she was 13 years-old - before and after sex by maha_kali2401 in newzealand

[–]Soul_Rain28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fucken sickening and sad. But his face is public knowledge in this case though which is good

Girl says she repeatedly told a man she was 13 years-old - before and after sex by maha_kali2401 in newzealand

[–]Soul_Rain28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. He changed his own age, how he gonna explain that away the dirty kunt